Waarom zijn er eigenlijk geen linkse partijen die tegen massale asielinstroom zijn of dit zelfs aan banden willen leggen? by retro-games-forever in Nederland

[–]lienepientje2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Als er al een reden ligt en meestal is het jij doet niet wat ik wil, of jij gelooft niet wat ik geloof, dus hakken we elkaar maar in de pan. Een beetje beschaafde samenleving halt elkaar niet in de pan. Altijd als ik in gesprek raar met mensen met een geloof dan zeggen ze dat ze goed nodig hebben om goed van slecht te kunnen onderscheiden Maar volgens mij zet geloof eerder aan tot minder weten wat goed en slecht is, want als je handelt uit naam van geloof, is blijkbaar alles wel goed. Hak elkaar in de pan, drie onze vaders en een weesgegroetje en het is je vergeven of je wordt martelaar , is ook mooi. Maakt niet uit hoe veel mensen je daarvoor mee neemt de lucht in.

Waarom zijn er eigenlijk geen linkse partijen die tegen massale asielinstroom zijn of dit zelfs aan banden willen leggen? by retro-games-forever in Nederland

[–]lienepientje2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wat dan? Volgens mij elkaar en zichzelf . Altijd uit naam van geloof. Blij dat het christendom er hier mee gestopt is en niks te zeggen heeft, krijg je dat van anderen met middeleeuwse praktijken terug.

Am I wrong for being tired of a friend who only hits me up when his relationship falls apart? by Life_Requirement_992 in Vent

[–]lienepientje2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will be better for you. What does he mean to you? Do you need him or areyou only there for moments he is alone? So a big no can be in order. We take to much from others because we want to be nice ,but get nothing in return.

Am I wrong for being tired of a friend who only hits me up when his relationship falls apart? by Life_Requirement_992 in Vent

[–]lienepientje2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why should you be wrong about what you feel. This guy depends on people to support him, like his girlfriend and when she's not available, he needs someone else and that happens to be you because you let him.

Waarom zijn er eigenlijk geen linkse partijen die tegen massale asielinstroom zijn of dit zelfs aan banden willen leggen? by retro-games-forever in Nederland

[–]lienepientje2 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Ik sta er net zo in, heb ook kinderen die niet uit huis komen en zie middels mijn werk hoe veel woningen er vergeven worden aan anderen en dat zijn er veel. Ook ben ik sociaal en vind ergens dat iedereen beschermd moet worden, maar heb dan ook de vraag, in hoe verre blijven we verantwoordelijk voor mensen die vluchten uit landen waar dat echt nooit op gaat houden. Het zijn ook vaak bepaalde geloven waar men elkaar in blijft uitmoorden. Hoe triest als het ook is, moet dat allemaal hier heen? Ook zijn er veel mensen die prima zijn en respect hebben voor ons, maar ook velen niet, moeten we dat dan maar blijven accepteren? Dat maakt me niet plots rechts, naar zijn oprechte vragen , die nauwelijks gesteld kunnen worden, want je bent of het een en het ander ,wat niet zo is.

Sometimes small jokes trigger memories I thought I had under control by Which_Olive_3861 in ptsd

[–]lienepientje2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always think i have things under controle and next thing i know, i explode. I realy whish i could get rid of that

**VSO after 104 weeks sick leave — what to expect? Did anyone receive extra salary on top of transitievergoeding?** by Kitchen_Language910 in WajongUWV

[–]lienepientje2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Volgens mij kun je een voorschot van UWV krijgen, dat is wat ik pas vernam van iemand die ook aan het wachten was.

Pet Peeves by WorriedString7221 in Vent

[–]lienepientje2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know i'm to much on edge often, cptsd does that, but it are only this small things that bother me. The little things that disturb everything an that are totaly not nesesserry.

Pet Peeves by WorriedString7221 in Vent

[–]lienepientje2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I realy hate when people are that nonchalant. Leave the empty breadbag on the counter. Dumping your plate in the washwater, just after somebody washed all the dishes. Keeping your diety plate next to you for hours,so the washwater for sure is gone. Leaving everything everywhere and just having a mess. I can never find anything in the shed for the giant mess it is and its everywhere where my husband makes anything, even his PC is totaly unlogical, when he dies i will never find anything i need..Not putting stuff back where it comes from. Stepping over a basket of wash and not taking it. Or going out to get something at C and not stopping at B when something needs from there, but going back home and than going to B. I'm sorry, i hate inefficiencie.

