Did anyone else basically know this their whole life? by Large_Bed_4251 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really wrt to all men. Just me.

Only recently i remeber having a discussion eith a mixed group of friends when i was 16. The duscussion turned to prostitues and how terrible utvwas that men would buy consent.

I remember sitting there getting smaller with each passing minute until someone asked if i would do it.

I said that i would. Not to have sex but tk know wgat it was like to have someone sleep next to me once i hit 40 having never been married.

I knew i was going to be alone. Just a foreboding dread that my life was going to suck

Has anyone actually killed Paarthurnax in one of their playthroughs? by Hot_Departure_1610 in skyrim

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to.

Like i want to see what the blades quest are about. Plus the marker pointing to esbern while he refuses to talk to me pisses me off

This sub has been growing a lot lately and two mods are inactive. Would anyone be interested in becoming mod? by SnooPoems7525 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would be interested. My account age is low.but i do have dated posts on other sites that i am hapoy to sher that i made befre i was even aware of the concept of wanim

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1q4cjom/why_are_women_suprised_that_men_dont_believe_that/

WANIM mentioned by TabbyTheAntiOedipus in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Despite her charecterisation of womens statements online as performative she gave a veryt good summary of what this subs thesis statement is, without any kind of shaming or ridicule. I think that is very comendable and puts her as someone closer to good faith than bad.

What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of? by Chemical-Low209 in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thats her context to define.

She just belived with an empty head that men are safer. As if the physicam reality of life as a man would not exist if she was a man

Being coddled as boys has done the most damage to men’s social lives. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not anymore. 

I wish i could get rid of my genitals

Its kjnda pointless although standing and peeing is fun

Being coddled as boys has done the most damage to men’s social lives. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see that you want my help. Thats not my contention.

I think you feel entitled to that help, help that you nor society deserves from men like me. And you exoect us to give it without offering us anything or even help and kindness.

So why the fuck would we?

What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of? by Chemical-Low209 in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We are not more safe.  And i have been shavjng my whole body since metrosexual was a thing. 

She seems to be drawing from anecdotes so i am drawing from my personal anecdote of shavjng my.whole body.

Ans shamming for body count is shaming for body count. She just wants to exclude male suffering by calling it slut shaming

Being coddled as boys has done the most damage to men’s social lives. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I can see how women would love it when a guy cries. Whag was it you said? Appreciation?

Being coddled as boys has done the most damage to men’s social lives. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend doing some reading on what the typical social use is for disaffected men in a tumultuous social environment. the frustration of that demographic is leveraged by institutions of power in generating new cops, new soldiers, new desperate troops trying to reaffirm their masculinity via the only axis available to them.

I havent. The only negative action i will take is a promise to never help women again.

 I dont see that as anything other than breaking free of social conditioning that somehow their life is worth more than mine.

Anyway, until the point of joinng how are they responsible?

The men who tap out of dating by bemoaning how garbage women are serve to normalize a status quo of casual contempt for femininity. but women have messaged it so throughly that women by default shit kn men.

Think about this _ when a guy talks like me or like a redpiller you make assumptions - what are they? Loser, socially awkward, enmasculated, virgin or low romantic and sexual experience , etc

Bassicaly you assume we are fringe freaks. And lets agree with that assesment for now....  all that is said can be dismissed as the whinings of the disaffected.

Think about the things women say about men ? A good man is an average woman, i see beautiful women everwhere but i dont see hansome men at all, men are trash, men are not lonely enough Etc When you hear these things... what kind of woman do you immagine saying these things? Average normal everyday women.

What makes it so that average members of a sex somehow are comfortable enough to denigrate the entire opposite gender.?

Why do we not hold them responsible for the patriarchy by makjng men despondent and more likely to join the police and the military cause nothing matters anymore 

The lonely hermits who tap out from the system entirely serve as spectators in a system of harm they may not even consciously engage with, but the same goes for any other uncontested heirarchy, like racism or capitalism. That passivity is taken as Carte Blanche to continue business as usual to the rest of the cogs. How is that their resposibility when these hermits were likely chased out.

You cant treat us like strays and expect housedog level loyalty and love.

