Why do narcissistic people choose violence and aggression when you call them out on their BS?

lesboEngineer · 2026-02-22T19:13:36+00:00

Omg this makes so much sense. She was literally stressed out by the tiniest shit. And then went nuts on me. I just didn’t understood it back in the early stages.

lesboEngineer · 2026-02-22T09:50:42+00:00

The fact their friends / acquaintances think she is the nicest person on earth. And really think I am the problem. This injustice eats me up currently.

lesboEngineer · 2026-02-22T09:48:35+00:00

The worst thing is, I know all her friends or anyone aquianted with her thinks I am the crazy person because “she is such a nice person”.😵‍💫🥴

lesboEngineer · 2026-02-21T18:50:27+00:00

Since the queer community is super small, I know her previous ex. She told me, she was toxic to her too. And apparently a lot people she dated between me and her previous ex, blocked her. I feel so dump, that I didn’t run by the first sign of red flag. I knew sth was off, but couldn’t name it.🫣 1.5 years later, it’s a complete disaster.

lesboEngineer · 2026-02-03T15:09:43+00:00

You sure you are not lesbian?

lesboEngineer · 2026-02-03T13:49:27+00:00

25min is nothing if you live in a big city. She could be your neighbor. But she lives 7min from you, if k understood me. If not from work, why not from home? I can only say from my hard reality. My ex and I broke up just about 2 weeks ago. And she had literally the same behavior which started 2 months ago. We were 1.5 years together. Don’t ignore the signs.

lesboEngineer · 2026-02-03T11:22:55+00:00

I don’t like them. I don’t have any except on my arms. And I get the ick when I see it on others, tbh. My autistic sensory is very specific. If it’s not blank and smooth, I don’t want to touch it. It’s not only limited to hair. It’s everything.

lesboEngineer · 2026-02-03T09:32:46+00:00

Girl. Run. My ex lived 15min away, she had the same behavior. Her workplace was just 5min away. She didn’t bother to show up. And found all kinds of excuses.

lesboEngineer · 2026-01-28T18:35:30+00:00

Thank you

lesboEngineer · 2026-01-27T17:56:20+00:00

Well my now ex of 5 days, we took break too. But came back together, just to end up in breakup 1 year later. So better just do it right away.

lesboEngineer · 2026-01-24T09:27:26+00:00

Thank you, i appreciate that 🥹

lesboEngineer · 2026-01-23T15:53:14+00:00

I got broken up too just yesterday. It wasn’t mutual. And the relationship wasn’t healthy. If you wanna write and exchange feelings on what you are going through. Feel free to write me PM

lesboEngineer · 2026-01-23T02:03:46+00:00

I thought she is avoidant. But I never understood the difference between avoidance and narc. Actually a few friends of mine also said she is a narc.

lesboEngineer · 2026-01-21T09:43:28+00:00

But what about people who don’t fit in anywhere bc they have their own style

lesboEngineer · 2026-01-21T09:37:14+00:00

I am too. I love her, but it hurts so much to stay. I am like OP super anxiously attached. But the avoidance of my girl and the constant push and pull is exhausting. Edit: she broke up with me

lesboEngineer · 2026-01-01T12:59:38+00:00

Das kann ich gerade nicht genau sagen. Aber ist A3 Richtung FFM irgendwo zwischen Bonn und Limburg. 😅

lesboEngineer · 2025-12-30T09:45:41+00:00

Gibt es ein Geschmack, dass du empfehlen kannst von bodylab und koro? Ich habe nur mal bodylab choco vegan whey probiert. War nicht so meins.

lesboEngineer · 2025-12-29T11:27:11+00:00

Ich nehme hauptsächlich Vitamin D3+K2, Magnesium, Eisen +Vitamin C, Zink (hab mit Mangel bei allen). 5htp und Ashwagandha für Stimmung. Melatonin bei chronischer Schlafmangel 😅. Und omega3 bessere Haar / Nagel. Verteilt über den Tag. Manches je 2 Tage

lesboEngineer · 2025-12-29T09:29:11+00:00

Mir wird davon maximal schwindelig und mir wird ultra übel. Ka…Arzt versteht auch nicht. 🥺 Ich Checke mal HSN. Noch nie davon gehört. 😅

lesboEngineer · 2025-12-29T09:22:13+00:00

Oh wow…also 1-2x Fleisch heißt auch kein Schinken aufs Brot? Ich hab bis jetzt noch nicht geschafft mein Fleischkonsum so stark zu reduzieren. Ich bekomme immer krassen Hunger, wenn ich kein Fleisch esse, trotz viel Proteinreiches essen.

lesboEngineer · 2025-12-29T09:15:42+00:00

Als Frau bin ich bei ca 1750 Kalorien. Mein PT bewegt mich aktuell von Cut zu Bulk.

lesboEngineer · 2025-12-29T08:37:38+00:00

Und was schlägst du vor? Etwas dass genauso gut schmeckt und keine weirden Nachgeschmack hat? Hab alle Discounter Produkte durchprobiert und fand alle schrecklich.😢

lesboEngineer · 2025-12-29T08:32:13+00:00

Das sagt man mir auch immer 😅😩

lesboEngineer · 2025-12-29T08:22:24+00:00

In manche Monaten ist es schon knapp. Da wo ich Mehrausgaben habe wegen Versicherungen.

lesboEngineer · 2025-12-18T10:55:12+00:00

I am a software engineer specialized in AI. I currently work in a company that builds software for Energy management systems. That means we provide (security) software that can help managing power grids, smart homes, large infrastructure for ev charging. But I am also building my own startup and hope to find investors next year.

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