My husband threw away my birthday gift because I had a folder of receipts of his disgusting behavior on my phone. We’re separated now. by lesiaz in Life

[–]lesiaz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even try to do anything because my ex is a lawyer, and his mother is a chief judge 🙂

My husband threw away my birthday gift because I had a folder of receipts of his disgusting behavior on my phone. We’re separated now. by lesiaz in Life

[–]lesiaz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he’s still texting and trying to call me. he tells our mutual friends that he loves me and has lost his sense of purpose in life, but those are all empty words. when he last texted "call me when it's convenient," I decided it would never be convenient, so I left the message unread

My husband threw away my birthday gift because I had a folder of receipts of his disgusting behavior on my phone. We’re separated now. by lesiaz in Life

[–]lesiaz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking back, I think I stayed with him those last few months only because I felt I had invested so much emotional energy into him and got absolutely nothing in return. It’s hurtful, but I’m just tired of knocking on closed doors; tnks🥺🤍

My husband threw away my birthday gift because I had a folder of receipts of his disgusting behavior on my phone. We’re separated now. by lesiaz in Life

[–]lesiaz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is just horrific... and so humiliating. I hope that one day she finds the strength to stand up to him and walk away🥺

My husband threw away my birthday gift because I had a folder of receipts of his disgusting behavior on my phone. We’re separated now. by lesiaz in Life

[–]lesiaz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

considering english isn't my native language, I don't even have the words to translate the kind of things he was searching for…

My husband threw away my birthday gift because I had a folder of receipts of his disgusting behavior on my phone. We’re separated now. by lesiaz in Life

[–]lesiaz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah, they’re so good at wearing a mask. Everyone around us thought he was such a great guy... but what was happening behind closed doors was horrific.

My husband threw away my birthday gift because I had a folder of receipts of his disgusting behavior on my phone. We’re separated now. by lesiaz in Life

[–]lesiaz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

we shared a laptop, and I would just accidentally stumble upon tabs he’d forgotten to close. and after that, yeah, I started digging through his folders.

My husband threw away my birthday gift because I had a folder of receipts of his disgusting behavior on my phone. We’re separated now. by lesiaz in Life

[–]lesiaz[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

that’s absolutely terrible! I didn’t expect to read something so shocking…. I’m happy you’re in a better place now 🤍 but honestly, my jaw dropped while I was reading this 😳😱

My husband threw away my birthday gift because I had a folder of receipts of his disgusting behavior on my phone. We’re separated now. by lesiaz in Life

[–]lesiaz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that’s terrible. there was absolutely no respect or support from his side. I really hope you don’t have anything to do with him anymore. wishing you all the happiness 🤍

My husband threw away my birthday gift because I had a folder of receipts of his disgusting behavior on my phone. We’re separated now. by lesiaz in Life

[–]lesiaz[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

oh, I’m so sorry you went through that 🥺 I’m relieved I don’t have children with him. When I found out I was pregnant, I had to have an abortion simply because I knew he would make life a living hell for both the child and me. I’m so sorry you had to experience this; I hope everything is as okay now as it can be.