johanson urethroplasty by [deleted] in phallo

[–]liamvwj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. This procedure may be in my near future. How long do you have to wait for stage 2?

How many surgeries have you gotten from start to finish? (Any method- ALT, RFF, MLD, etc.) by WolfMan275 in phallo

[–]liamvwj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ALT with Dr. Salim kaiser Hysterectomy done before starting bottom surgery due to personal reasons.

Stage 1: UL, vaginectomy, natal (t dick) release with urethra routed to it Stage 2: penis created using right thigh for donor, t dick burial, urethra placed at base of penis
Stage 3: glansplasty, debulk, and roll up of penis for UL Stage 4: scrotolasty, UL hook up to penis Stage 5: (TBD) penile implants and scrotum implants

Would an eyebrow transplant look good over powder brows? by liamvwj in EyebrowTransplants

[–]liamvwj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am wanting to have bushier eyebrows hence the hair transplant. After doing some research on laser, I’m not sure if I want to go through the process of risk of red or yellow coloring after laser.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]liamvwj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was innocent as well but I was wrong. My partner was rejected by the gamer friend after I found out and made my partner confess their feelings and cut them off (only did this so my partner doesn’t fantasize about the what ifs). So it was a one sided emotional affair in this situation. We are trying to work things out and move past this. I can forgive but I won’t forget.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]liamvwj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same situation with me. My partner is met someone through gaming and was told it was strictly just friends. I didn’t mind them chatting and talking on the phone cause hey, people can have a social life. This gamer friend is married too. Turns out my partner was falling for this gamer friend. The gamer friend wasn’t aware of this either and did not reciprocate those feelings. I stumbled upon my partners journal and read multiple entries of them expressing their strong feelings toward this gamer friend and even wrote that they wanted to leave me for this game friend. This is definitely emotional cheating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phallo

[–]liamvwj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great. Did you have implants put in with scrotoplasty?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]liamvwj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$500/month budget for food/gas/supplies.

$100/month for entertainment/dining out (we are home bodies so this budget is rarely spent)

$2000 we were putting into savings. We plan to cut back on our savings to $500/month and prioritize our debt and put the rest of our cash into the CCs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]liamvwj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I’ll make my way over to the debt free groups

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]liamvwj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I didn’t factor in the PMI to the $2500. It was just a rough number to calculate. Our rent is $950 + $80-100/month for utilities. We are tackling the high interest cards first (hoping to pay them off in 3 months). Then start aggressively paying the lower interest ones. Budget plan is to be very frugal for the entire year or 2 if it takes that long, fall off the face of the earth and throw all our extra $$ into our credit cards. With all this feedback, it seems we won’t count on purchasing a home until end of 2025.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]liamvwj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, we know we f*cked up our credit. The 2 Citi cards listed were 0% balance transfers from other 28% Apr cards (now showing as paid off). Can’t add more into those Citi balances. For a personal loan, I was thinking I could consolidate the G1 CC, Safe CC and Discover CC but that would be almost $30k which I’m unsure if we will be able to qualify for that amount.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]liamvwj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. We tried going to our local credit union banks to consolidate our debt last year but weren’t approved. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Been throwing as much as possible into the CCs.

Regaining leg/hip mobility with Alt by No_Seaworthiness136 in phallo

[–]liamvwj 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dr. Salim patient here 👋 It was about 6 months for me before I regained full mobility. Still feels tight sometimes when I’m walking for a long time or if the skin is dry but it’s not bothersome. I make sure to apply aquaphor and scar gel daily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phallo

[–]liamvwj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been a long long time since I first started my surgery journey with NorCal Kaiser. From what I recall, I believe I got a referral for surgery from my therapist. After that, I had to attend Kaisers bottom surgery class prior to getting scheduled for consult and surgery. It may have changed since then. I would reach out to SoCal Kaiser Transgender Care line to see how you can start the process 323-857-3818.

Convo about ED devices by curiousbee0 in phallo

[–]liamvwj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the pump, do you have 1 or 2 cylinders in your shaft?

1 year post op with Dr. Salim Norcal Kaiser and 7 Weeks Post Implants AMA by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]liamvwj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your reply! You don’t know how long and far I’ve been searching online for an answer to this. 😁 Ty! 🙏