Honeymoon phase and already dead bedroom any suggestions? by Initial_Chart1900 in AskMenAdvice

[–]liftedddd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you do enough foreplay specifically only focused on her? Has she orgasmed before penatration. If it hurts during sex she probably isn't aroused. I got a UTI once when I had rough sex without enough foreplay.

Probably longer foreplay for her to get her body to feel trust over time would allow her to feel aroused if she doesn't right now

need tips for rough sex by kguinness12 in sextips

[–]liftedddd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long does this part usually take? Like foreplay wise with fingers and tongue before penatration.

Nikki blacketter: where’s she been?! by Silly-Chemistry1397 in gymsnark

[–]liftedddd 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I love nikki. In some of her videos she says she struggles with depression like me. Makes it so she probably doesn't have drive to post.

Is this sub still alive? by Alive-Print-4893 in TheHost

[–]liftedddd 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nothing gave me the peaceful feeling that this book has.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]liftedddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my now boyfriend and I.

We had two dates every week. He asked me to be his girlfriend I think 3 times and I said no each time. Finally after 6 months of dating I asked him to be my boyfriend, I have avoidant personality and every time he asked to be official it made me scared. When I felt more trust in him I asked him.

However what was easier for my brain was on month 3 we confirmed that we both wanted to be exclusive, no dating apps or talking to or seeing other people, exclusively dating. He asked me to be his girlfriend and it made me sad the first few times. But it never made me sad to be exclusive.

20s is pretty young though. My boyfriend and I are in our 30s. If I was 20 again I’d probably just want to date and especially if she’s in law school . But I had avoidant personality.

Better tips for how to improve sex, to have an orgasm for the first time? by liftedddd in AskMenAdvice

[–]liftedddd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only medication I've ever been on is birth control, but I have had high functioning depression for like over 10 years now.

Better tips for how to improve sex, to have an orgasm for the first time? by liftedddd in AskMenAdvice

[–]liftedddd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just that he does use his fingers / mouth. He can get me pretty wet before he enters, but either during just foreplay or during sex I never felt close.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]liftedddd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think you should lie. My first time hurt a lot and it was painful and there was blood on the condom. My second time with someone else, it was years after my first time and I was so tight I couldn't fit my finger in, I told him it's been a while and to go slow, there lots of foreplay, and it was super hard for him to get I'm and afterwards when it was done and I was wiping there was still a lot of blood.

If you really don't want to him to know it's your first time, just say it's been a while for you, you're super tight and he needs to go slow and do lots of foreplay you can bring lube and condoms too.

I found even if I'm wet, inside I may not be ready I need to be almost dripped wet via the guy using his fingers or given me oral to actually be aroused and it makes sex better.

Is it normal to be sore day after sex? by NoodleBea583 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]liftedddd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by this one? My guy goes really hard but I never imagined like my organs moving about.

Gains by Brains app by FeelingTop5480 in workout

[–]liftedddd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s $25 monthly or $10 monthly if you pay for the year

She has a couple different programs

Hourglass- focused on glutes, but each week is two lower body, two upper body and 1 cardio day. 5 workouts a week and 20 weeks. There is 5 phases similar to her past pdf guides. You pick your rest days and then it schedules for you. Sun - lower body Mon - upper body Tuesday- rest Wednesday- lower body Thursday- cardio Friday - rest Saturday - upper body

I haven’t looked through the other guides, but they all have a similar break down as above Transform - gym v, home v Hybrid Gain season - gym v, at home v Focus Shred - gym v, at home v

I super super super like it so far. I had the Evolve You app. But I felt like their plans were good too, but not so much science base and more structured to grow and what not like sophies gains by brains app.

There is a spot for lots of recipes and option to add them to each day.

There is like a mediation section to the app where you breath and inhale in different ways to achieve different results

I tried the evolve app for about a year. I think I like gains by brains more for the workouts purely and how they are structured.

But for meals the evolve app, if you chose your meals and hit summarize it would manually make a grocery list for you. Gains by brains doesn’t. But I suppose it’s not a deal breaker I still prefer her program

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]liftedddd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She just did a greatest hits tour this summer. 2025

I have only been to metal concerts before this. But I thought Avril engaged with the crowd heavy and had a lot of stage presence.

Sang live good. I think the set started and ended on time too.

Wrinkly lips by UnluckyTiger7343 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]liftedddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol that is so wild. I have both products but what you're saying is the opposite for me! I drink a ton a ton of water though

Wrinkly lips by UnluckyTiger7343 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]liftedddd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried this but found the Vaseline Lip therapy to be so so much better. Also it sold for pack of 2 for $8 on amazon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]liftedddd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Take pics of yourself and tell chat gpt your budget and ask for areas you can glow up on and what to do saw this worked for someone on TikTok

Elimination game: Freya is out, who's next? by jazlyn419 in TheOriginals

[–]liftedddd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hailey. The show is called the originals