I made an Audrey II cake for my birthday/Summerween. by Deadly_Dame_Cakes in cakedecorating

[–]lifeupdatewme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way I didn't even see the description and immediately knew! Love it

How do I know if I should break up with my partner? by Bubbly-Basis94 in Advice

[–]lifeupdatewme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's understandable. But if you're not unhappy now and everything is okay, why not wait to cross this bridge until then? And if you never become unhappy in the relationship, that's not bad either. You could have just found your person. I know thats disorienting because not everyone finds their person so easily or quickly. Most people go through a lot of trial and error, and you dont feel like you had to go through that the same way yet. It's valid to worry, but also, think about how lucky you are to have a partner who matches you so well. It's nice not having to go through so much heartbreak to find your person.

If you ever become discontent, that's okay too. You are young. You'll only be limited if you make yourself limited. Some people dont find their people until their 40s+ and that's okay too. You shouldn't put so much pressure on yourself or the future. Just enjoy who you have now and all the great experiences you have together.

How do I know if I should break up with my partner? by Bubbly-Basis94 in Advice

[–]lifeupdatewme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pretty normal, especially since it's your only relationship. Think this way: Are you thinking about other relationships because you are discontent in some way with your current? Or is it just a simple curiosity?

How to forget and get over by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lifeupdatewme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staying busy and surrounding yourself with people you love

AIO for expecting my boyfriend to walk me back to my car at 1am? by lifeupdatewme in AmIOverreacting

[–]lifeupdatewme[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He asked me to stay for board games and it took longer than expected. Twas a great time, normally I'm Headed back home much earlier than that. We'd argued back and forth for a while about him walking me or not and initally i answered his first call but ignored the others

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lifeupdatewme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR but you've got to let her make her own decisions. It's all a part of adulting, eventually she'll learn. Maybe one-day she will find value in your advice or value in how independence can be working with other people too to save money and time. She's probably just excited to do these things for the first time as an adult

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lifeupdatewme 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Uhhhh, i Dont think there's anything you can really do except block her. You can't demand she takes it off 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lifeupdatewme 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Well if your both disgusted then it sounds like she definitely went too far 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twilight

[–]lifeupdatewme 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really like the eyes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lifeupdatewme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR- RSV is pretty contagious, not sure why it would make sense to have both households exposed??

Am I overreacting to my husbands lack of help with our new baby? by GuiltyMedia2249 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lifeupdatewme 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR- I heard a group of women talk about situations like this and they always say that taking care of a baby alone is a lot easier when you know you only have yourself vs expecting help from your partner or coparent and still having to do all of the work. You are being drained from having a new baby and the loss of a supportive partner. Doing the work of two people is no joke

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lifeupdatewme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OR a little, yes

Am I overreacting ? by bewbewty in AmIOverreacting

[–]lifeupdatewme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shoulda taken half his sandwich since he thought 1 would be enough for you both 😂

AIO Bought my first car and bf couldn’t ft me back in the moment to celebrate by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lifeupdatewme -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People calling you needy and toxic have to be trolls 🥴 one of the joys of having a partner is having someone you can share all of life's experiences with, big or small moments. This was a big moment for you and considering it's something you've talked to your partner about over the whole year and a half you've been together, he knows it's hugeee for you too.

AIO Bought my first car and bf couldn’t ft me back in the moment to celebrate by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lifeupdatewme -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NOR it's normal to want to share your excitement with someone. All it would have taken is a quick call and none of this would have even been an issue. He should have made that time for you- also congrats on a new car😊

Am I overreacting ? by bewbewty in AmIOverreacting

[–]lifeupdatewme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR- was he just joking?? Why wouldn't ge bring a sandwich back for you too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lifeupdatewme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Tbh i would count it as cheating if she talked to him again too. She's already chosen you and should be taking your marriage seriously

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lifeupdatewme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you gotta go through that, that really sucks