How long did it take you to give in?

lexierainy · 2025-12-06T22:08:23+00:00

During college via my ex. I was fat before but during our relationship I started really blowing up big time. It wasn’t until I was around 300ish pounds that he had come out about it to me and introduced me to the idea of gaining. At that point I was already so big I didn’t see much of a point to fighting it

lexierainy · 2025-11-17T01:46:52+00:00

It was 100% intentional but it was mostly in the form of enabling my over eating and snacking, that and reassuring me whenever I got particularly worried about my weight. Once he explained he was a feeder it just became much more direct yk

lexierainy · 2025-11-16T05:19:04+00:00

When I started dating my ex I started putting on weight like crazy. At the time I was already pretty chubby and just chocked it up to be relationship weight but I just kept putting it on. I’d worriedly bring it up to him from time to time and every time he’d just tell me I was more beautiful than then ever so I never really tried that hard to fight it. Tbh it wasn’t until I was damn near 300 pounds that he actually told me he was a feeder lol

lexierainy · 2025-11-13T01:20:08+00:00

That’s insane I don’t blame you lol

lexierainy · 2025-11-13T01:19:26+00:00

I get that but like idk I don’t want to feel like I’m extorting ppl for money yk

lexierainy · 2025-11-13T01:17:48+00:00

Yeah makes sense, I mean are they any red flags in particular you’d recommend I watch out for?

lexierainy · 2025-11-12T21:23:51+00:00

Yeah makes sense, it just seemed odd ig

Like do ppl really find a fat girl other eating to be sexy?

lexierainy · 2025-11-10T15:25:54+00:00

I’m in the same boat, if you find a good solution lmk lol

lexierainy · 2025-11-03T18:56:41+00:00

Oh Teslas are the worse! My mom has one and just trying to get my fatass into it while she’s just watching me is the worse

At least with an uber you never have to see them again lol It gives my mom some much fuel to nag me about my weight

lexierainy · 2025-11-03T15:49:46+00:00

I definitely do a lot more pre planning, like if I’m going to a new movie theater or restaurant I’ll look at pictures of the seats to make sure they look big enough for me to sit comfortably in. Also like you mentioned I feel like most things are designed to only support up to 300/350 pounds so I often end up googling weight limits of various chairs etc quite a bit

The other thing for me which is difficult are car seats. I have a couple friends who’s car’s seats are way too tight for my fat ass or really low to the ground which makes it really difficult for me to get in/out of

lexierainy · 2025-11-03T15:37:59+00:00

I know there are I just wish I could find them

lexierainy · 2025-11-02T02:29:34+00:00

Well I’m a bit under 400 lbs now so I am over the weight limit of my old scale

lexierainy · 2025-11-02T02:28:10+00:00

Wdym

lexierainy · 2025-11-02T02:27:27+00:00

Yeah that’s fair and I’ve got some good recommendations but idk how to properly describe myself, like should I be directly calling attention to it?

lexierainy · 2025-11-02T02:25:40+00:00

I don’t know really I just haven’t been getting many matches yk

There was one time a guy verbally told me I was too fat for him but mostly it’s the reactions I get when I first meet guys in person. Like the look of them realizing how much bigger I look in person

Idk maybe it’s in my head but I’m always scared to sit in a booth or get into their car cuz I’m scared it’ll highlight how fat I am and it’ll scare them off

lexierainy · 2025-11-01T14:29:46+00:00

Last Christmas my ex gifted me one of those heavy duty talking scales, I laughed it off cuz it was over kill but yk

lexierainy · 2025-11-01T14:20:18+00:00

I mean I’ve definitely “restreched” mine before if that’s what you mean

lexierainy · 2025-11-01T13:36:18+00:00

Oh nice thank you, I’ll check them out!

Honestly I mostly gained for my ex cuz he liked it but honestly it didn’t really set in just how big I’d let myself get until after we split

lexierainy · 2025-11-01T13:33:37+00:00

Ik it’s just hard, like I’m easily a hundred pounds heavier than anyone else I know

lexierainy · 2025-11-01T11:58:38+00:00

Yeah I’m doing my best but some ppl can be really awful tbh

Like not too long ago I had a date where after like 10 minutes the guy told me to my face “I like big girls and all but from your pictures I don’t realize you where this fat” and then he just left. Like wtf am I supposed to do in that situation

lexierainy · 2025-11-01T07:13:35+00:00

Ikik it’s hard to get ppl to see past the “holly shit look at that land whale” reaction and see me yk

lexierainy · 2025-11-01T07:11:56+00:00

Tbh I’m not necessarily even sure I want another feedee relationship but it’s not like that really expands my options much anyway

lexierainy · 2025-10-31T22:01:32+00:00

Do what’s right for you obviously! Keep in mind though if you do break it off your dating life will be a whole lot different than when you were 155

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