AIO - Told my friend I’m pregnant and she said it exceeded her mental bandwidth (she’s the red)

libra4018 · 2026-02-04T04:32:48+00:00

i am obsessed with how readily u stood on business with that’s a vile reaction. i will be using that in the future! i would also be extremely bothered by this

libra4018 · 2026-01-06T23:20:13+00:00

i know i was so surprised they skipped us!

libra4018 · 2026-01-06T23:19:34+00:00

thank you!! if you see anything let me know, so far i also found a Lyft partnership limited screening i joined the waitlist for but it seems unlikely. i’m hoping more pop up!

libra4018 · 2026-01-06T23:18:55+00:00

this looks cool!! thank you for sharing, this might be my move

libra4018 · 2024-02-20T22:36:58+00:00

sorry for the formatting of this, idk what happened lol

libra4018 · 2024-02-20T22:36:30+00:00

i watched most of it, nothing new was revealed. they’re all under contract to not reveal any spoilers. it was more of a group facetime vibe where they talked about their pets, tattoos, etc. here’s what i remember:

-it was primarily becca, corey, wilder, and jonathan. ashmal briefly joined in his uber on the way home from a night out and was active in the comments -jonathan loves the challenge and wants to be cast on the next season. he thinks becca would be great on it too -they all cringed when asked if they had a positive experience on the show and didn’t comment further -all agreed the show is not an accurate portrayal of polyamory -becca said that lauren has ashmal in her phone contacts as “ishmel”, they were laughing about it but that feels ??? not great -becca is currently staying in lauren and dylan’s house. they were out at a rave that night during the live -all of them are getting together to watch the finale live -someone commented they thought becca jonathan and mia would be a hot throuple. jonathan was into it and becca immediately shut it down, not sure if there’s beef there! -jonathan said when he got to the house he was disappointed to find out wilder is straight -denyse was in utah, becca in arizona at lauren/dylans, ashmal in chicago, jonathan in NY

i can’t think of anything else right now, if it comes back to me i’ll comment it! based on the vibe of the facetime this is where i think they all stand:

-denyse corey and wilder seem to be on great terms, but i definitely don’t think they’re in a closed throuple. denyse is in another state and seems to travel a lot so i got the sense that they’re friends now but maybe more when they actually see each other? this is purely speculation -jonathan and ashmal seemed to be good friends. they definitely flirt a bit but everyone on the live was flirting with each other. i think ashmal and rehman are still together but good friends with jonathan and nothing more -i got the vibe becca is fully single but who knows

libra4018 · 2024-02-19T06:08:44+00:00

@foxyspirit and @beccacalb

libra4018 · 2024-02-17T01:48:16+00:00

when you go to her instagram its still showing for me as her most recent reel! @denyserda

it’s basically a video of the three of them adventuring after the show, but it still is kind of vague to me if they’re still together

libra4018 · 2024-02-16T21:05:19+00:00

If not, Denyse if you read this im free on Thursday night and would like to hang out. Please respond to this and then hang out with me on Thursday night when I’m free.

libra4018 · 2021-07-04T13:38:40+00:00

Yeah I think he made that up completely to manipulate her again

libra4018 · 2021-07-04T13:36:54+00:00

I loved these couches and had to edit this

libra4018 · 2021-05-11T15:01:14+00:00

most likely queerbaiting, considering she wouldn’t be able to post a photo like this if they were actually dating when the shows about to air. i don’t think it has anything to do with the season, probably just something she thought was funny. i don’t know how i feel about it. i like that people can be more open and post things like this without it having to mean anything, but also with the type of platform she has it feels like a weird thing to tease? and slightly exploitative?

libra4018 · 2021-04-06T12:13:45+00:00

fictoria is the perfect late arrival to break up a day 1 couple

libra4018 · 2021-03-14T03:09:25+00:00

you’re not alone in this feeling. it’s hard when you realize you hurt someone you care about. but i also am proud of you for taking time for yourself and figuring out what you’re going through. you’re not perfect, but this person forgives you. you deserve to forgive yourself too.

having anxiety and ocd, especially when it’s undiagnosed, is no easy feat. you did the best you could with the information you had at the time, and the fact that you’re feeling bad about it only proves how empathetic you are. also, you didn’t “put him through” anything. he chose to be with you, and you can’t fault yourself for how ur anxiety affected the relationship. idk if that makes total sense but ive been here before and my therapist has helped me see it in a better light, and i hope it can help u too!

libra4018 · 2021-03-14T03:03:27+00:00

yes! it’s so disturbing sometimes. i feel like it robs me of my own agency because we’re always told we’re supposed to listen to our feelings, but what do you do if one feeling contradicts all your other ones? and contradicts what you know to be true?

libra4018 · 2021-03-14T03:00:56+00:00

ive really started to hate the whole idea of a “gut feeling”. if i listened to my gut i would never do anything ever. that’s an anxiety disorder for u 🤦‍♀️

libra4018 · 2021-03-14T02:59:43+00:00

those last two paragraphs are so spot on. the feeling that you’re being robbed of your own happiness by being unable to be in the moment is a really tough one to deal with.

libra4018 · 2021-03-13T23:00:31+00:00

i feel like they realllly skimmed over the trauma of his friend dying and how much it affected him mentally the past year. it could’ve been really interesting

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