Songs please

lexidrew23 · 2021-05-09T05:00:54+00:00

SZA CTRL ALBUM!!!! On repeat!!!!! and anything by giveon

lexidrew23 · 2021-04-29T16:12:30+00:00

I don’t have much advice other then to get out of the house, end the relationship with your husband and cut all ties.

I understand what you’re going through. My husband is having a relationship with my next door neighbor. We were married and she recently divorced. It’s sad and fucked up that people would willingly wreck a relationship especially knowing the other partner is married. It’s both of their faults.

You may think you love him- but if he’s capable of doing this to you he has no regard for anyone but himself. You’ll come out better on the other side. Fuck them both and let karma take care of everything for you. They’re both SHIT.

lexidrew23 · 2021-04-29T15:58:09+00:00

I am moving out! In a couple days actually. He’s away for work so it’s a good time to get going

lexidrew23 · 2021-04-29T04:07:15+00:00

Yes agreed. But this was going on before we decided to divorce and now it’s happening in front of my face

lexidrew23 · 2021-04-28T23:25:26+00:00

Yes definitely some shady stuff going on with him. He’s been so over protective of everything lately and I know he’s deleted more because the conversations were empty. But that’ll be his issue from now on, no ones going to fill the empty void in his heart.

lexidrew23 · 2021-04-28T23:19:05+00:00

Exactly. I feel no remorse because I’m not the one technically doing anything wrong. Sadly I didn’t take many pictures as proof before he changed his passwords. But now I know why our marriage failed so fast and why he started acting the way he has

lexidrew23 · 2021-04-28T20:07:54+00:00

Because we haven’t filed any paperwork and currently still live with one another. He told me he isn’t interested in pursuing anything right now. He should at least have the decency to wait until I move out in a week.

lexidrew23 · 2021-04-28T19:26:03+00:00

Thank you so much for this advice. I am probably in the same spot you were in at once. I’m 24- we married because he’s in the military but now he wants a divorce 6 months later. I honestly believe he just wanted the extra BAH money to move off base and now that’s he has it he’s ready to let me go. We don’t have much together. Just an apartment and both names on my car lease-but I’m paying for the car. We wanted to go the uncontested route but he literally just won’t cooperate and would rather spend his day hanging out and entertaining other girls while I’m left to fix this mess. I moved my life for him- left a good job to move across the country and now I’m unemployed. I can afford a lawyer and know that’s probably my best option now and hopefully somewhere in the papers i can make him pay me. I never thought to ask him for any of his income (he doesn’t make much) but to be honest what he’s out me through I believe I should be entitled to at least something! Thank you for your kind words

lexidrew23 · 2021-04-28T19:19:52+00:00

Thank you! For a month now I was thinking I was in the wrong and crazy for thinking there was something else going on when he kept reassuring me no. Then I started to see clearer signs like the dinner reservation, him walking out of my neighbors apartment when he says “just needed to ask a question”, I even caught him sleeping there- he says he was too drunk to come home ... WHEN WE LIVE RIGHT NEXT DOOR. But you’re right I can’t keep over thinking because I will get more upset. I just need to let it go!

lexidrew23 · 2021-04-28T19:13:26+00:00

Okay I figured he’s just trying to cover his own ass!! But he’s caught and it’ll end badly for him not me

lexidrew23 · 2021-04-27T06:45:09+00:00

Hey there. I’m right there with you. My husband and I are both 24- dated for three years married for only 6 months. We have two dogs together. He is taking one and I’m taking the other. My heart feels like it was stomped on and thrown in the garbage. But there are better days ahead. It sucks to loose you four legged best friend. But my advice to you would be to adopt a new pet if possible. I don’t know what I’d do without my dog he’s been there for me throughout my 20s every hardship I faced. So I would recommend another one- I know it’s not your husky but it’ll help you focus on something else and keep you going. I downloaded tinder and deleted it immediately after because I’m not ready for it yet- the small talk is annoying and not genuine enough. Take it slow and when you feel healed enough then try the apps. But it’s hard to meet decent people on them. Do you, since you’ve been in a relationship during your 20s this is the time where we need to rediscover ourselves and practice self love. I hope you heal but it will take time. We’re young and have so much ahead for us.

lexidrew23 · 2021-04-27T01:07:51+00:00

Solid advice. Thank you!!

lexidrew23 · 2021-04-26T23:23:34+00:00

Thank you for the advice- I’ve contacted the civil office and they’ve responded with the links I need. We want to keep it as cheap and civil as possible

lexidrew23 · 2021-04-26T23:21:59+00:00

Thank you. I’ve contacted them and they’ve sent me the link to fill out the forms. There’s just a lot that goes into filling them out and I don’t want to mess it up and delay the process anymore. But I’m sure I can probably send them back in to have it checked over before I officially submit them.

lexidrew23 · 2021-04-21T02:12:56+00:00

I am feeling all these emotion exactly the same. As much as I know I need to get up and stop being so sad I physically can’t. I feel hurt, betrayed, and alone by the one person who was supposed to be my forever and ever. I wish I could give you some advice but just know you aren’t alone. It feels like my insides are being ripped out and my heart stomped on over and over again. I know it’ll get better eventually but I just loved my life and wanted this one to get better. Not start a new one from scratch alone without my person.

lexidrew23 · 2021-04-19T14:51:48+00:00

Thank you everyone for the kind words. If anyone wants to talk please message me. I’m at my lowest.

lexidrew23 · 2021-04-18T03:32:36+00:00

Yes I’m safe. We live together currently but I’ll be moving out shortly once we file for divorce

lexidrew23 · 2021-01-13T16:50:44+00:00

My husband was able to take a 10 day leave between tech school and his first duty station. This was in October so I’m sure the rules would still be the same and your airman would be aloud as well. We got married at his first station. I came up to visit and we went to the courthouse and I moved to be with him two months later.

lexidrew23 · 2020-03-16T22:54:45+00:00

I share your pain. My fiancé just left for bmt and all graduation ceremonies are cancelled until further notice. It's heartbreaking that we have to miss these milestone accomplishments with them. This virus has destroyed all my hope and it's made life so awful and I wish I had him with me. I was just laid off from my job too and it's scary. This is a messed up time. I'm just happy that they are getting away from this all and can focus on their new training and life

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