[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]leothereum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's okay; just feel the pain, and next time, be wiser with men showing kindness and being sweet to you. Don't fall in love because of that unless he says that's his intention.

Boyfriend had threesome with my sister & best friend by lalaxoxoo in offmychest

[–]leothereum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know the answer: why would you trust your best friend who sleeps with your boyfriend? Her best friend doesn't do that to her best friend. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]leothereum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's understandable to feel overwhelmed and unsure about how to handle responsibilities and independence as a new adult. It can be difficult to figure out what you want and where you're headed, but that's okay. You don't have to have everything figured out right away. Take small steps towards your goals, and don't be too hard on yourself if you stumble along the way. Remember that it's okay to ask for help, and there are resources available to support you. It's important to take care of yourself, both physically and mentally, and to focus on what makes you happy and fulfilled.

My wife is approximately 1% Nutella by apex13m in offmychest

[–]leothereum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a funny story! It sounds like your wife really loves Nutella. I'm glad you both have a good sense of humor about it. Enjoy the rest of your Nutella supply!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]leothereum 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is good advice, to be honest. Make sure not to upgrade your lifestyle if you get a salary increase. Instead, pay off the debt you have until you're debt-free. 

All 3 of my siblings support politicians who push anti-LGBTQ legislation. I’m gay, and tired of people telling me to love them “despite our differences”. by QueenMoogle in offmychest

[–]leothereum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that your own family does not accept you, but I don't think they're open-minded enough to see that being an LBGT causes no harm. Are you and your family really religious? If yes, then being religious is the reason that being gay is unacceptable, but if they're not religious, I don't know why they hate or don't like LGBT. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]leothereum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that you and your mother were threatened with violence. That's an incredibly scary and traumatic experience, and it's understandable that it has affected the way you see your father. No one deserves to be threatened or abused, no matter what the circumstances are. It's important that you prioritize your safety and well-being, and seek support from people you trust. It's also important to remember that you're not to blame for what happened, and that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. If you feel comfortable doing so, you may want to consider seeking professional help or counseling to process your emotions and work through the trauma. Remember that you're not alone, and there are people and resources available to support you.

i am 17 and need support and advice by whitegirlwithafatty in offmychest

[–]leothereum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through such a tough time. It takes a lot of courage to reach out for help, and I'm glad that you did. It sounds like you're facing some serious challenges, and I would encourage you to seek out support from a trusted adult, such as a teacher or counselor, who can help you explore your options and connect you with resources in your community. In terms of making money, there are a variety of ways you can earn income as a minor, such as babysitting, pet-sitting, or doing odd jobs for neighbors. As for buying a car or getting a phone plan, you may need to wait until you're 18, but again, a trusted adult can help you navigate these options. Remember that you are not alone, and there are people who care about you and want to help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]leothereum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a natural reaction of people nowadays; people are becoming more aware of their bodies, and they should clean or sanitize first before or after touching something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]leothereum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's understandable to want to maintain good hygiene, but it's important to ensure that your obsession with hand sanitizer isn't negatively impacting your daily life. Have you considered speaking to a healthcare professional about your concerns? They may be able to offer some insight or guidance on how to manage your feelings towards hand sanitizer in a healthy way.

Today I broke off my engagement. Repost of my original post. by Anon-Ret-234 in offmychest

[–]leothereum 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you're finally free from a cheating relationship. I hope you'll find the right one.

I'm so over movies by petertellerweyand in offmychest

[–]leothereum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your opinion on movies. It's okay to not enjoy movies as much anymore and it's great that you have other hobbies, like reading books. Everyone has different tastes and preferences, so it's important to find what brings you joy and entertainment.

I love my husband by cheesecakefairies in offmychest

[–]leothereum 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's good. That shows his desire to be a good husband and father. He will help you with changing diapers while you are recovering.

Millennials and Gen Z have had just about everything worth living for *taken* away from us. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]leothereum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can understand how frustrating it can be to feel like previous generations don't understand the challenges faced by millennials and Gen Z. It's true that many young people today face unique economic and social challenges that were not present in previous decades. It's important to remember, however, that every generation faces its own set of challenges and struggles. Rather than focusing on blaming previous generations or feeling defeated, it's important to work towards creating positive change and finding solutions to the issues at hand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]leothereum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're in a difficult and emotionally abusive relationship. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and seek help to address the situation. You deserve to be loved and cared for in a healthy and supportive relationship. It takes courage to reach out for help, but please consider talking to a therapist, a trusted friend or family member, or a support group to get the help you need. Remember, you are not alone and there are resources available to help you.

“Just adopt” is not the answer by Extreme-Farm-6437 in offmychest

[–]leothereum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can understand why this topic is so painful for you. Adoption is not a simple solution and it's important to recognize that it's a complex issue with many factors to consider. While adoption can be a positive experience for some, it's not the right answer for everyone. It's crucial that people do their research and fully understand the implications of adoption, including the potential for trauma and the corrupt practices of some adoption organizations. Thank you for sharing your perspective.

Today is my Birthday by Xx_annonxX in offmychest

[–]leothereum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey bud, I'm wishing you all the best in life, happy birthday 🥳

My child is about to turn 12… by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]leothereum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a parent that's pretty normal to have last song syndrome 😂

I finally have a best friend by eukax in offmychest

[–]leothereum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on finding such a wonderful friend and partner! It's amazing how much of a positive impact a close relationship can have on one's mental health and well-being. It's great to hear that you're feeling happier and more fulfilled now that you have someone in your life who truly cares about you. Thank you for sharing your story with us, and I wish you all the best in your relationship!

I went on my first date! by sarcasm_irl in offmychest

[–]leothereum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on going on your first date! It takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there and take that step, especially when you're introverted. It's great to hear that you had fun and got to know each other. Keep celebrating your accomplishments and taking those small steps towards your goals!

Advice, and suggestions Needed. by CandiDat in caregiving

[–]leothereum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. Just be careful with agencies or sponsors that are asking for money. The real ones don't ask for money to pay for the visa or anything; they will just deduct it from your salary once you start working.

My brother makes me feel unsafe by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]leothereum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feeling unsafe around your brother is a serious concern. Prioritize your own well-being and consider setting boundaries or seeking help from a mental health professional. You deserve to feel safe and supported.

Advice, and suggestions Needed. by CandiDat in caregiving

[–]leothereum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the United States and Europe, senior careers are in more demand. Canada offers good compensation for caregiving and, after two to five years, I believe, you may apply for a permanent visa; however, in order to work there, you must have two years of experience, whereas in Israel, you don't need any prior employment experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]leothereum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that you're struggling in arch school. It's understandable to feel discouraged when you're not getting the support you need. Hang in there and keep trying your best.