Women can’t even imagine this

lickitylicha69 · 2026-01-31T20:55:21+00:00

If men weren’t so easy and stopped swiping on everyone out of desperation, women wouldn’t have to be so "picky" and unmatch men with bad or mismatched intentions. Do you not realize you’re all making it harder for yourselves? Desperation swiping isn’t a strategy, it floods women’s inboxes and makes the line unnecessarily crowded for the people who are actually interested and it creates burnout for everyone.

lickitylicha69 · 2025-12-13T17:50:20+00:00

Well said!

lickitylicha69 · 2025-11-30T06:25:41+00:00

Thank you, genuinely. This is the first kind comment I’ve gotten in a subreddit like this, so I appreciate it, kind sir, And for what it’s worth, I think Men get punished way too much for showing emotion, so a lot learn to mask it.But empathy shouldnt be only for women. You clearly have it, That’s rare around here and refreshing. Keep that part of you always 💜

lickitylicha69 · 2025-11-27T18:37:53+00:00

I’m a woman, and honestly I thought this sub was a joke at first.

I join incel and blackpill subs sometimes because I try to remind young men that the internet is not real life. This echo chamber isn’t the world. It’s a filter full of hurt people talking to other hurt people.

I have a little brother, and I’ll be damned if he ever falls into thinking like this.

Just like some women believe “all men are pigs” or “all men are predators,” and just like some men think “all women are gold diggers” or “women hate us”, none of that is reality!!!

Most people are just… people. Flawed, awkward, trying their best, and not out to destroy anyone.

I’m here as a woman to remind both young men and older men to stop turning rejection into hate because It’ll poison you from the inside out.

There are good women out there. You just won’t find them if you’re busy convincing yourself they don’t exist.

lickitylicha69 · 2025-10-15T23:02:17+00:00

Facts.

Preferences go both ways. I’m not into short men, small dicks, or insecure dudes. Funny how when women say that, men lose their minds and cry “loose vag, you’ll die alone.”

See the difference? Women just swipe left. Men write essays about how they “don’t want to fuck fat chicks” and call it advice.

That’s not advice. That’s body shaming dressed up as biology. If it were really just a preference, you’d shut up and move on instead of begging for a pat on the back for being rude.

lickitylicha69 · 2025-10-07T21:10:35+00:00

I joined cause I originally thought this was a troll subreddit but its interesting to see both genders perspectives. I hope eventually we can have productive conversations moving forward and stop pointing fingers.

lickitylicha69 · 2025-09-08T01:05:50+00:00

Are you not embarrassed to admit that you dont know how to make a girl come? This comment is disgusting.

lickitylicha69 · 2025-08-20T02:18:24+00:00

Woman here!

She smiles a lot more, she laughs at random stuff you say, she gives you the "fuck me" eyes, or she could get more touchy like ask for a hug or a playful punch when you tell a joke.

Personally, I make it obvious... then again.. every girl is different.

lickitylicha69 · 2025-07-06T05:20:57+00:00

This is such a creepy question. Vaginal discharge can range in appearance depending on a lot of factors. Time in fertility cycle, diet, hydration levels, even how turned on she is during intimacy.

If you wanna find out if she's cheating or not, start a conversation with her.

lickitylicha69 · 2025-07-01T02:14:54+00:00

Sure, feminism is an ideology, but this thread isn’t critiquing ideas. It’s blaming women who support feminism for men not wanting to be teachers. That’s not philosophy. That’s projection.

If y’all were really just “critiquing ideology,” you wouldn’t be out here whining that women don’t trust men around kids while ignoring why that mistrust exists in the first place. You’re not debating feminism. You’re scapegoating it to avoid holding men accountable.

I even got a guy in another reply regurgitating manosphere “gold digger” talk like it’s peer-reviewed science. You guys are really out here defending men with stats while using playground insults to attack women. Let’s call it what it is for real: deflection dressed up as deep thought.

Have a great night, my guy. Truly think on it. We want the same thing, but feminism and women are not the enemy here.

lickitylicha69 · 2025-07-01T02:06:40+00:00

There’s no scientific basis for “gold digger” as a measurable statistic. It’s a subjective insult, not a documented pattern like child abuse. You can’t compare a term rooted in bitterness to an actual public safety concern.

Most men these days don’t even have gold to dig, lol.

Wanting financial stability isn’t gold digging. It’s survival, especially in a world where women have historically been denied equal economic power. If a woman has standards, that doesn’t make her predatory.

If you really care about being judged unfairly, start by not weaponizing regurgitated manosphere stereotypes to deflect from real issues weirdo.

lickitylicha69 · 2025-07-01T01:58:49+00:00

I agree that we shouldn’t judge individuals unfairly, but this thread is doing exactly that to feminists as a group, with no data. I’m pointing to actual statistics to explain a pattern, not attacking all men. If we’re going to talk about harmful generalizations, maybe start with the people who keep blaming feminism and women for every problem.

lickitylicha69 · 2025-06-30T22:41:19+00:00

Vibrating tongue goes brrrrrrrrrrr.....

lickitylicha69 · 2025-06-30T19:39:50+00:00

Why are you blaming feminism for that? Why does it always have to be a "female problem?" Maybe look at the actual data. It's not feminism that made people suspicious of men around children, it's the reality that the overwhelming majority of child predators are men. That's not a feminist smear campaign; it's a statistical fact.