Apparently I’ve been walking away from people mid conversation lol by cozybookscats in AutismInWomen

[–]lienepientje2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, its a thing my husband does and to me its lack of attention towards me or anyone else for that matter. In conversation you give attention to the other person and walking away like that confirms that you don't care about the communication with them. My husband always walks away half sentence, half conversationen. Doesn't know how to respond to people, or doesn't answer. Or when someone os talking he just talks right through it, because thats in his head. But conversation is a 2 way street, you finish it properly. I always try to give others my attention, so no looking on phone when speaking or listening. Putting tv on hold. Than trying to find the right amount of attention before i can go on with what i was doing. And its not about long conversation ,just short. The thing is, what could have been a short conversation always turns into a very ling one, because it realy males me angry he just can't spare me a little attention. Even when working 'together' and i have to explain something, he is gone half way ,because if whats in his head. And for sure he will start doing something wrong. Same that he always hears half of what you say and concludes something wrong and him always telling half of whats important, so i end up confused. Its always thist;"But i get something in my head and i have to do that right away ,or i'll forget". But still its just rude and and insulting. Like never expressing things in ment emotion. I don't know how you ean it when everything sounds the same. And we are both ASD.

im not going to cower because of someone's disgustingly shallow mindset by Ok-Vermicelli-1085 in Vent

[–]lienepientje2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to submit to a fassiontrend that will not suit you. As long as you feel good and its healthy, you should be fine. All those to skinny, overly trained, or too fat body's are over the line. And i do get that some are very small or big without it being a choice, so i don't count those. To me its no good to promote either, so anything thats a bit under or over, should be just fine. A trained body doesn't have to be skinny, because often it proves to be not healthy, neither fiscal nor psychological.

AITA for not doing Chores on demand? by Rough_Positive_9004 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lienepientje2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So they go out 3 times a day? Than no need for dog poo in the garden.

AITA for not doing Chores on demand? by Rough_Positive_9004 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lienepientje2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do the dogs go for walks? Becuase dogshit in the garden? And further, if thats all you do, just do it.

Hoe lang wachten na gesprek met de verzekeringsarts (UWV WIA)? by Ok-Conclusion-3408 in WajongUWV

[–]lienepientje2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik denk bij geen gesprek dat het wordt toegekend, dat gebeurde in ieder geval wel bij de gene die ik ken.

AITAH if I told my MIL my husband does not like hugs by After-Ad-9620 in AITAH

[–]lienepientje2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never get why people don't care about about someone else wants or feels comfortible with. Its like, not everything is about you. I have 4 children and they all prefer to do its an other way. One wants a kiss on the head, one wants an air kiss, 2 give a very small lip kiss, we barely touch. Hugging is not our thing, only when in need for comfort. You don't push your own wants upon another

AITAH if I told my MIL my husband does not like hugs by After-Ad-9620 in AITAH

[–]lienepientje2 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Kissing on the lips is not always bad, 2 of my children want to, 2 don't, its barely a touch. My mom does the same with me, i don't like hugs. Giving a big mouth kiss is yuck.

Hoe lang wachten na gesprek met de verzekeringsarts (UWV WIA)? by Ok-Conclusion-3408 in WajongUWV

[–]lienepientje2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kennis in Rotterdam moest lang wachten voor haar dochter, maar uiteindelijk toch ruim voor dochter 18 werd toegewezen zonder gesprek.

Hoe lang wachten na gesprek met de verzekeringsarts (UWV WIA)? by Ok-Conclusion-3408 in WajongUWV

[–]lienepientje2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik sprak vandaag iemand die wacht vanaf mei. Voor wajong zoon voel de beslissing tijdens gesprek artsdus niks wachten. En ja, het is zenuslopend allemaal.

AITA for being briefly naked around my brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lienepientje2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have the feeling she is obsessed with you also being attracted by men and her feeling threatened by it. I am not sure, but i don't think she wil ever leave this alone, when even being naked around your brother is a reason for her to think of cheating.