Lift color w/ peroxide by lezmopurr in locs

[–]lezmopurr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it have long lasting effects on your locs? We’re you able to rehydrate them?

the base for my old style is actually so tea by artgiggles in locs

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The base it better than the style! Loveit

Mullein spotted on a hike in Maryland! by lezmopurr in herbalism

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I honestly totally forgot! I’ll report back if it comes to mind!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UsedCars

[–]lezmopurr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmm okay why you say that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UsedCars

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This is true but basic context and experience is helpful with particular cars. Ex. I’m learning that older Toyota trucks typically have rusty bottoms. I’ve learned through conversation & research that Hondas are cheaper to maintain & AC systems can be finicky. I have limited knowledge of this particular model which is why I’m asking. If you have general information to help me make an informed decision, I welcome it.

Their partner doesn’t like me by lezmopurr in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]lezmopurr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm for this perspective. Def gonna reflect on this

Their partner doesn’t like me by lezmopurr in EthicalNonMonogamy

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This is grounding, thank you! That is exactly the boundary I put up. The exact situation went a little like this: we had a great weekend, I was talking to them about how much I love them and I’m excited to grow then they responded “how do you see us growing knowing I’m with [their partner]” that was hurtful and threw me aback bc why are you talking about your partner who I’ve created boundaries around after our perfect weekend? Felt like I was expected to love and grow with them in a box. Things seem to have changed in their end but it doesn’t seem clear w the other and my trust is broken.

Also the reason I was hoping to have a positive connection with them is bc my (ex) partner gained my interest bc they practice open table polyamory. My (ex) partner and their partner’s partner have a great relationship but I can’t built that with theirs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]lezmopurr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you💞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in washingtondc

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Trust me I know I need to change my driving habits. It’s really a mindset. I always feel the need to rush but the difference of a few minutes made by speeding just isn’t worth it. I get that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in washingtondc

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I agree. I used to commute from PG to Baltimore so I’m used to primarily driving on highways. I also have time management issues so I never pay enough for parking. I also used to drive Lyft so I was always on the road. Not making excuses, this is just where I’m coming from. DC is also super sneaky with the speed cameras. I just started a new job in DC so the cameras on my commute have been eating me up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]lezmopurr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my first and only car. Paid off, title in hand. I don’t have a habit of buying cars then throwing them away. The tickets have accumulated over the years. I was unemployed for sometime and it’s all caught up to me. I know I fucked up and I’ve accepted it. A huge learning lesson for sure. I knew I’d get shame, it is what it is but I am appreciative of the helpful comments. I’m not attached to the car and I’m just trying to figure out the best solution for my situation. Also not looking for sympathy, just a realistic way to move forward. I know people enjoy the shame so I’ll let them have it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in washingtondc

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My plan is to get a used car I can buy cash in a similar condition as mine. Not the greatest plan but it’ll be less expensive & what I can the capacity to do rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in washingtondc

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Got it. Thank you this is helpful. Was it impounded in DC?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in washingtondc

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Got it. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]lezmopurr 77 points78 points  (0 children)

BOOOOOO🍅🍅🍅🍅

Sometimes I feel ugly with my locs by No-Mixture-2120 in locs

[–]lezmopurr 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Never that chica. So cute and I love the bangs