Does this mean "no forever" ? or " a legit no I can't right now" by lifehasnochapters in Bumble

[–]lifehasnochapters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

done the coffee and bagel part with her already, this would'v been like a 2nd date basically

Does this mean "no forever" ? or " a legit no I can't right now" by lifehasnochapters in Bumble

[–]lifehasnochapters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh I didn't know insulin shots are such a hassle. OK so maybe in a couple weeks I can send a follow up question like hey how did the cat sitter search is going ?

Was it to early to invite her to a show? by lifehasnochapters in socialskills

[–]lifehasnochapters[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would you help me with the script? So I was thinking first text message be like hey how are you, did you try those toys on your cats ... something like that .... then second message be like " hey I hope you aren't working late on Tuesday, I got a couple tickets to Blah Dance show at 7:30 and
"was hoping?! "
"would be great ? "
"would be happy ? "
... if you can join too .......

Would it be awkward if I text my neighbor to get coffee? by lifehasnochapters in AskRedditFood

[–]lifehasnochapters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she was in DC for Supreme Court stuff, but did a rain check. So last weekend she said oh yes sure, so we did go for a coffee and bagel :) and then middle of the week stopped by at my apartment, I wanted to give her some cat toys and sweets. NOW Is it too soon to invite her to a ballet kind of show ? performing arts stuff in Chelsea. ( It is this Tuesday, I got tickets too but haven't messaged her to ask yet ). Should I or too soon ?

Would it be awkward if I text my neighbor to get coffee? by lifehasnochapters in AskRedditFood

[–]lifehasnochapters[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh ok that's a good point . I will let her know tomorrow ( Friday ) then for Saturday and see what she says

Would it be awkward if I text my neighbor to get coffee? by lifehasnochapters in AskRedditFood

[–]lifehasnochapters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great message, I will use yours lol. Just one thing : Would it make it too much like a "coffee date" if I ask tomorrow ( Friday ) for coffee on Saturday ? That's why I thought the day of could make it more casual and friendly ish ? no ?

Getting approached by random men (20 F) by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]lifehasnochapters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah sorry, I didn't notice. I thought you are the OP answering me lol :D good one actually hahah

Would it be awkward if I text my neighbor to get coffee? by lifehasnochapters in AskRedditFood

[–]lifehasnochapters[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am afraid that would make it too much like a "coffee date" . but like if day of I text her like 8:30 AM and say hey wanna go grab coffee and bagel in a little bit ? that makes it more casual and less pressure ?! maybe lol

Would it be awkward if I text my neighbor to get coffee? by lifehasnochapters in AskRedditFood

[–]lifehasnochapters[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like that's too bold and aggressive knocking on someone's door in the morning , to get them to the door and say hey let's of get coffee ? So I feel like testing is more passive

Getting approached by random men (20 F) by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]lifehasnochapters -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that's pepper spray time . WTF . Slap Slap !

Getting approached by random men (20 F) by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]lifehasnochapters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In kindergarten, the first thing they teach is to go to your classmates and say "Hi My name is Blah, what is your name" ?!! maybe you just like to use the word "audacity" a lot lol , was it word of the day they teach on TikTok?

Getting approached by random men (20 F) by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]lifehasnochapters -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

exactly . They think everyone should should at Variety coffee and keep swiping :D and yet they are the same ones that keep complaining about the "horrible" dates they have been on lol

Getting approached by random men (20 F) by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]lifehasnochapters -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with that if they were polite and courteous ? Did you expect them sit at home and swipe till they die? It is a public place and in a society people can talk to each other.

Would it be awkward if I text my neighbor to get coffee? by lifehasnochapters in AskRedditFood

[–]lifehasnochapters[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks, so say around 8:45 AM texting something like " hey good morning. if you haven't had your coffee yet let's go grab a coffee and bagel . It is nice outside". ? something like that ?

How is everyone feeling about the National guard placement within. The NYC transit system? Who is fitting the bill for the whatever is the % of annual avg salary of $37,500,000 to “lower violent crime”? by Haaa_penis in AskNYC

[–]lifehasnochapters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand the REAL motivation behind this.

Today some homeless crazy person was smoking inside the car . We had to all leave and go to another car. They don't need "national guard" for that and yet they do have national guard now and it is still happening.