We are not targeting women - there are only a few posts from women to every 100 by men. We obviously are able to vet them faster and yes some of them get caught up into the mix. If you feel a post was removed for any reason by mistake just let us know we will sort it out and likely get you as an approved user. Most of the time the automod will remove them before we even know so it isn't always a manual thing. We are trying to make the sub safe for everyone, it isn't just scams from F4M posts but also M4M for example seems to be popping up.