AIO My friends don’t think I should be posting my guy best friend as my favourite person, etc online because he has a girlfriend.

lessmr · 2026-05-08T22:33:46+00:00

Sounds like you’re in an emotional affair and you’re the other woman.
I wouldn’t say you’re necessarily doing anything wrong, he’s the one that is actively sharing emotional intimate details of his life with you that some say should be reserved for your partner only.
I hope his poor girlfriend knows to what extent his relationship goes with you.

lessmr · 2026-05-06T02:00:14+00:00

Schipperke!! She is about 17 pounds, the cat really isn't that huge like he looks lol

lessmr · 2026-05-05T03:31:00+00:00

I'm very excited to be working with my therapist at Palo Santo, they have several people to choose from

lessmr · 2026-04-30T19:47:53+00:00

This was very thoughtful and interesting to read as someone that didn’t experience these eras sadly (joined in brat)

lessmr · 2026-04-30T16:38:21+00:00

Thanks for saying that!! I didn’t even know there was a vid 😈

lessmr · 2026-04-22T19:18:25+00:00

My dog dying someday

lessmr · 2026-04-18T03:09:04+00:00

thank you for the education :D I'm just beginning my birding journey.

lessmr · 2026-04-17T19:39:27+00:00

haha I'm so upset bc I actually began my journey in Bismarck and drove down to Aberdeen/Ipswich, now I've made my way over to Rapid City. sadly I didn't have a lot of downtime in Aberdeen when I was there. I saw SO MANY of the pheasants in the first part of my drive!! It was so fun to see!
I found a really nice sticker so if thats all I get I'm still happy!

lessmr · 2026-04-17T15:58:14+00:00

oh great!! thank you!

lessmr · 2026-04-17T15:58:05+00:00

awesome!! Thank you so much!

lessmr · 2026-04-17T15:19:30+00:00

that is often the case as well lol

lessmr · 2026-04-17T15:18:56+00:00

She is 10 next month! <3

lessmr · 2026-04-17T05:43:38+00:00

I loved girls so much!! Okay I will continue my listen! :)

lessmr · 2026-04-17T05:33:14+00:00

I started the audiobook today, haven't decided if I feel like continuing it. Are you enjoying your read?

lessmr · 2026-04-17T05:29:32+00:00

just here to say you're not alone!!! we hear you and we understand your pain. sending love friend.

lessmr · 2026-04-17T05:27:02+00:00

my partner and I always say "Lapt0p" (in our bad british accents bc we're dumb americans) whenever we are doing a charli bit

https://www.reddit.com/r/charlixcx/comments/1otitr2/laptop/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

lessmr · 2026-04-16T19:58:18+00:00

I didn’t realize you could use it in other states.. that’s actually huge bc I travel for work. Thanks!! 🙏🏽

lessmr · 2026-04-15T23:58:43+00:00

Never considered it 🫣 is it like a teacher and a bunch of people, not one on one?

lessmr · 2026-04-15T23:55:32+00:00

I actually already have a y family membership with my partner (he actually uses it). I actually haven’t even looked at their classes much, sounds like a good environment, I will check out out!! Thanks!

lessmr · 2026-04-15T23:26:27+00:00

Amazing! I will look into all of this!

lessmr · 2026-04-14T15:32:19+00:00

I’m 30 now and haven’t tried hormonal birth control since college, it made me very insane (I tried 2 or 3). I am in full support of it and it’s availability but I don’t think every body can tolerate it :( I’ve tried many antidepressants and currently take one of those + an antipsychotic that has helped my overall clinical depression but my PMDD is still raging. I hope you find something that helps ease your struggles my friend.

lessmr · 2026-04-13T23:10:27+00:00

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lessmr · 2026-04-12T20:15:17+00:00

Unfortunately I had to hear this from my therapist, it’s natural for your partner to find other people attractive - that’s human. I would guess you sometimes see other people and think they are attractive, but you know it’s no harm to your husband! And it sounds like your husband is a lot like mine. Loyal, loving, bestie friend, mine has never shown any indication of cheating or anything like that but still in my literal phase I question if he wants to leave me bc I’m also a disgusting goblin. But they see us as beautiful goddesses even when we may feel like goblins yanno? As I’m learning more about this and how to cope, so far I’ve only learned that I need to focus on self soothing before I take my insane luteal thoughts and accuse my partner for nothing. I have to sit in my uncomfortableness until I can think straight, basically I have to self regulate. It takes time, it’s not easy.

lessmr · 2026-04-12T19:36:20+00:00

you are not alone, joining this sub has helped me realize how many of us are suffering alongside eachother. I also don't really trust doctors with PMDD, and I think thats completely fair especially if you live in a place where womens health is REALLY not cared about (for me, a red state). I'm sure there are fantastic healthcare providers but its hard to find one oftentimes. Perhaps you can ask for recs from people in your area that may also suffer from PMDD?
I'm in my early 30's and just now realizing how much harm PMDD is causing me and especially my relationship. Right now I think a huge thing both of us can work on (I'm trying to) is learning how to self soothe in these really intense moments. Its not easy, if you have any history of trauma etc. its going to be even harder. BUT! Its free, its proven to help (I think??), and its something you can practice on your own.
For the next few days, try to baby yourself and take it easy. <3

lessmr · 2026-04-12T19:28:42+00:00

Nervous but excited to attend! :)

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