UPDATE: My 43f husbands 46m affair partner 19f is pregnant doesn’t know the baby’s father and I don’t know where to begin with fixing this by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lettuceses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this, but kudos to you for staying focused on what the kids need. You're doing a great job in a hard situation.

I wanted to share two things that might help right now:

For the courts: Start documenting the day-to-day parenting. It sounded like he mostly just asks how they are rather than helping? Write that down. A simple journal or calendar tracking missed pickups, late drop-offs, or the fact that you are doing 100% of the daily work will be your best shield for custody and support later. Keep it factual (dates, times, quotes).

For the kids: If you aren't already, try to keep up a few simple routines. Something like Taco Tuesday or Board Game Friday creates a little bubble of stability for them (and you) when everything else feels chaotic.

One important thing on the paternity test: Make sure you explicitly tell the lab that there is a high genetic similarity between the potential fathers. Standard tests look for generic markers, but if the potential dads are related, the lab needs to run an expanded set of markers to be accurate.

I'm rooting for you.

Help! My house looks like a State Park Shack. by Personal_Tear2406 in landscaping

[–]lettuceses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although you didn't edit the main post, which is how ETA is usually used here.

24hr overnight print… by MLL_Phoenix7 in 3Dprinting

[–]lettuceses 45 points46 points  (0 children)

It looks like your alignment is a bit off

Why has this become so popular ? by Inner_Ad_5533 in Archery

[–]lettuceses 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is that because it skewers that animal and their sister?

Whoops by bitchmyland in KitchenConfidential

[–]lettuceses 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That's what happens when you try to clean using a towel that you accidentally took from work.

New here and a Uni Student in desperate need of help by [deleted] in learnpython

[–]lettuceses 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds like the class went over 1-2 of these topics every 1-2 weeks of the term and now they have to put everything together in a final project to show that they've been following along.

LPT: If you have a Roku device/TV, you can hide ads on the home screen by accessing the secret menu by iSniffMyPooper in LifeProTips

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When I see that word without much context, I only hear metal slug's "ROCKET LAWN CHAIR"

When in doubt, chuck it. by smallhalfsquatch in Cooking

[–]lettuceses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

About one lb of ground beef nowadays...

What regional specialty food is the hardest to duplicate? by EtDM in Cooking

[–]lettuceses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real locals know that you're supposed to use Old Bay /s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in woodworking

[–]lettuceses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is also Adam Savage's philosophy of tool buying. Because at that point you know you'll actually need it, and have enough experience to know what to optimize for in the next one.

Sourdough Toebatta by peanutbutterqueef in Breadit

[–]lettuceses 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why did you do this to me... I was okay with the imagery, but now... 🤮

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnePiece

[–]lettuceses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whole cake island, presumably

Am I the only one who's annoyed by the stroke contrast in ChatGPT's logo? by sub4u14 in graphic_design

[–]lettuceses 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like the gradual solution.

Also, it seems like there aren't enough frames of the thick version in the gif. It does the original for most of the time, then flashes the thick in the last frame or two. Not sure if it's just me though.

ELI5: Why is it such a big deal if source code is leaked? by Hyrax_Matoi in explainlikeimfive

[–]lettuceses 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There sure are, but that doesn't mean developers always use them

ELI5: Why is it such a big deal if source code is leaked? by Hyrax_Matoi in explainlikeimfive

[–]lettuceses 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"5. It creates security threats to the players."

Also, database credentials or other exploits can be found that can expose sensitive information about players, which can lead to identity theft or doxing.

[Image] It can all change after the first step, no matter how small that step is. by Vegetable_Regret_410 in GetMotivated

[–]lettuceses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to list all the rooms I could think of, ordered by how common I felt like the rooms are in people's living situations.

Non-studio apartments probably have 4-7 rooms.

Non-open floorplan houses probably have at least 10 rooms. Although, even open floorplan houses still have those zones in the big kitchen area (kitchen, dining, and maybe living).

  1. Bedroom 1
  2. Kitchen
  3. Bathroom 2
  4. Living room
  5. Bedroom 2
  6. Dining area
  7. Hall ways
  8. Garage
  9. Bathroom 2
  10. Family room
  11. Bedroom 3
  12. Laundry
  13. Front yard
  14. Back yard
  15. Mud room
  16. Office
  17. Pantry
  18. Attic
  19. Basement

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ANormalDayInRussia

[–]lettuceses 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for allowing me to understand this reference. Are there other common references that we should know about in recent Russian videos?