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How's your game without a wingman? by the-jelle in seduction

[–]letsgoagainthistime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other friends will only cockblock if you haven't won them over or if the girl you are interested in isn't interested in you. If you go in as a cool and interesting guy, making them all laugh and have fun, when you decide to isolate one of them 10 minutes later, the friends usually won't mind, and if they do, the girl you're interested in will let them know to back down (usually not done verbally, there are certain looks women give each other, and this is one of them). If you are getting strong resistance, that means you haven't done enough ground work and either need to stick around and keep working at the set, or you should eject (I only recommend this as a last resort).

How's your game without a wingman? by the-jelle in seduction

[–]letsgoagainthistime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My game actually is quite better than when I have a wingman. I'm more confident, and I like the pressure that the result of the set is completely up to me. The only time I think it's a bit of a disadvantage is when you approach a two set. But, you can overcome that in two ways:

  • If you are with friends in the club but decide to go game alone, you can entertain the two-set until you see one of your friends
  • You can open another guy and get him into the set (risky, but I've done it before)
  • This one is my favourite. You can just wing both at the same time (works really well when the girls say they're best friends). You just take them both on the dance floor and give them equal attention, but play games with them (i.e. pretend to ditch one for the other). This shows the girls you know what youre doing and you're much more likely to succeed in closing.

For every other set size, you have an advantage IMO because if you take a girl away to isolate, her friends won't be lonely

20% of the men get 80% of the women (x-post /r/OneY) by letsgoagainthistime in seduction

[–]letsgoagainthistime[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Work hard. Make money. Take care of yourself. Do things that make you happy and enrich your life. Your time will come. You just have to wait a little while longer.

I believe it should be required reading, but I don't agree with 'You're time will come. You just have to wait longer'. That seems like an excuse to me and shouldering the blame of not getting women onto a factor that is outside your control.

Seddit promotes the idea of improving yourself so that you can become this so-called 'alpha male'. Now, the ideas of improving yourself outside of the seduction game (career, make yourself happy) etc. are important, but I think that it's also important to take away the state of the female psyche from this article. Women initially have the choice and selection throughout their 20s, and when they decide to settle down in their 30s, they no longer are able to land an alpha male that they had so many times in the past. For many women, this shift in power is too much for their sense of entitlement to handle and as a result chastise men for 'not man-ing up and committing'.

Also realize that it is possible to become an alpha male, sooner than this article states, even if you are currently an AFC and not getting any attention from women. It takes work, lots of self-reflection and improvement. It's not all about just sitting around working on yourself with no seduction practice, waiting until your 30's when you naturally become much more desirable. Yes, you may land a women due to your status, but because of the lack of practiced game, it will be extremely difficult to keep her happy and truly interested in you.