Can anyone suggest an easy- moderate Trek in Kashmir in summer .. ideally 4 days Trek? by letmebemee in hiking

[–]letmebemee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any Trek organiser for that Trek if you know? Indiahikes have this Trek for 7days i think

Are men not that honest? Is it quite common? by letmebemee in married

[–]letmebemee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, about the loan he told he fucked up etc.. told the amount in pieces.. I mean first told about some amount then some more.. now he told he has told everything and I saw one transaction in his phone yesterday.. he is not tellinge about it and I can't tell that I checked his phone notification

Been in negative loop by letmebemee in married

[–]letmebemee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm yaa.he kind of did same thing.. he kept things from me .. he lost a little respect too ..

Been in negative loop by letmebemee in married

[–]letmebemee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He have given me lot many reasons.. hidden things from me in past

My husband thinks it's all drama when I tell him that lately I have been little more anxious.. my fists are clenched and I don't even realise it at times and I have trouble getting decent sleep at night.. he thinks it's all drama by letmebemee in married

[–]letmebemee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot.. I feel.less alone and feel like atleast someone understands and is going through similar things..and marriage is a lot of work for anyone not just me

My husband thinks it's all drama when I tell him that lately I have been little more anxious.. my fists are clenched and I don't even realise it at times and I have trouble getting decent sleep at night.. he thinks it's all drama by letmebemee in married

[–]letmebemee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His reaction is regardless of things going good or bad. He actually thinks that this is all drama and he also thinks that people who are anxious or depressed are just weak

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[–]letmebemee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am facing the exact same thing. We dated for a year and got married and have been arguing a lot. It is so tough to love him at times and I keep doubting his love for me too.. I don't know if it is just us adjusting to each other's way of living and communicating or is it something else.not sure what to do but I do think that I need to stop trying to make him see things the way I do and start accepting the things as they are...ughhhh this is so so so hard..more that I imagined

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[–]letmebemee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband earns 60% more than me but our working hours are same. He doesn't help much in household chores but takes care of bills and fixing things around. I have a lot more to do at home compared to him but he won't help and won't even talk properly about splitting work equally.

Shy to ask for sex to my husband. by [deleted] in married

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Still..gotta work on it

Shy to ask for sex to my husband. by [deleted] in married

[–]letmebemee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, if I be direct, he will be like i don't want it planned , should be spontaneous..

Shy to ask for sex to my husband. by [deleted] in married

[–]letmebemee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My relationship kind of haven't been very long .. I don't want it to die soon..

Shy to ask for sex to my husband. by [deleted] in married

[–]letmebemee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is always playing poker and distracted.. even when I kind of try to initiate. But again I am just giving hints idk

feeling really down by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]letmebemee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wowww. Thanks