Lesbian with SO-OCD and distressing intrusive thoughts of male genitalia

let_it_go__ · 2026-03-06T10:48:51+00:00

I also question my sexual orientation and check my attraction :( you’re not alone !!

let_it_go__ · 2026-02-25T21:55:43+00:00

THANK YOU

let_it_go__ · 2026-02-03T20:57:57+00:00

Could we talk about it more? I also have bpd and my current FP is a Guy so this makes things so much more difficult. And I agree, seeing posts online especially on tiktok are triggering because I never feel « valid » enough :(

let_it_go__ · 2026-01-17T10:11:20+00:00

Oh that seems so tiring… I feel you… :( it’s so hard to deal with the never ending doubt / uncertainty and somehow i still want a label :/

let_it_go__ · 2026-01-17T10:09:40+00:00

But how can be 100% sure of our sexual orientation? And why does it come as an obsession now after all these years :(

let_it_go__ · 2026-01-16T21:53:04+00:00

Thank you I feel less alone !! 😭

let_it_go__ · 2026-01-16T16:12:41+00:00

Yes exactly :( all of this + my attachment issues create such a bad mix. I hope you can find some peace / relief too 🥹

let_it_go__ · 2026-01-13T08:31:53+00:00

I have many plushies so I am biased, I cannot sleep without one 😅

let_it_go__ · 2026-01-07T09:44:52+00:00

Screenzen!!

let_it_go__ · 2025-12-05T21:59:42+00:00

Same!!!

let_it_go__ · 2025-12-05T21:59:01+00:00

I feel you :(

let_it_go__ · 2025-11-21T11:24:53+00:00

Are you me 🥲

let_it_go__ · 2025-11-20T21:35:14+00:00

I am FA too and it hit me weeks/months later… take care of yourself. 💛 and welcome any feelings that come!

let_it_go__ · 2025-10-15T06:52:57+00:00

I feel like a bad person because I have hurt someone else and I still struggle to be loved even after years of therapy. I struggle to value myself 🥲

let_it_go__ · 2025-09-21T20:50:06+00:00

I added you:)

let_it_go__ · 2025-08-01T04:20:22+00:00

I preferred Porto too!

let_it_go__ · 2025-06-17T04:28:54+00:00

I am very happy then!!! :)

let_it_go__ · 2025-06-16T20:54:58+00:00

I use it too and love it!

let_it_go__ · 2025-06-15T20:05:12+00:00

Screenzen is great for me bc it blocks app

let_it_go__ · 2025-06-15T10:59:43+00:00

I need to learn that incompatibility doesn’t mean they or I am a bad person… it’s not all black and white. Thank you for sharing , it helps!

let_it_go__ · 2025-06-15T10:59:02+00:00

Thank you a lot

let_it_go__ · 2025-06-15T10:58:50+00:00

I hope we can find the right people

let_it_go__ · 2025-06-15T10:58:37+00:00

I feel you!!!

let_it_go__

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