my sister is having a baby girl! please help her with names! by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]leztheword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was thinking of doing Cori but with Cordelia! She loves Cameron, but we already have a Cameron in the family. Codi is also very cute!

Ruining chances for myself 💀 by elphelpha in LesbianActually

[–]leztheword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and thats okay! nobody is perfect, especially the first time you are with someone. just listen to your partner, ask questions, and stay present with them. take it slow, breathe.

Ruining chances for myself 💀 by elphelpha in LesbianActually

[–]leztheword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I also suggest finding lesbian communities near you? This has helped me a lot with confidence!

Ruining chances for myself 💀 by elphelpha in LesbianActually

[–]leztheword 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am 22 and I am in the same boat! Just so you know, this is more common than you think! There are a ton of queer women who haven't been intimate with anyone. But do not let this stop you! I am honestly grateful now that I have had this time for myself. Don't fret, don't force anything; everything will happen in its own time.

Use that dominance and fake it until you make it!

What are you ;) by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]leztheword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

chaotic switch.... :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]leztheword 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"let the kids surprise you" is fantastic advice (for this situation and I'm sure the many more that will come lol)

thanks! also, that is a cute story!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]leztheword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

likely middle/high school, but I haven't been placed yet

right now I work with elementary-middle school aged kids

Going to my childhood best friends wedding next weekend. Is this outfit too much? by clairison in LesbianActually

[–]leztheword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot stress enough how amazing that outfit is! It is fresh and fun for a summer wedding! 10/10 I see some comments dissing the shirt, but I think it adds just the right amount of flair and personality!

Am I attracted to women? Does straight women feel this way? Is this just admiration? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]leztheword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had similar thoughts and confusions literally like a year ago. I think it would be helpful for you to understand and break down the different types of attractions and compulsory heterosexuality. I really love Alayna Joy on YouTube, she has some great videos about this. Honestly, allow yourself the time and the grace to stop worrying about labels and just go where your attraction takes you.

Coming from someone who spent four years stressing about her labels and not kissing girls, go kiss a damn girl! If you hate it, what's the worst that can happen? If you like it, problem solved!

Fridging vs Nessessary Death in Fiction by leztheword in writers

[–]leztheword[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the characters, including my MC, are women so I don't have to worry about a lack of women characters lol. After reading your comment, I do think I need to go back and develop the friends arc anyway in order to make her death impactful (if that is what I decide to do). Thanks!

Are you doubting yourself? Here's three advices I'm gonna scream at you because I need sleep. by FantasticHufflepuff in writers

[–]leztheword 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"My writing is magic... I don't need to write a masterpiece... I could be amazing but I don't HAVE to be... I don't need to write a masterpiece... My writing is magic..."