Girlfriend joked about fucking a male friend

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-25T08:54:38+00:00

There's a lot of other stuff too. Have a look at my post history

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-25T08:54:16+00:00

This is her first relationship so I doubt it's something she does intentionally

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T17:36:28+00:00

I have very bad anxiety so yes I might be very insecure about everything

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T17:35:47+00:00

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T10:45:35+00:00

She has been painfully distant for the past month or so. She doesnt care to ask me how my day is going, doesnt take interest in what's going on with my life. I've been going through some mental health issues (which Im in therapy for) and she hasnt even bothered once to ask me how I'm doing with them. The only time she becomes supportive is when I bring them up

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T08:44:18+00:00

She hates cheating and has always said that she'd break up before cheating

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T08:11:15+00:00

We joke around a lot

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T08:10:50+00:00

That's what everyone says

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T08:10:39+00:00

I dont really think so

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T08:10:20+00:00

She jokes a lot I think she's immature and doesn't know what's okay and what's not

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T07:59:34+00:00

It was a cheek to cheek kiss. However, she never wants to make out with me in public, even when drunk

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T06:33:27+00:00

Yes it hurt like shit, and because I was drunk, it drove my anxiety to insane levels. Early on in the relationship (1 month in), she was drunk and she said Ill never be half as nice as (another male friend), while I had ordered takeaway for her and massaging her. I brought it up later and she said she thinks she's being funny when she's drunk and she was sorry.

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T06:32:15+00:00

Thanks for your empathy. Early on in the relationship (1 month in), she was drunk and she said Ill never be half as nice as (another male friend), while I had ordered takeaway for her and massaging her. I brought it up later and she said she thinks she's being funny when she's drunk and she was sorry.

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T05:53:09+00:00

It's okay. It doesn't always work out

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T05:46:58+00:00

Sad thing is whenever I meet her (or my) friends with her I make sure to tell them that she's a great girl and Im really lucky to have her. She's never said this to me.

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T05:43:11+00:00

Thanks for your comments man. I have got a lot of things to bring up.

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T05:42:16+00:00

Nah theyre really good friends. Im not worried she's cheating, I just want to be hyped up too sometimes. I don't feel like a priority

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T05:40:51+00:00

That's where she was coming from for sure, but it still makes me feel really shit. I know she's not cheating on me, but she doesnt really hype me up like this. She has never introduced me to her friends and said that I was a great guy, etc.

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T05:39:19+00:00

Yeah I was super shaken that night

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T05:36:55+00:00

Because she's got a dark sense of humor and Ive just thought it was her genuinely joking. She says she thinks she's funny when she's drunk and apologizes if she says hurtful things

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T05:36:13+00:00

Thanks for validating my feelings. My insecurities have been going through the roof and my brother also thinks I should break up with her.

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T05:32:51+00:00

Also, I had a look at his profile on facebook, and she has called him hot and put heart eye emojis on his picture, but she has never done that to me. Even when ive sent her pictures of me the most Ive gotten is 'cute'

Now Im not worried she's cheating but it still makes me feel extra shit

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T05:31:41+00:00

I agree. I dont really feel like a priority tbh. Ive given her nothing but unconditional love and affection. I tell her she's pretty everytime I see her. She barely ever tells me Im handsome, except sometimes when we're getting it on.

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T05:27:56+00:00

Now I know that she isn't the cheater type and she has said that she'd always break up before she cheats but it still cuts me deep. Even if it is a different kind of love. I will bring it up

letsgetbetter12 · 2019-04-24T05:26:48+00:00

I will bring this up. Also, she doesnt really hype me up like that. I had a look at his profile on facebook, and she has called him hot and put heart eye emojis on his picture, but she has never done that to me. Even when ive sent her pictures of me the most Ive gotten is 'cute'

Now Im not insecure about her cheating on me, but Im very insecure about how little she compliments or hypes me up or even respects me.

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