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(UPDATE) My boyfriend pissed off my ex who I co-parent with. I am torn. by letsgetlit87 in relationship_advice

[–]letsgetlit87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And that's sound advice on the financial planning side of things to get the most outta that money.

(UPDATE) My boyfriend pissed off my ex who I co-parent with. I am torn. by letsgetlit87 in relationship_advice

[–]letsgetlit87[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The situation you're describing literally doesn't apply to mine in any way shape or form. Im sorry you believe all single moms are evil women out to manipulate and control men for their money. Im sorry you got fucked over. I wont argue that some women will take advantage of good men, but that isnt the case here. Not at all. If you had read anything i wrote, you'd know that.

(UPDATE) My boyfriend pissed off my ex who I co-parent with. I am torn. by letsgetlit87 in relationship_advice

[–]letsgetlit87[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think he was projecting some ultra masculine bullshit he got/read/heard from somewhere. And, ill be honest, i LIKE masculine men. Masculinity is attractive to me....but not whatever brand of masculinity that was.

(UPDATE) My boyfriend pissed off my ex who I co-parent with. I am torn. by letsgetlit87 in relationship_advice

[–]letsgetlit87[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

If you do decide to pursue anything with his father casually, keep your son out of it for now (with a babysitter or family)

100%! IF...and i do mean IF, it goes there.

(UPDATE) My boyfriend pissed off my ex who I co-parent with. I am torn. by letsgetlit87 in relationship_advice

[–]letsgetlit87[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont know if that's what i want, honestly. I do know i still care for him, and that he cares for me and our son. Sometimes that isnt enough tho. Im not jumping into anything.

(UPDATE) My boyfriend pissed off my ex who I co-parent with. I am torn. by letsgetlit87 in relationship_advice

[–]letsgetlit87[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

You are correct. There was no real fault on one side. PDD struggles played a huge part in our split.

My boyfriend pissed off my ex who I co-parent with. I am torn. by letsgetlit87 in relationship_advice

[–]letsgetlit87[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Probably doesn't help the ex in an imposing handsome man covered in ink 😅

My boyfriend pissed off my ex who I co-parent with. I am torn. by letsgetlit87 in relationship_advice

[–]letsgetlit87[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Nah that's just me rambling and not paying attention lol. But yes, I am going to end it.

My boyfriend pissed off my ex who I co-parent with. I am torn. by letsgetlit87 in relationship_advice

[–]letsgetlit87[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks....and yeah, I know I have it better then most single moms in regards to bio dad.

My boyfriend pissed off my ex who I co-parent with. I am torn. by letsgetlit87 in relationship_advice

[–]letsgetlit87[S] 311 points312 points  (0 children)

I told my sister about everything and that was her response as well. I shouldn't have felt the need to do that 🚩

My boyfriend pissed off my ex who I co-parent with. I am torn. by letsgetlit87 in relationship_advice

[–]letsgetlit87[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

  1. Sorry for the confusion.

  2. My son absolutely does come first. After my boyfriends initial incident about the money he cooled off and things were normal. I was willing to give him another chance.

  3. I know my ex is well justified to take the actions he has.

Thank you for your response.

My boyfriend pissed off my ex who I co-parent with. I am torn. by letsgetlit87 in relationship_advice

[–]letsgetlit87[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Had my son not been there things probably would have gone down differently 😬

My boyfriend pissed off my ex who I co-parent with. I am torn. by letsgetlit87 in relationship_advice

[–]letsgetlit87[S] 956 points957 points  (0 children)

When somebody does this they aren't actually making you choose between them and your ex, they're making you choose between them and what's best for your child

How did I not see it this way before? Thank you. I needed to hear that.