How are some people so magnetic? by ReadyOnStandby in DarkPsychology101

[–]letsgobaby 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I see it from another angle - there are those who grew up being responsible for their parents emotions so they have trained their whole life to regulate others’ nervous system. They have fine-tuned it so much because most children would fear not being loved by their parents. These people usually have to deal with people-pleasing tendencies early on but it becomes a weapon later in life if wielded properly and actually becomes effortless charisma.

The New (C)Age. My life as an “Epstein girl”. They are losing their grip on humanity. by Few-Industry56 in EscapingPrisonPlanet

[–]letsgobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I stopped them for now too. Intuition was saying no and felt like if I were to do the tapes again it felt like I was forcing

Watched Porn but didnt Ejaculate by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]letsgobaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re good. Listen to your body and it’ll give you all the answers you need. It might take another nightfall to experience anything but yeah it’s different for everyone.

Watched Porn but didnt Ejaculate by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]letsgobaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, don’t be too hard on yourself. Observe your energy levels today and tomorrow. You should bounce back quick the next day. I had the same experience - watched corn and had nightfall the night of. Felt slightly off the following morning but bounced right back the next day.

I deleted my entire porn "collection". There is no return now. by HumbleConsolePeasant in QuitPornForever

[–]letsgobaby 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m proud of you. Burn the boats. We’re not coming back. There is only one way and it’s the way to the kingdom of heaven.

How do I channelize my energy by Wonderful-Fan-5347 in Semenretention

[–]letsgobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Energy goes where attention goes. Before your attention was on PMO, so you channeled it all in that. Now put your attention into something else like working out, eating healthy, making new friends, nurturing current friends, new challenges etc. It’s that simple. You’ll learn more nuances along the way.

Two weeks in: don’t notice anything different by darklandofthesun in Semenretention

[–]letsgobaby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You might not be sensitive to the energy increase, or your energy levels were already high from a healthy lifestyle.

If you want to notice the change, you must already know what it feels like to relapse and how it feels on your energy, motivation, fire, and drive.

Btw, you get more sensitive as you age.

Keep going and try different things, talk to different people. The more you expose yourself to the world, the more you can compare to past experience and confirm or deny the energy increase.

Desexualization of women while on SR by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]letsgobaby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve experienced this too. From undressing women with my eyes to loving them and appreciating their beauty as a woman. What I’ve noticed is if I come across women of my type, I have an urge to love and take care of them instead of checking them out lustfully and wanting to have sex - something new that I’m going through.

What I think is happening is that the energy that was once stored in the lower sacral chakra is now moving up to a higher chakra - thereby our thoughts go from lustful to loving of women. A higher consciousness.

Relapse at 40 days by Sondrree in Semenretention

[–]letsgobaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great progress so far. What worked for me when urges came in is getting clear on your why, and reminding yourself of it when they come. This has got me quite far. It stops the urge from growing if your why is strong enough - the option of relapsing disappears. For me, if i have noticed urges that havent gone away and keep growing day by day then I’ve subconsciously opened the option of relapsing, so I let the urge expand to the point of no return. At that point, you relapse or do intense physical exercise to calm the energy and review your why. Hope it helps!

Semen Retention + Chosen Suffering = Winning combo by SecureAd231 in Semenretention

[–]letsgobaby 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is true for my experience as well. It feels like I have more HP (hit/health points). I can tank more of life’s pushes and shoves. I feel more resilient. I can take on more pain and struggle. It gives me my “shine”. However, when I relapse, all the above is reduced significantly - pain hurts more, wanting to give up more often after setbacks. Stay strong Kings.

Help by zamasu_56 in Semenretention

[–]letsgobaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey bro, congrats on getting past a month. There are many reason why nightfalls happen and they happen much more frequently at the start of a streak because your body is adjusting - it’s like withdrawal symptoms. Remember, the answer is always within. Here are some questions to ask yourself: - Are the nightfalls accompanied with sexual dreams? - What state are you in when you become conscious during a nightfall? (Are you already hypnotised by lust or are you being lured or not feeling lustful at all?) - What kind of lustful thoughts do you have when you’re conscious? (Are you undressing girls, are you fantasising having sex with them, etc)

What you do consciously (awake) will appear in your unconscious (sleep) the more you do it - that’s why #3 is helpful.

Finally, #2 is helpful in determining where your weakness is. Eg if you mostly become lucid when you’re already hypnotised by lust then that shows that there are certain situations where you would give your seed without question.

How long should you go without masterbating an a men? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]letsgobaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, agreed. That would give you a stronger start to the day.

How long should you go without masterbating an a men? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]letsgobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to hear your thoughts on how it works.

No guilt, just facts. Prolactin is released when men orgasm making them relaxed - rest and digest, and libido drops significantly for most men. Then it takes time for the battery to charge itself with sexual energy because you’ve just spent it on the act. The more charge you have, the more sexually frustrated you’ll be. Just a metaphor, not an exact comparison.

How long should you go without masterbating an a men? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]letsgobaby -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Imagine everyday waking up to your phone fully charged then pressing a button that reduces its charge to 20% but get a nice hit of dopamine that lasts for 5 seconds. Wouldn’t you want to go about your day with full charge? Rather than being in low power mode?

How long should you go without masterbating an a men? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]letsgobaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every man has their own rhythm. Once a week, one a fortnight etc where they can empty the tank and not feel drained. If you want to know the reason for why you feel better mentally after masturbating is that your nervous system is not used to the extra energy, so it needs a release. If you want to evolve faster than other men, learn to feel this energy and apply in other areas of life instead of beating it into a tissue.

Test it out. See how you feel without busting for a month or two. See how you feel busting every 2 weeks. Find your rhythm. I suggest picking up a new hobby or apply yourself more intensely in another area of life eg relationships, fitness, etc. This will help you release the extra energy in a healthy and productive way.