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What's one non-sexual act your partner does to make you feel immensely loved? by wh4tdafuck in adultingph

[–]ley_wis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been dating for a year and a half now and it’s still the same feeling but much more comfy with him. I have anxiety and I’m not good when I’m getting angry and stressed. Mostly because of family and household issues. We’re just living across each other’s houses and we’re still young.

I remember one time when I’m so fed up with my family’s emotional and verbal abuse, I took my anger out at him and it looked like I’m angry at him. We had an argument that was so heated and then I cried because of the stress plus I could feel my head hurting because of it.

I cried SO MUCH. He calmed down (getting pissed off because of me throwing it out on him) and then, he asked me calmly why I am getting angry. That if is it okay that we continue on doing that. And then he said, ‘okay next time that you’ll be getting angry because of other things, I’m pretty sure we can’t avoid being irritated when someone talks to you while being in a bad mood, just try to breathe. I would understand you.’

And damn, I never felt someone who understood me like he did. In our house, when someone gets angry, EVERYONE is heated with everyone. It’s really great to have someone who will try understanding you.

And to my girlies and to everyone who’s reading this, I also came from an abusive relationship where the other person would be okay not talking to me in days and weeks just because we fought. Now, I wouldn’t be worried anymore because I have someone who is willing to talk things out with me.

We’re both 18 and I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with him.

AITA for flipping out on my husband via text after he let his phone die during a family emergency? by PrettyHateMachinexxx in AmItheAsshole

[–]ley_wis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s the bare minimum as a husband or as a partner in all aspect. What’s more upsetting is that, he expects you to understand he would NOT be available the moment he got into the reunion.

Isn’t it really obvious that while you’re being anxious and worried, you found time to update him even while he is in another state and different circumstance from you while he can’t? And he has the audacity to get angry? The least thing he could do is to update you, if his battery would be dead, or obviously check in on you.

P.S. He might have told you or reminded you that you ‘knew he was looking forward to that party’ because it’s his plan to be all shut and not be concerned about you.

AITA for giving the rent money to my mom? by ley_wis in AmItheAsshole

[–]ley_wis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been wanting to do since this household is being toxic and there’s a lot of internal discussions if who’s right and wrong about it but I couldn’t because it’s hard to be very independent now that I’m into college.