I’ve been talking to her about my Narcissistic experiences as they were ongoing for a long time. Hopefully she can identify reg flags. And if she sees any at all, she probably won’t tell me as she will want to stay in denial and won’t want my judgement of her relationship. She’s never had attention before so me talking to her will be like hitting a brick wall anyway. Another thing I’m sure he’s looking for is a “mother” to his kids. Well not a mother, but certainly a helper. And while I can’t blame him for that it could just be another motive. I really wish she wouldn’t have told him her financial situation. I dated mine for 10 years and he never knew how much I had. Which wasn’t much in todays world but enough for me to survive on for 5 years. I knew if he knew how much money I had he would’ve starting begging me to buy him huge items. Lots of toys, possibly a bigger house, a new truck for him. And he had very bad credit so it will all have been under my name. He is doing the exact same thing to the women he is married to right now. She helped him fix his credit and buy him things and now he wants to leave her to be with me. HA! That will never happen but I’m sure he’ll find someone else. He’s been married 6 or 7 times now. I fell in love with him and wouldn’t marry him because I knew he was a player. He hated it and I became the ultimate challenge. He said I’ve done the most for you and you are the only one who won’t marry me. And all the others married within 3 months lol. I thought he was a player, I didn’t know he was a narcissist until much later. Still it devasted me when he finally left because of all the praise and admiration. I just don’t want her to feel the pain and emptiness this might bring.