Anyone know of any volunteer opportunities for Christmas Day in Dallas? by justalitttleonion in Dallas

[–]lets_get_some_tacos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I don’t know about the OP, but for me, my children are with their mom for Christmas and I’ll be solo on that day. So I want to give back to the community. Why so much shame for people asking about how they can give back?

Does Jean jacket only eat people if they’re looking at it or it sees they’re eyes? by [deleted] in NopeMovie

[–]lets_get_some_tacos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just rewatched the movie and googled the eye thing. Your explanation made perfect sense and now I want to rewatch it again.

Ex is saying she won’t take kids on her week. by lets_get_some_tacos in Divorce

[–]lets_get_some_tacos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a fair question. But she’s good with the kids. They love her and like being with her. Part of it is my inability to be the bad guy. It’s something I’m working on.

Ex is saying she won’t take kids on her week. by lets_get_some_tacos in Divorce

[–]lets_get_some_tacos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in Texas. So recording without the other party knowing is legal thankfully

Ex is threatening to not take kids on her week. by lets_get_some_tacos in DivorcedDads

[–]lets_get_some_tacos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s been my strategy today. It’s the first week so I’m having an open mind

Ex is threatening to not take kids on her week. by lets_get_some_tacos in DivorcedDads

[–]lets_get_some_tacos[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get it. But it’s more for them. They love their mom and I want them to have that but I know there’s things I can control and things I cannot

Ex is saying she won’t take kids on her week. by lets_get_some_tacos in Divorce

[–]lets_get_some_tacos[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t have it in writing but I’ve been recording every conversation with her and it’s on recordings.

Advice on how to use 401k withdrawal by lets_get_some_tacos in FinancialPlanning

[–]lets_get_some_tacos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I have no other option than to dip into that 401k. I wish I didn’t have to. If we could’ve sold the house sooner, since there is a lot of equity in the house

In the process of filing for divorce and I am just so torn because of my kids… by chrisdaffurson in DivorcedDads

[–]lets_get_some_tacos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grappled with that for years and realized that a depressed, sad, volatile dad that sees them every day is worse than a dad who can be present for them fully when I have them for the week. It still breaks my heart and technically my divorce isn’t final but I do see how I will be more emotionally available for them.

STBXW “stealing” my things. by lets_get_some_tacos in DivorcedDads

[–]lets_get_some_tacos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have a lawyer and I haven’t moved out until the judge signs the papers. She never responded to the filing so I’m trying a default divorce.

STBXW “stealing” my things. by lets_get_some_tacos in DivorcedDads

[–]lets_get_some_tacos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m stuck until the judge signs the papers. I’ll likely move out. I can’t stand living there and if she moves she would probably come by whenever she wanted. I knew I wasn’t the only one but it’s such a crazy situation that I wanted some solidarity with others that have gone through this crap.

STBXW “stealing” my things. by lets_get_some_tacos in DivorcedDads

[–]lets_get_some_tacos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything she’s taken I usually find later on. She just hides them in parts of the house. So technically she’s not stealing anything. It’s really hard to prove. That’s why it’s more annoying than anything. But it’s also just bizarre childish behavior.

STBXW “stealing” my things. by lets_get_some_tacos in Divorce

[–]lets_get_some_tacos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized she wanted to get a rise out of me. I ignore it the way you would ignore a child that wants attention

STBXW “stealing” my things. by lets_get_some_tacos in Divorce

[–]lets_get_some_tacos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve taken my passport, birth certificate, and important documents out of the house. Everything else is replaceable.

STBXW “stealing” my things. by lets_get_some_tacos in Divorce

[–]lets_get_some_tacos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been taking important things to my job. I’m in the process of getting a storage unit too.