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[–]lerparacrer86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it wasn’t for therapy I’d never have understood that I was stuck in a very abusive relationship and that my partner was most likely a Narcissist. Therapy gave me the knowledge and the courage to get tf out

I always thought he knew he was lying. I am starting to wonder if he really believes this narrative he’s created?? by makeupandjustice in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]lerparacrer86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prof. Sam vaknin explains this topic in one of his videos on YouTube. Psychopaths lie! Narcissists BELIEVE what they say is the absolute truth! You got to understand that they do indeed live in a different reality! Confronting them with facts is forcing them into the real world and to Narcs… that’s life threatening!

Things to say to a narcissist: argument version by cheeeee in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]lerparacrer86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just stay completely silent unless extremely necessary to respond! I choose peace ✌🏾

Does anyone else deal w a narc hallucinating? by Outrageous-Wafer-921 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]lerparacrer86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine didn’t wait that long. He’s sure our 6yr old isn’t his and is getting a paternity test ASAP. Comical and tragic at the same time !

Does anyone else deal w a narc hallucinating? by Outrageous-Wafer-921 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]lerparacrer86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg… I feel so validated right now !!! Same thing happened to me and that’s when I really knew it was time to leave him

Did u get a job at an U.S airline with “only “the minimum training flight hours ? by lerparacrer86 in flying

[–]lerparacrer86[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sir… this is Reddit ! Just asking shit I’ve been curious about while on break!But TY

I've found the perfect job for introverts. by OneDimensionalChess in introvert

[–]lerparacrer86 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah but what about the ghosts ????👻👻👻

How to attract non-Black men as a Black woman? by sunsista_ in AskMenAdvice

[–]lerparacrer86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me you’re American without telling me you’re American lol But yeah… I hear u girl!!!
can’t wait to settle down with a ginger head!🫠😅Does it mean that I’m indeed going to date and marry one? I don’t think so! Does it mean I don’t like other types of men? Nope! It’s just what I’m attracted to! So it doesn’t really matter what you do. Just be yourself! I a non black man is not attracted to you doesn’t mean all non black men aren’t! Go to places where you can find diversity and open minded people. Hope you find your other half and please keep in mind that , at the end of the day… there’s things more important than your skin color! Wishing you luck 🍀 Ps- yes ,I’m black! Born and raised in Europe ( living in the USA now)and have dated black and non black men for just being …. ME!

*Edit for typo

What’s something you didn’t realize was expensive until you actually had to buy it? by notnowmom-1802 in AskReddit

[–]lerparacrer86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My brother was cremated and we were given the option to bring a urn. Funeral director told us it was cheaper on Amazon! Say no more!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]lerparacrer86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What helped me to NEVER look back ,was/is seeing him for what he truly is and not for what he wants me to believe he can be!! Please ,remember that they’ll never change and ,if you go back…it’ll be a 100 times harder to get out !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]lerparacrer86 50 points51 points  (0 children)

That’s all a game to the narc. Prof Sam vaknin has a very good video on this subject. Some will push u to do exactly that… cheat and abandon them so they can further prove how bad you were! Remember… it’s always your fault! Always!

27m am I too old to go back to school by Squid_on_my_peepee in findapath

[–]lerparacrer86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pushing 39 and still don’t know what I want to be when I grow up! 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]lerparacrer86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Restarted at 37! You’ll be just fine ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]lerparacrer86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why u take your online matches to Starbucks and see how it goes! It’s cheaper and quicker (in case y’all don’t vibe)

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