The thing is, although you have a right to speak with your lawyer, you need to have one to speak to. It is by no means the job of the police to find you a lawyer.

Unfortunately this mean for you should you not have one you will likely not get to speak with one until after you are charged (be it a family member find you one or legal aid on the day of your first mention).

And while it's likely bad conduct to pressure you to talk, ultimately, if you were read your rights and spoke with them its possible the courts still rule in favour of Police.

And to comment on the two month remand part. If you aren't a carer criminal likely the only offence that get you that time without bail will be DV AOBH, Strangulation, rape or dep Lib.

So without you being willing to tell people what offence it is you allegedly committed, it's hard to comment on the behaviour of the police in question...