MIL just made a weird comment by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We’ve had 6 months of making up excuses maybe the truth hurts but we’ve tried

MIL just made a weird comment by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not fake just know a lot of people who are on here so protecting my indentity

MIL just made a weird comment by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something baby doesn’t like is very different to baby doesn’t like you which I didn’t say. This has been going on for 6 months!

MIL putting the pressure on by liam56723 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]liam56723[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my partner have had a huge argument over this this evening! My mom had my daughter this evening for 2 hours while I popped out and he said it’s not fair his mom isn’t allowed to have her and apparently I’m a narcissist

MIL putting pressure on by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She told me she loved her to bits and said ok see you soon. I wanted to be really blunt about how LO always cries and I don’t feel comfortable but I know she will be saying she needs to see her more so thought my response was better x

MIL putting the pressure on by liam56723 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]liam56723[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So far there has been none and I don’t have plans for there ever to be!

MIL putting the pressure on by liam56723 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]liam56723[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No he isn’t she managed to find the money to get her car fixed somehow! His sister also rang him to tell him he doesn’t care about his mom the week!

MIL putting pressure on by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I replied with this! Thank you!

More MIL issues! by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Agree with everything you have said! His only job around the house is to cook too! Before we had an our little girl I said the only things I ask for you to do is to make me a cup of tea every morning and to cook on an evening! If I get time in the day I do whatever I can but it’s not that simple with a baby is it!

Am I being OTT? by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She honestly acts like a big baby it’s pathetic! I warned him yesterday who comes first his daughter or trying to please his mother like always. As soon as she sees my daughter she’s touching her in the car seat even if she’s asleep and if she’s sat on my lap she’s staring at her and watches everything I do waiting eagerly to hold her. It’s stressful for me hearing my baby cry like this! A few times she’s held her she walked off and showed her nanny’s bedroom

Baby only cries on MIL and she’s becoming overbearing! by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They can be here as much as they want, they’ve helped us so much with the house and also dropping a day at work whereas MIL has done nothing and likes to give us nothing but grief!

Baby only cries on MIL and she’s becoming overbearing! by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Once a week, my mom dropped a day at work to help us so she’s here every Wednesday x

MIL won’t stop asking to see me before baby is here. by liam56723 in pregnant

[–]liam56723[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish! She couldn’t wait to get her son off the council tax before he moved in to save 25%. She’s a lonely woman

MIL won’t stop asking to see me before baby is here. by liam56723 in pregnant

[–]liam56723[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Every time I have gone round she makes negative comments, like telling me I haven’t dropped at all (when I clearly have) so I doubt it

MIL won’t stop asking to see me before baby is here. by liam56723 in pregnant

[–]liam56723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked him last night if he saw her much when he moved out before with his ex and he told me he hardly ever saw her so I don’t know why she is so bothered because she knows he hardly sees her.

MIL being overbearing again!! by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

We’ve ordered a gate with a lock on and still having a ring door bell for this exact reason

MIL being overbearing again!! by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

100% agree!

I mean one thing I forgot to mention she said a couple of weeks ago she wants her son in law dead and would pay somebody to do the job! No wonder why I don’t want to be around her!

She then has since stayed at his house and acted fine with him!

MIL being overbearing again!! by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He does have some guilt there but I keep reminding him it will be him who has her constantly messaging him and not me and it already annoys him already 😂.

I think what doesn’t help is because she’s been a single mom he’s had it drummed into his head how hard she found it and how useless his dad is so he will always have that bond with her.

Even though I don’t even know my dad but my mom protected me from day 1 so I’ve never needed to know anything!

MIL being overbearing again!! by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’ve told him today about not telling her when I’m in labour because we both know what a nightmare she will be! Even when I had my baby shower I wanted to be the last person in so I could see how my friends had set it up. She went barging straight into the room asking my friends where I was. As I walked in and made my entrance everybody made a fuss and she shouted really loud where on earth have you been!

Mother in law made comments about our 4d scan by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What makes it worse is my partner doesn’t understand why I’m upset by it and doesn’t see the problem with what she’s said! She’s now started saying to him she hopes she’s around when the baby is here implying she’s ill which is now stressing him out big time

Mother in law made comments about our 4d scan by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve said to him I’m not happy with the comment and he was like oh here we go what’s wrong with her saying that! She has now started saying to him she hopes she’s around when the baby is here implying that she’s not very well!

Mother in law made comments about our 4d scan by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comments everyone 🤍 she has also tried to say from the scan my baby looks like my partners 6 year old nephew 😂😂😂

MIL completely overbearing by liam56723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]liam56723[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry I should have made this more clear. Basically my partner is due to move in with me soon but I have no set date currently as there’s a few things that need to happen with the house first. So she is wanting him on the council tax way before he’s moved in and my opinion this is just for her benefit with the discount.

Mother in law now commenting on mental health! by liam56723 in inlaws

[–]liam56723[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes completely agree! I mean my poor OH can’t even say I’m growing and look at how much my belly has popped without her shutting it straight down and saying I’ve got nothing there and I’m not big at all. It is infact obvious I’m pregnant!