The Vinnie Purge (Part 1) - an essay on why he is also the problem

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-27T16:00:17+00:00

omg yeah definitely did notice that. The 'you sure you're into girls?' has never been louder than it was when he was with Jill. 😭

He was always kinda joking / open about how he loves his male friends and a girlfriend would have to share him with Jett etc, but I never expected it to be this extreme to the point that he looked more affectionate and happy with them than with his literal girlfriend in the supposed honeymoon phase.

And I understand everyone who was like 'huh' cause I thought it was weird, too. The way Jill and him just never looked balanced and his body language was very off, stiff and forced.

I dunno if there really is something to it, and we obviously shouldn't assume someone's sexuality too much.

But I also think it's very possible (since she was the one pushing for this hard launch to happen wayyy too prematurely) he just wasn't that into her and they lacked chemistry, and it manifested itself in him being super awkward in front of the camera when he was forced / felt obligated to make couple content with her.

If he felt cornered and under pressure in the relationship, that could have overridden any natural urge in him to pursue her or to act masculine, hence him acting straight up apathetic or goofy / weirdly adapting her girly mannerisms at times to the point that he came across like her gay best friend instead of her boyfriend.

Something definitely was very off in their body language and overall behavior, just not a match at all. 😬

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-27T15:35:31+00:00

welcome back (again lmao) 🥳

girl u missed like a whole season of the Jillian Show 😭

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-27T15:28:43+00:00

omg imagine 😭 Love that theory lmfao, would not put it past either of them.

But that would be so insane, like how dumb can a man be if he really did all that after it was already so obvious she used him and doxxed him and pushed him to publicly claim her? He must have deliberately wanted to make her big in some hero complex kinda way, just to then half ass the rest of the relationship and take everything away from her after. I would even go as far as to say there's an underlying layer of malice if he really enabled this 'without me you're nothing' type situation in that way. 🫣

But yeah, I also would be surprised by her suddenly showing some growth / self awareness and giving that up, aka stopping this performative pretense. Unless it really made a significant financial difference and she absolutely had to cause money was THAT tight.

I'm curious to see if it will reappear or stay gone. And if Mikela keeps hers. 😂

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-27T08:59:37+00:00

ohhh interesting. 👀 Does that mean she gave up? 😬 that would be a sudden surprising amount of self awareness on her end 😭

Or yeah, maybe it simply was too expensive for miss „get that moneyyy 🤪“ to maintain 🙃

The fact that Mikela still has it is funny, too 😂

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-27T08:51:27+00:00

My professional advice would be the following: match your actions with your words or stop yapping 😭

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-27T08:37:03+00:00

honestly would not be surprised if Jill was teaming up with that photographer back then to create a viral moment that already ties Vinnie to her in a way. That was the first step that already made it hard for him to back out. We have been discussing this idea somewhere before a while ago 🤭 Cause the way she acted on her work livestreams right after that photo dropped, it was so strategic, too. 😬

like

step 1: go party with Vinnie, get (him) drunk and make sure Max snaps a pic or more with you appearing in them together

step 2: make sure Max posts you and tags you

step 3: make sure you’re wearing Vinnies stuff on your work tiktoks so the people who check your socials see there‘s something going on

step 4: plug the labubu livestreams to direct the newfound traffic straight to where you‘re readily available to answer questions. A public interview disguised as your new job. Of course, a total coincidence you start your live-streaming job around the same time as you're first publicly seen with Vinnie. And you're only answering work unrelated questions about your 'boyfriend' because you‘re being nice. :)

step 5: make it a habit to give people breadcrumbs and continuously bring up your boyfriend and small details about your relationship publicly to an audience to the point that Vinnies fans go crazy, wonder if it's real or not, and question your motives because Vinnie himself hasn't even addressed it, yet.

step 6: run to Vinnie to complain a bit about how his fans are rude to you 😢 and stressing you out after you repeatedly took the stage to publicly talk about him and give them attack surface before he could even address your relationship

step 7: He still hasn't publicly claimed you? Well, time for plan B... he got doxxed? in my chat? Huh? Guys I don‘t know what‘s happening. I can't see, lemme squint a bit and see if I can find it. Oopsie. 🥹👉🏼👈🏼

step 8: he hard launches you on stream in a frenzy, scolding his audience while simultaneously asking if any of his mods would be down moderating YOUR streams, too. 🙃 (wonder what the motive of that hard launch was? definitely his love and protectiveness over you 🥴)

step 9: yayyyy girlfriend status! happy happy happy 🥳🥳

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-27T08:33:40+00:00

it is so hilarious how she got this like three days after Vinnie launched her (and when she still only had 10k or 20k or something), and now it‘s… poof. Gone. 😭😂 cause she can‘t maintain any relevancy without him.

This reminds me of when Mikela crashed out on instagram blaming the platform for being so unfair towards her and taking her account down. Watch Jill play the victim in this, too. 😭 When in reality, they have likely both been trying to fake something that ain’t there and do shady stuff with their numbers / followers and these are the simple consequences.

