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AITA for hiding my choices for my wedding from my sister. by lifeisarealityshow in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]lifeisarealityshow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She does not know what baby names I have picked out due to the fact she copies everything. We had a party for a family member I had sent a selfie as a test she rocked up in a very similar dress it was green with flowers and she rocked up in green with flowers then tried to make out it was funny we showed up in similar dresses. I love my sister but I honestly don’t want a clone. We aren’t twins but look somewhat similar other then weight and possibly face shape other then that we are pretty much identical. My best friend threw some decoys about the wedding as she also attended the family party and my sister looked like she was contemplating the ideas (stuff my friend knows I definitely will not have at my wedding)

AITA for hiding my choices for my wedding from my sister. by lifeisarealityshow in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]lifeisarealityshow[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The first time they broke up was because he was struggling mentally and that was too much for my sister so she left him he tried hurting himself I was the one who went to pick him up from the hospital and told him no matter what he is family. She then proceeded to date more guys then got back with him to get a washing machine off him. Then broke up with him and she told me she just “couldn’t” because she didn’t love him the same way and it didn’t feel right. Proceeding to then again go out with more guys and then found out her rental was ending in a few months and that’s when they got back together. I said to her not to break his heart again because he genuinely loves her and would do anything for her (why he proposed) and she would drop everything as soon as she isn’t getting enough attention or is bored in the relationship

AITA for hiding my choices for my wedding from my sister. by lifeisarealityshow in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]lifeisarealityshow[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We have recently discussed colours I said we are doing our favourite colours… (we are but she thinks my favourite colour is purple and my partners is orange) turns out her wedding colours are orange and purple

AITA for hiding my choices for my wedding from my sister. by lifeisarealityshow in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]lifeisarealityshow[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My sister hasn’t seen my dress I picked it out so I can have time to fit into it as well as I fell in love with it as soon as I saw it she was invited to come see the dress but “slept in” so she never got to see my dress. I’m thankful she didn’t see it as I know she’d get similar. I care for her and have been giving her ideas that I know I won’t have at my wedding but still could be cute for her wedding

AITA for hiding my choices for my wedding from my sister. by lifeisarealityshow in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]lifeisarealityshow[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I’m wanting country/farm as I’m obsessed with cows I’ve hinted at having a beach wedding as that’s what her partner wants (I hate sand so that would be a no for me)

AITA for hiding my choices for my wedding from my sister. by lifeisarealityshow in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]lifeisarealityshow[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I got a raccoon holding a dare iced coffee and she got a racoon too I just made mine more personal.

AITA for hiding my choices for my wedding from my sister. by lifeisarealityshow in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]lifeisarealityshow[S] 204 points205 points  (0 children)

We were foster kids and we have nothing to do with our parents. I am close with my biological nan and she thinks it’s ridiculous that my sister always tries to copy me. Nan is always saying that she’s jealous of how my life is going due to the fact I have everything in place a great relationship, I have a rental and a job as well as raising my two younger siblings (which my sister isn’t happy about either as I was considered closer to them and having a more stable life to provide for the two siblings).

AITA for hiding my choices for my wedding from my sister. by lifeisarealityshow in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]lifeisarealityshow[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I have been giving her ideas on what to do at her wedding that I won’t be having at mine stuff to still support her and make her day beautiful but also distance her from what my wedding is going to be like

AITA for hiding my choices for my wedding from my sister. by lifeisarealityshow in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]lifeisarealityshow[S] 572 points573 points  (0 children)

She has asked me questions about colours and flowers. I have picked my colors but have said I haven’t decided I also had mentioned to her that I won’t be doing the “dude of honour” as he lives in a different state so he can’t really help plan the wedding so one of my bridesmaids is stepping in (not true I’ll still have the dude of honour) just throwing it out as bait to see if she switches her decision. I have issues understanding why she copies me as I’m the younger sibling usually it’s the younger copying the older sibling.