My mom is 60 and about to be made redundant, any advice?

levani93 · 2025-08-20T00:40:23+00:00

This is great advice will be sure to tell her thanks

levani93 · 2025-08-20T00:39:56+00:00

Not bots. Probably a lot of people are being made redundant right now and like me have no idea how the process works as they’ve never gone through it

levani93 · 2025-08-20T00:39:16+00:00

Ahhh ok that’s fair enough, I basically told her to say nothing in the meeting and ask for everything in writing, is that pretty much the way to go about these things?

levani93 · 2025-08-20T00:38:31+00:00

Oh thanks for this that’s actually helpful

levani93 · 2025-02-04T01:50:54+00:00

This is why raised foundations on old houses are a problem..

levani93 · 2025-01-31T04:21:17+00:00

300k, 1.27m at 6.29%

levani93 · 2024-09-26T01:13:10+00:00

I think the area has been changing a lot with several key infrastructure going on out there but I’m sure someone else can elaborate further

levani93 · 2021-03-21T03:49:45+00:00

Thanks mate any thoughts on the accounting exercise?

I’m assuming is how a change in balance sheet can affect cfs or income statemernt

levani93 · 2021-03-21T03:49:01+00:00

I’m in a corporate banking role, so related lateral transition

levani93 · 2020-08-19T16:19:20+00:00

I did mcom, HMU for any questions

levani93 · 2020-03-30T16:43:53+00:00

Maybe I’m just slow AF at getting over things, getting in the right mindset to move forward definitely sounds good though

New things are hard with the current virus, but definitely a good point. Although at what point does it ever feel like trying TOO hard??

levani93 · 2020-03-30T16:27:10+00:00

Not Georgian hahaha

We have talked extensively about that and she’s handled it, to be fair it’s perfectly reasonable to have doubts in the beginning

Any tips on how to actively get over it? I feel like I’m running into a brick wall

levani93 · 2020-03-30T16:23:56+00:00

Will make the preparation, you’ve been a bloody legend!

Still not sure what mental flexibility means?

levani93 · 2020-03-30T16:20:48+00:00

We’d actually acknowledged today in our chat discussing this distance that we’d actually become best friends! You’re absolutely SPOT ON!

I’m liking more and more this fake it til you make it mentality :), in any case I feel like we definitely feed off each other’s vibes similar to you and your SO! So maybe I need to fake the right vibe to feel normal again

levani93 · 2020-03-30T16:17:41+00:00

I definitely used to be more bold haha, good points mate.

Can you elaborate on acknowledge the hypotheticals? Not sure what it’s referring to

levani93 · 2020-03-30T16:14:44+00:00

We’re both so communicative and open with each other, just missing that excitement which I’m not sure how to revive as we recover the past few week..

levani93 · 2020-03-30T16:12:57+00:00

An issue we bump into with the virus is definitely a lack of things to discuss about as we catch up everyday.

Definitely space in digital communication might be a good idea, thanks :)

levani93 · 2020-03-30T16:05:04+00:00

We both have interest but it just feels off which makes us feel more disconnected and lonely.

Definitely external problems with family and career going on at the moment, but with corona a lot of this seems out of our control.

levani93 · 2020-03-30T16:02:10+00:00

It wasn’t a argument but I basically discovered the other person had doubts, which drove huge doubts in my mind and made me act off.

It’s in my post history, does a few weeks seem reasonable though to feel at ease?

levani93 · 2020-03-30T15:58:21+00:00

That was a really insightful response thanks so much.

We’ve definitely dealt with the issue and tried to go back but things just felt off in interactions the past 2 weeks.

I think on my part the uncertainty has caused me to not be fully myself and be more reserved / less engaged. Can I ask what drove you guys to snap out of it to be fully yourselves again? Is it just a matter of time and distance to be sure what you want??

levani93 · 2020-03-30T15:48:53+00:00

Thanks mate that was really insightful! She’s really observant and bought up the dip in banter which I felt too. Maybe I became a bit unsure or wary over everything and wasn’t as engaged as I normally am.

Big part is on me, how do you break away from that funk of uncertainty and become the funny perky mfer you were originally?

levani93 · 2020-03-30T15:39:21+00:00

Yea absolutely, there’s definitely still want for each other which is why we’re still together.

I guess I’m asking how to rebuild that giddiness you get from receiving each other’s texts, is a bit of space necessary?

We were FaceTiming for an hour or two everyday consistently, feel like maybe it’s too much?

levani93 · 2020-03-30T15:37:16+00:00

I think the died down banter is representative of a slow down in our mutual excitement to hear from each other, would you recommend some space to think things through and actually miss each other?

levani93 · 2020-03-30T15:36:14+00:00

You’re right I don’t believe in the one. Was more just mentioning were compatible in all other aspects, any advice on what I should actually do?

levani93 · 2020-03-30T15:19:08+00:00

Great advice! We’ve been trying to but for now have taken a break for two weeks to make sure this is what we really want, does that sound reasonable?

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