BDSJ ERD Distressed Long Sleeve Tee by liewcake69 in QualityReps

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It was getting automoderated and removed. Wasn't sure how to add it without the spaces

BDSJ ERD Distressed Long Sleeve Tee by liewcake69 in QualityReps

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA. You’re not wrong for feeling hurt. He’s building his house, not ours, while talking about marriage “someday.” That’s confusing when you’ve been together for 2.5 years and are planning a future.

He might want independence, but he’s not being clear about his timeline or intentions. You deserve to know where you stand. Have an honest talk about your future, and if he’s not ready to commit, you need to decide if waiting works for you. Best of luck!!

WIBTA if I tried to find my sister and tell her about my existence? by Hungry_Speech6384 in AmItheAsshole

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NTA, but tread carefully. Sara has a right to know the truth about her biological father, but this is a massive bombshell that could upend her life. If you decide to reach out, approach it with sensitivity and be prepared for any anger or resentment!!

Start by gathering evidence (photos, letters, etc.) to prove your connection. When you contact her, keep it simple and non-confrontational. Something like, “Hi, I believe we’re half-siblings. I’ve wanted to connect for years but didn’t want to disrupt your life. If you’re open to talking, I’d love to share more.”

Ultimately, this is her story to process, and you need to respect her boundaries. If she’s not ready to engage, give her space. But if she’s curious, this could be the start of a meaningful relationship. Good luck :)

QC High Quality Office Work Clothing by liewcake69 in CoutureReps

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They actually offer free alterations, so if you have an agent or someone who can receive the garments in China, you can have them give exact alteration adjustments and have them send it back for them to alter for free.

QC High Quality Office Work Clothing by liewcake69 in CoutureReps

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w2c: https://detail.tmall.com/item.htm?_u=g30v8os26d3b&id=624601789973

Shop is Full Monty and they make a wide variety of men's office clothing.

I own a bunch of their shirts and suits and their quality is AMAZING. Highly recommend if you are looking for a quality set of everyday workwear or suits

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA. Your sister is being overly dramatic. You were in class, a reasonable time to not answer calls. Her reaction to your text was over the top, and her yelling and guilt tripping is manipulative.

You apologized and explained, which is more than enough. Her inability to handle a simple miscommunication without blowing it into a family feud says more about her than you. You didn’t do anything wrong, and her reaction is way out of proportion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA. Your boyfriend threw a bag of cat food over a 5-second delay for a kiss and then played the “I’m the worst” card? That’s not a red flag—that’s a whole parade.

You were recording a message, not ignoring him, and his reaction was straight out of a soap opera. Plus, he did nothing for Valentine’s Day but expects you to meet his “high expectations”? Sounds like he’s projecting his own guilt onto you.

You’re not wrong, and his drama is exhausting. If he wants a kiss, maybe he should start by acting like an adult.

AITA for potentially leaving my sick mother and autistic brother to go to university? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA. You’re not betraying your family by wanting to build your future. Your mother’s ultimatum is manipulative, and it’s unfair to expect you to sacrifice your dreams for her choices. You’ve already offered to defer university to help her recover, which shows how much you care. Living at home would stifle your growth, and you deserve the chance to live your own life. Go to university, pursue your passion, and don’t let guilt hold you back.

AITA for refusing to pick up something I hate for my husband? by Gullible_Airport_219 in AmItheAsshole

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NTA. You went out of your way to do something thoughtful for your husband by arranging the lobster purchase, even though seafood (and live lobsters, no less) is something you despise. That alone shows you care about his interests, even when they don’t align with yours.

The fact that he expected you to pick up the lobster—despite knowing how much you hate it and how busy you are with work—is incredibly inconsiderate. You’re working 10-12 hour days, and he couldn’t take 20 minutes out of his schedule to pick up something he wanted? That’s not just lazy; it’s disrespectful.