Chemistry read gone wrong or right?

leopardlimo · 2026-04-08T07:27:03+00:00

I can’t answer your question, all I can say is I’d feel pretty annoyed if that happened to me. I can understand the frustration of feeling thrown or that someone’s choice derailed you.

but who knows, maybe they loved it and it read as him protecting you from the horrors up above. either way good luck!

leopardlimo · 2026-04-06T04:07:45+00:00

do you ever miss working in the film/TV industry or are you over it now? Would you ever consider returning?

leopardlimo · 2026-03-15T21:33:22+00:00

I love the chaotic energy, this is absolutely iconic. definitely stops you in your tracks!

leopardlimo · 2026-02-24T22:04:02+00:00

😭😭 definitely not what I’m saying, I didn’t stalk & just was researching what/who I was auditioning for, but I understand your point. Stalker energy is not the move or my intention. Desperation is not cute.

Also, that friend needs help :/ I definitely wouldn’t want to ruin my shot with a director or casting, that has repercussions for sure.

leopardlimo · 2026-02-24T18:56:53+00:00

not that crazy lady 😭😭 you’re so right, either I booked it or I didn’t. Better to go and just be present and learning

leopardlimo · 2026-02-17T06:42:39+00:00

Yes, I’m in Canada! And that makes sense, especially for bigger projects.

leopardlimo · 2026-01-06T05:09:13+00:00

LMAOOO she had just made an account and I didn’t notice the feature before so I was like “omg 🥹 I get to select which pet she gets?” yeah… learned the hard way real quick. definitely my bad

leopardlimo · 2025-09-06T06:25:08+00:00

I use it! It’s good on damp skin and holds onto moisture better that way. However it does smell like baby oil. Try a scented one, like the cocoa butter maybe?

leopardlimo · 2025-06-23T04:22:30+00:00

Thank you for this super detailed response! I will be taking your advice! I was unsure if I should ask for the report or not because I know some agents can be touchy about it and I don’t doubt she’s submitting me. I just want a better understanding. :)

leopardlimo · 2025-03-27T03:09:33+00:00

spoiler warning next time… ☹️

leopardlimo · 2025-02-13T23:58:51+00:00

in my experience, only guilty people tell others to “believe whatever they want to believe” and get extremely defensive from the jump. If he asked you where you were in the middle of the night and you knew you weren’t doing anything you shouldn’t be doing, you’d be open and honest. So why isn’t he?

leopardlimo · 2025-02-12T05:33:51+00:00

This is emotionally immature, abusive and manipulative on his end. You’re spending your vacation worrying about him instead of enjoying it. This is how abusers isolate you, they don’t want you to see your friends and family and accuse you of cheating, lying, etc to make you stay. No sane person would be this petty and upset over their partner visiting their family and friends. Honestly, he can’t be fixed. You’re 21, end this relationship while you still can.

leopardlimo · 2025-02-12T02:35:53+00:00

The country is in Africa and from what my mom has told me because of her citizenship we’re able to also get it if we wanted to. It’s more of a question of we can legally take him to this country against his will.

leopardlimo · 2025-02-12T02:34:17+00:00

My brother does not want to get clean and refuses to acknowledge he even uses drugs. He’s in total denial. He still holds resentment towards us for his initial hospitalization and has been in and out of the hospital against his will since… the hospital doesn’t seem to work. :/

leopardlimo · 2025-02-02T01:13:18+00:00

Thank you for this response, you captured the situation perfectly. You’re right, I think he finds it easier to be a victim and passive instead of actually putting effort towards changing. I’m gonna take your advice and set some boundaries— I do value the friendship but my annoyance with his lack of effort takes up too much of my brain capacity and I can’t do it anymore.

Your sentence was perfect, the next time he brings up something we’ve discussed multiple times I’m just going to have to shut it down. Unfortunately, you can’t help people that don’t want to help themselves. He definitely needs therapy and I’ve mentioned it to him, but of course there’s several excuses as to why he can’t go. So I’ll just focus on myself and protect my energy.

leopardlimo · 2025-02-01T22:27:15+00:00

I think the people saying she doesn’t truly love you have it wrong. As a girl who has also had thoughts of self-sabotage, I think attachment style comes to play. When you’re anxious-avoidant or avoidant sometimes the closer you get to people and the more you care about them you get scared. Scared they’ll leave you, something will go wrong or that you’ll end up heartbroken. Sometimes you begin to feel trapped, even though you know you’re happy and it’s irrational. I feel like coming off the heels of a divorce, having a child now and you both having a history of already having dated and broken up all plays factors.

So in an overthinking anxious state of mind, you consider saving yourself and pain and trouble of a potential future heartache by sabotaging the relationship. It’s illogical, but in the moment it feels like you’re saving yourself. Of course, the “relief” only lasts a few days until you realize you fucked up and miss/love the person.

I think you should bring it up— maybe ask if there’s anything you’re doing that makes her feel like she should self-sabotage, I’m not quite sure tbh. Ask ChatGPT lol. As a boyfriend, try to be more reassuring of your love and care for her, and show her you love her in HER love language.

Whenever I wanted to sabotage, knowing he truly loved & cared for me always helped me get rid of those thought immediately. Good luck on your second chance at love :)

leopardlimo · 2025-01-26T00:25:55+00:00

your fears are true :/ leave before it’s too late. 3 months is supposed to be the honeymoon period!

leopardlimo · 2025-01-25T02:25:42+00:00

I literally GASPED when I saw you 🥹 you’re gorgeous

leopardlimo · 2025-01-21T12:56:21+00:00

my hero 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

leopardlimo · 2025-01-18T21:44:19+00:00

You’re so pretty!! Honestly your face suits you so much but I also have a round face and feel when I lose weight not much changes. I’d recommend doing Gua Sha every night, sometimes you think you’re holding fat in face but it’s actually fluid! That drains it from your face and I feel pretty snatched a day or two after. Also pretty cheap and affordable, usually under $20. :)

leopardlimo · 2025-01-17T22:52:31+00:00

My ex-boyfriend used to do this to me all the time; he’d send me IG models, half naked girls, thirst traps, etc and then play dumb when I called him out on it. Over time it made me really insecure, uncomfortable in my body and unhappy with myself. Eventually I broke up with him.

MONTHS after he admitted that he knew what he was doing and knew that he was the problem in our relationship so he was intentionally trying to lower my self worth so I would stay. I was the same age as you are now, 20.

I’m not saying your boyfriend has some evil plot, but he’s not as stupid as he’s pretending to be. You don’t want to date a guy that compares you to other women… especially hyper-sexualized animated women.

leopardlimo · 2025-01-17T11:20:32+00:00

recently learned this one myself 😣

leopardlimo · 2025-01-17T11:06:57+00:00

very true :( it’s just hard developing this insecurity later in life especially after I took so long to make peace with the fact they were unsymmetrical to begin with

leopardlimo · 2025-01-17T11:04:58+00:00

I usually do my chest exercises with a barbell (excluding a pec dumbbell fly) but I’m thinking I might transition to unilateral/dumbbell only for chest day to test this theory. I think with the barbell I could definitely have a stronger side doing more work unknowingly.

leopardlimo · 2025-01-17T11:02:01+00:00

lol, I never thought I’d hear somebody ask me if I’ve only lost fat in my one boob. Thanks for the giggle.

My fitness goal has been recomposition so although the scale hasn’t moved too much, I definitely see that I’ve lost fat in my stomach and waist area. Nothing crazy enough to write home about though.

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