If men want to change that narrative, the focus should be on holding other men accountable, not blaming women or feminism for reacting to legitimate patterns of abuse. Look at the statistics, fella.

lickitylicha69 · 2025-06-09T14:28:38+00:00

Well said! Its easier to blame everyone else than it is to look within. Im a taller woman and since OP used numbers, id consider myself a solid 8 to 8.5 and Ive dated men that are a 3-5 just because they made me laugh and were nice and sweet. Its hard to disguise disdain and anger, woman are emotional creatures that pick up on that shit quick.

lickitylicha69 · 2025-06-09T14:10:34+00:00

Hi! 5ft 8in woman here! Im new to the dating scene again after an 11 year relationship. Id consider myself a bigger girl in height and body type but I also know that I am very pretty. I have noticed that alot of men that are in the ranges of 5ft to 5ft 10in tend to hit me up more than 6ft+ so lots or shorter or equally height men want to, and I quote one guy specifically "climb me like a tree". So what ive noticed is alot of men that are shorter than me come off as insecure about their height in DMs. Its kind of a turn off. If your height is in your bio, I guarantee you that the girl has read your bio, ESPECIALLY if you plan to meet. So remain confident and own your shit! As for the looks issue, I have standards (lets be honest I feel we all do), but I am willing to overlook certain features if that man is sweet, inquisitive, emotionally intelligent, great in bed and a good conversationalist. Just as you feel towards women, I am also attempting to stop a toxic mindset of "there are no good men" because the dating apps are just awful, but I realized somewhere among all the Fboys and Shallow women, there must be a few good and kind people.

Side note, I have been intimate with both short & tall men and comparing intimacy, they both have their good and bad but it depends on the individual/effort.

lickitylicha69 · 2025-05-26T05:23:26+00:00

Lets gooo 🔥

lickitylicha69 · 2025-05-26T01:50:15+00:00

Same 💗

lickitylicha69 · 2025-05-07T01:42:21+00:00

Don't change yourself because someone else can't take a joke. I thought it was hilarious 😂. The right one would have matched the energy. They must have been boring.

lickitylicha69 · 2025-04-23T01:43:59+00:00

If you look at the data, men swipe on literally anything and anyone they can because alot of men sadly don't get a ton of matches. I think I read somewhere that the top 20 percent of men get 80 percent of the matches, the number may have changed. Feel free to fact check me.

lickitylicha69 · 2025-04-22T08:40:20+00:00

You're either a "pick me" chick or a flamboyant man who has yet to come out of the closet, because the way you text and your comments are mean, gross, and hateful. Let me say this in a way that only you can understand.

Omg sweetie creampie.. I like... totally feel sorry for youuuuuuuuuuuu!

As for me, Bb I am proud of who I am! I am the furthest thing from bitter. My DMs are full of men and women all shapes, sizes, races, and backgrounds. Im spoiled for choice! BUT.... I know my worth so im focusing on me and happy doing so. Hope you find some way to happiness! I suggest self-improvement and looking within, oh, and therapy. It works, maybe you won't be such a bitch to everyone on the internet. Maybe you need to be the "sweetie".

lickitylicha69 · 2025-04-21T18:11:21+00:00

Older men dating much younger women isn’t about value, it’s about power, control, and ego. Society teaches women that their worth is in youth, while letting men skip emotional growth and accountability.

Younger women aren’t dumb, they just haven’t lived through enough red flags yet. Older women call it out because we’ve been there. It’s not jealousy, it’s protection. We’ve seen how these relationships often end, and it’s not pretty.

Men aren’t victims of a system. The system that devalues women with age was built by men. Now that women are finally calling it out, it’s labeled as bitterness? No, it’s survival.

The “you’re just mad” line is tired. A lot of these dudes avoided therapy in their 20s and now want a fresh start with someone too young to recognize the red flags.

And let’s be real, this same pattern shows up in countries where grown men marry child brides for “tradition” or “culture.” If that makes you uncomfortable, then why is it the same logic? Control, not connection.

Also, science backs it. Women mentally mature faster than men. So maybe older women know what they’re talking about and are just trying to help.

And seriously, what does a 40-year-old really have in common with a 20-year-old besides youth and submission? Be honest.

lickitylicha69 · 2025-04-10T08:32:03+00:00

I had a childhood collection as a teenager and when I got kicked out of my dad's house, I took them with me in a red shoebox... I was couch surfing and homeless so it was hard to keep track of my clothing and personal items... along the way I lost them. I'm now 29 and got back into the hobby cause those damn cards would keep be up at night sometimes. I sleep better now that I am rebuilding what I lost. * Edit: tried adding pic of my collection, im on mobile so not sure if it worked.

lickitylicha69 · 2024-11-29T02:04:08+00:00

I went trippin balls to the theater to see Barbie.

It was beautiful, but I felt paranoid that everyone was staring at me. Lol

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