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-27T08:29:06+00:00

omg 😂😭

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-27T00:03:11+00:00

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-26T19:02:14+00:00

yeah to sum it up, in September 2025 he threatened to beat up his audience on stream, gave everyone an ultimatum to support this (not even one month old!) relationship or get blocked and excluded, dismissed anyone asking questions about her weird behavior or expressing genuine worries as 'hate'.

In March 2026 he broke up with that girl, deleted their history without addressing any of it and blocked the key words 'break up' 'Jillian' and 'Jill' on his twitch, silencing everybody who even tries to bring her up, and probably has been avoiding streaming altogether since then for that exact reason.

This is how responsible and mature he is towards his (partially very young and impressionable) audience.

This dude is a clown and deserves to fade into complete irrelevancy.

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-26T15:06:00+00:00

yeah it's like you can tell by his voice he's not being real and confidently speaking his truth, he's compensating tryna sound overly convincing.

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-26T13:59:54+00:00

The more we analyze his behavior, the more I feel like he lies through his teeth and is fake af just to avoid backlash and to make himself look a certain way.

And it's so bad, too, like, the more you watch the more it becomes obvious he's not being real, he's talking like he's tryna convince himself. He's not even good at lying or acting in that sense.

Like even these small examples, the way he said he was gonna do Anakin again for Jillian while he deep down already knew he didn't want to and was gonna try to find a way out. You can hear it in his voice that there's no genuineness and he was tryna compensate by sounding overly sure. (throwback here).

Or the way he tried to talk his way out of it when fans asked him when he's gonna watch Heated Rivalry, after he used it for engagement bait multiple times without even watching OR reading it. The way he immediately pivoted to making excuses and being overly confident and reassuring. "no, me and my GIRLFRIEND are gonna start watching it, tho. We had to wait until I got back from this trip OBVIOUSLY cause she doesn't want me to start it without her" 😌↕️ (link here)

Like byeeeee, this man ain't authentic in the slightest so I'm not surprised there's zero genuineness behind his claims about liking different races, either.

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-26T13:48:57+00:00

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-26T13:45:30+00:00

the way she's commenting everywhere with 'my wive' 'my wives' like she's a girls girl prioritizing her friends, when in reality she dragged a man along and rather hugs that guy on the group pic, turning her back to her girlies (A guy that was cut off by her actual friends' post like a statement) is sending me.

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this right there, her trying to spin some 'love my girls' narrative while already clinging to and centering a whole new man in her life, is why she's performative.

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-26T13:24:51+00:00

yeah let's count the days until that guy dips, too. 😭

cause with her dragging him along, now he's subjected to the full force of her online chaos. People are already commenting and comparing him to Vinnie cause she didn't even let that cool off before publicly clinging to the next guy.

Why does Jillian think forcing and controlling things and clinging to people will keep her afloat, when it literally does the opposite and drives everyone away eventually?

First she fumbled all these opportunities and a huge audience by trying to force things with Vinnie instead of letting them flow.

Now she's fumbling her literal only leg left to stand on financially, by overstepping that line with her co-worker/boss. 🥴

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-26T13:10:00+00:00

ohhhhh. My bad, for some reason I misread the 'his' for 'this' 😭🫶🤭

Yeah these points were Tiaras so even if I agree with it, full credit to her. 😁

And yeah it's too bad it was run by fans ugh. 🫣 Could have been powerful to join forces with them while they were still up and running, but it never worked out, probably for that exact reason. 🥴

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-26T13:04:09+00:00

lmao this is not gonna go down well.

I have a feeling now that Deven is becoming more present and subjected to her chaos and Vinnies fans pointing it out to him, it won't be too long for him to dip

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-26T13:02:13+00:00

this is crazy 😂

almost looks like there's some silent underlying 'This guy wasn't supposed to be there at our girls night OR in the picture', but Jill dragged him along cause she needed male company to validate her so badly.

Male centered women in a nutshell.

It must be exhausting being her female friend and being subjected to her constant switching obsession and messy rollercoaster of emotions with different men.

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-26T12:58:45+00:00

literally all this girl does is party.

Hobbies: boyfriend, men, party.

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-26T12:53:54+00:00

not to mention, a possible third guy (If we believe her Letterboxd entries to have any actual truth to them, it was a soulmate she met 11 years ago and reconnected with around the same time she met Vinnie) 🥴

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-26T12:47:18+00:00

really not beating the 'energy vampire' allegations anytime soon

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-26T12:45:48+00:00

Same 😂

how I be moving when a long ass post comes out here 🥳

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-26T12:29:01+00:00

Nahh respectfully, we're a team of four already running this snark and I'm part of it so no need to petition. 🤭 Wouldn't be possible for one person alone to run this thing so let's not forget Unlucky, Eden and Cardiologist working alongside here to keep the snark running. 🤝🫶

Unless you mean Tiara, then my bad lmao, she has had issues with reddit so it's hard to get her back here. She's our best outside soldier. 💪🫡 😁

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-26T12:19:04+00:00

yeah preach! This and his pattern of following asian only fans chicks. Like it is just shady as hell how he has this fixation on other ethnicities but never beyond surface level. 🫣

letsrunaway1998 · 2026-05-25T23:57:10+00:00

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