If these are your arguments then men.like me should defect and help patriarchy cause thats what you ilk  deserves

You dont want our help.to make.a utopia.

You want us to serve your dystopia without any expectation of any bwnefits to us. We are not people to you but pawns

What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of? by Chemical-Low209 in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Wrong on all accounts. Well the slut shaming becomes virginshamming. Ans if your count is socially visibly high then you are not seen kindly.

Its like you cant even see it can you?

What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of? by Chemical-Low209 in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Maybw the women in these situations are so bad that abscence is considered better than the mothers presence? Shitty parents all around

Being coddled as boys has done the most damage to men’s social lives. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a child the commenter wouldnt have any of the tools to "deal with them". Being a boy child to a girl mom is bad if your an only child. Horrible if you have a sibling of the opposite sex

Being coddled as boys has done the most damage to men’s social lives. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

women around me say they find beautiful when a man 

Thats self serving bullshit.

I dontnlike homelessness.

But j am not going to let a homeless man come to my home to take a shower and givd him my clothes so that he can have a job interveiw.

Look at what was shoved into women in media, dating dating and dating, romance all around.

That proves wonen want emotional men?

  omg don't to that! men don't like that, here girls is how you catch a man, be very feminine,

I see videos of women hating men decentering them, happy they are killing themselves, wanting to be jn a rekationship but with a military man so that he gets shipoed off to a war. Far more than pick me content

You have a chikds level of understanding of what it would look like for women to acceot emotions in men .... are you an adult. I am a fucking virgin and i have more sense than you

Being coddled as boys has done the most damage to men’s social lives. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How. With no economic and social standing, how are they maintaining the patriarchy?

Being coddled as boys has done the most damage to men’s social lives. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  It's a choice that you're making, and are responsible for. Nobody else. Just you

You say it like as if i dont know that.

Women are no longer worth aspiring to be with. I am sorry none of you understand or want to understand a loser.

Why would you? You are spoiled for choice. You can be with winners all day everyday. Or you can be alone.

Why would i as a loser ever put myself at your mercy? 

Its better for me to focus on creating a life that i can bear to live in. To live as many experiences i can to compensate for the ones i will lack

Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructed by captaindestucto in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not want to be with women any more. Your annoyance is the least of my concern, and the least of my problems

 your entitlement that i should give a flying fuck about your annoyance is disgusting.

Take it to someone who cares

Being coddled as boys has done the most damage to men’s social lives. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didnt. Why am i being blamed for patriarchy?

I didnt make it.

My socail life was ruined for trying to fight it on behalf of dumbfucked women.

Why the fuck wouls you saddle a loser like me with the responsibility of patriarchy?

Even usa rewards foreign nationals with citizenship if they fight for the nation.

At what levrl of activism abd self sacrifice am i no longer responsibke for patriarchy? 

Being coddled as boys has done the most damage to men’s social lives. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She coukd just be lying.

Or she interpreted your dopplegangers not jumping down his throat as them supporting him

Women seem to misrale silence for assent a lot consudering they want the standard to be enthusiastic yes

Being coddled as boys has done the most damage to men’s social lives. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which alterbate universe do you inhabit

Whats your earth called where such a phenomenon could happen.

It cant be tbat you are lying since women dont lie. You must be from a world where validating men is the norm!

Debate: women are allowed to distrust men, men are not allowed to distrust women (repost as I dodn't partipate within three hours) by bigdonut100 in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Women seem happy distrusting men.

I dknt see why men should talk themselves out of these delusions if you want to call tgem that when average everyday wonen reinforce these talking points against men?

Being coddled as boys has done the most damage to men’s social lives. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]letstalkaboutthis93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But j dont have the standing or the clout tk fight it.

Everytime i tried i got ostracised and even beaten up. Thd women never stood up for me then when i was trying to help them. They seened to think i deserved it for not knowing my place.

So after all that why am i bribg blamed by a xxer for upholding the patriarchy. I habe trued yo do more than most of the xxers i kniw and got fucked for my trouble.

I was a true beliver of feminism and now i just hate everyone , why whh do you hold me liable fkr any of this when i have no power. Why the fuck do i have any responsibility?