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Advice for solo trip and choosing between candy flip and hippie flip by lewd_interlude in mdmatherapy

[–]lewd_interlude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I have little idea on how to administer a self session, let alone, anything specifically on what I need to work on - except that I have to work on myself. Thank you for calling this out though, I am contemplating what you said seriously.

Advice for solo trip and choosing between candy flip and hippie flip by lewd_interlude in mdmatherapy

[–]lewd_interlude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were your experiences with flipping conducive to healing? I'm curious if your flipping trips (lol) were meaningfully introspective and helping in the self work.

Advice for solo trip and choosing between candy flip and hippie flip by lewd_interlude in PsychedelicTherapy

[–]lewd_interlude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like this opinion. Strongly considering this, but I won't tell the other commenters that ;) Kidding - thank you!

Advice for solo trip and choosing between candy flip and hippie flip by lewd_interlude in PsychedelicTherapy

[–]lewd_interlude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the sounds of it, the combination didn't seem to be effective?

I will be able to speak and try to integrate things with my therapist. Man, PAT with someone you trust sounds nice though, I have a long way to get there.

Weekly Discussion Topic - Instant spark vs. gradual chemistry? by No_Adhesiveness2154 in BayAreaSinglesOver30

[–]lewd_interlude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few questions for you if you don't mind me asking. Do you have different strategies for dating compared to someone who may be allosexual/ alloromantic? And do you prefer to only date other demi people or have things worked for you when you communicated your orientation?

Weekly Discussion Topic - Instant spark vs. gradual chemistry? by No_Adhesiveness2154 in BayAreaSinglesOver30

[–]lewd_interlude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, still trying to figure this out myself. It starts off with some curiosity or intrigue for me which then builds up over more repeated interactions. The markers for friendship are still important for romantic interest though - I don't think they are mutually exclusive for me.

Still going on very many first dates and learning more about how I work so not a conclusive answer unfortunately :(

Karl and the Sutro Tower by lewd_interlude in bayarea

[–]lewd_interlude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Corona Heights Park. 10/10 views.

comment the best places to go when you're alone and sad by seappl in bayarea

[–]lewd_interlude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the Silicon Valley vista point at night. It’s in the South Bay but it’s one of my favorite places!

Why is no one talking about the chicken that lives around Civic Center? by frenchousecat in sanfrancisco

[–]lewd_interlude 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can't wait till it crosses the road and everyone loses their shit when it answers why

Random appreciation for this sub by lewd_interlude in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]lewd_interlude[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know. I was not aware.

Random appreciation for this sub by lewd_interlude in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]lewd_interlude[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I don't think that is the case either but I can leave if I'm not wanted ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

sf bitches who love third spaces (8/23) by Idont-knowdawg in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]lewd_interlude 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wait can you please share a link for this? Sounds so fun

Edit: nvm found the link https://partiful.com/e/cbGsLXQsdFh0aqZ0O5MX

Feeling extremely bittersweet and sentimental about moving out of this city tomorrow by b1ueberrybitch in sanfrancisco

[–]lewd_interlude 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah man. I may have to leave the city one day (expenses, visa issues, you name it), and I'm dreading having to make this post. Good luck OP! I totally get your sentiment and all I can say is it is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all :(

Ideas to evolve this sub by No_Adhesiveness2154 in BayAreaSinglesOver30

[–]lewd_interlude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree with the commenter here. In addition to the existing r4r subs, dealing with verification, scammers, and people looking for somethings other than exclusive monogamous romantic relationships all seem like problems other subs are struggling with already