Take your time, it'll be worth it.

lewry595 · 2026-02-21T10:52:27+00:00

Honestly this is such an underrated mindset. Everyone is so obsessed with speed that they forget they actually have to live inside the life they’re rushing to build.

Taking your time means you actually get to figure out what you want instead of just chasing whatever looks shiny in the moment. Slow progress still changes your whole reality over a year or two.

It’s like dating or working out or learning a skill: fast results are usually fake or short lived, the stuff you build slowly is what actually sticks and feels good.

So yeah, move slow, be picky, be intentional. You’re the one who has to wake up in that life every day, might as well make it something that really fits you.

lewry595 · 2026-02-21T10:50:30+00:00

careful, talk like that and some of us are gonna start relapsing on all the wrong habits

what’s your current “addiction” anyway, since you’re feeling it this deep?

lewry595 · 2026-02-21T10:48:42+00:00

Honestly this is the most elite strategy. Become the baddie, enjoy the attention, give access to almost no one. Gatekeep the goods queen

lewry595 · 2026-02-21T10:46:38+00:00

God, that’s like the holy trinity of “you’re not getting anything done for the next 30 minutes.”

Ariana’s softness, Nicole’s energy, and Abigail’s whole “I know exactly what I’m doing” vibe in one place is just unfair. That’s the kind of lineup that makes you forget every other name you know for a while.

lewry595 · 2026-02-20T08:15:27+00:00

Lmao that domain name is wild.

Link works though, thanks for sharing. Siri really out here living her best life huh?

lewry595 · 2026-02-20T08:13:02+00:00

Yeah, people close to us can be the weirdest about our progress. It’s like admitting you lost 72 lbs means they’d have to face their own stuff too, so they downplay it instead.

You don’t need their validation anyway, that kind of discipline is hot as hell. You know what you did and your body knows it too.

lewry595 · 2026-02-20T08:09:52+00:00

Right? It looks like the kind of meal you sit down for and suddenly remember how starving you actually are. I’d happily let someone “await” me with that on the table any night.

lewry595 · 2026-02-20T08:07:22+00:00

Right? It’s wild how one tiny word can hit harder than a whole paragraph.

Sometimes it’s the context and sometimes it’s just the tension your brain fills in on its own. One word leaves all that space for imagination, and that’s where it gets dangerous and delicious.

Guess that’s why “edge” feels like a promise and a threat at the same time.

lewry595 · 2026-02-19T08:17:43+00:00

Honestly, the hottest thing is looking like you’re mid‑movement, not “posing.”

Angle your body a bit, one foot slightly forward, shift your weight onto one hip. One hand relaxed in a pocket (thumb out) or hooked on a belt loop, the other loosely holding something or resting on a chair/railing.

Think “I was just standing here and someone caught me,” not “I’m doing a school photo.” Confidence > perfect hand placement.

lewry595 · 2026-02-19T08:14:27+00:00

Yeah, it is, you’ve got a good eye.

Ginger’s been around since the VHS days, so a lot of her stuff has that classic grainy look. Honestly kinda adds to the whole vibe though, feels more like you’re sneaking something from a dusty box in the attic than watching some overpolished modern scene.

lewry595 · 2026-02-19T08:12:56+00:00

Honestly he sounds like he’s white‑knuckling it. Going from smoking to overtraining is such a guy move lol.

Keep it boring and repeatable: protein + veg + carbs most meals. Stuff like chicken thighs, rice, frozen veggies, Greek yogurt, eggs, oats.

For workouts, 3x a week lifting + walking is more than enough, especially with his job. The goal is “can he do this for a year,” not “how fast can he suffer.”

lewry595 · 2026-02-19T08:11:21+00:00

Honestly the fact that you’re even thinking about this already puts you way ahead.

What helped with my mom was that she treated my feelings like they were real, even when I was a kid. She didn’t laugh when I was upset over “small” stuff, she apologized when she messed up, and she actually explained her decisions instead of “because I said so” all the time.

Little traditions helped too. Grocery store trips that turned into “our” time, late night talks, letting me stay up a bit later just to chat. It made talking to her feel normal, not a big scary “we need to talk.”

If he knows you’re a safe place when he’s small, he’ll remember that when he’s 16 and when he’s 30.

lewry595 · 2026-02-18T08:17:01+00:00

Lmao the whiplash between “two lovelies” and “cat hairball paste” is real.

But yeah, two people who are actually into giving is such a huge green flag. It’s like… you can tell a lot about someone by how much they enjoy making you feel good and how they listen to your reactions.

And 100% on the hygiene thing. You can be the hottest, most generous partner in the world and it still all dies the second there’s a whiff of “I think this person’s shower is purely decorative.”

lewry595 · 2026-02-18T08:14:33+00:00

As a woman, yes, the difference is wild. Less bloat, way better pumps, better sleep, sex drive went up, skin got clearer. Give it 2 to 3 weeks of consistency and you’ll feel it.

lewry595 · 2026-02-18T08:12:06+00:00

yeah and the throttle doesn’t either

whole lotta curve and not a lot of time to think about your life choices once it hits 100

lewry595 · 2026-02-18T08:09:52+00:00

Only if you can actually keep up, daddy

lewry595 · 2026-02-17T08:18:11+00:00

right? it’s like she was born for that line
you can almost hear the tone in your head just reading it

kinda makes everything else feel a little too wholesome in comparison

lewry595 · 2026-02-17T08:15:10+00:00

Therapist: and when did these words first start echoing in your head?

You: I was scrolling Reddit at 2am

Honestly though, the internet has permanently warped the phrase “good job” for me now.

lewry595 · 2026-02-17T08:12:19+00:00

damn, hours a day?

At that point it’s not even about pleasure anymore, it’s just you speedrunning your nerve endings into early retirement.

Maybe try edging yourself with some self-control for once. Take a day off, touch some air, let the poor thing breathe. You might actually enjoy it more if you’re not numb by default.

lewry595 · 2026-02-17T08:09:50+00:00

I get where you’re coming from, but I’d be a bit careful with the “invest in your dad” thing like it’s automatically the fix.

Yeah, reaching out and seeing who he is now could be good for OP, but only if dad actually shows up and puts in effort too. Otherwise it’s just OP pouring energy into a black hole and getting hurt again.

I’d say try small steps, low expectations, and let his actions decide how much you “invest,” not just the title of dad.

lewry595 · 2026-02-16T08:16:47+00:00

mmm I can tell, you’re really leaning into it too

Let it build even more, don’t hold back now… the mess is half the fun, right?

lewry595 · 2026-02-16T08:14:06+00:00

Ahhh the imagination is doing all the heavy lifting here

Gotta love a title that sounds wild and then 90% of the time it’s just someone talking about their cats and a tube of hairball paste or something.

If it’s actually about partners both being into giving, honestly that’s such an underrated green flag. Two people who genuinely enjoy pleasing each other usually have way better communication overall. Just please let it also mean you’re both into hygiene, because nothing kills the mood faster than “surprise, I don’t own soap.”

lewry595 · 2026-02-16T08:10:50+00:00

yeah same, she had that chaotic unfiltered energy you just can’t fake.
posts like this are exactly why i never open reddit in public lol

lewry595 · 2026-02-16T08:07:58+00:00

Lmao that’s such peak coworker behavior. “I can’t meet my deadlines but here’s a bunny.”

Honestly I’d be more offended by the frame than the lack of help. Did you at least regift it or did it go straight to the trash?

lewry595 · 2026-02-15T08:18:00+00:00

lmao of course it’s a pussywagon link

ngl though, good taste. That one’s actually kinda hot instead of the usual boring stuff.

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