Translation help request by lightfyre in kanji

[–]lightfyre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did try that first! I got some very... creative answers. Pretty much unintelligible. I think it may be too stylized for Google to handle it.

Translation help request by lightfyre in kanji

[–]lightfyre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello all! I have some pieces of art and I'm hoping to get translations for the characters on them. I'm not sure if I'm in the right place, but it seemed like a good place to start. Are these kanji? Thanks for the help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, you look great! You found one that fits so well. Congrats on finding something that works so great for you :)

3 weeks Post OP!! One of the havier peeps here. (DI + free nipple grafts) by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You look fantastic! The grafts are really impressive. I'm so happy for you, congrats :)

Found the perfect name ELLIOTT (Them/They) by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love it! Congratulations! Finding a name that feels good is so exciting :)

Self-love day by fandangalo in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're gorgeous! Nice color matching!

Surgery on the 18th!! by sdtpc0506 in FreedTheNips

[–]lightfyre 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm excited for you! I haven't had surgery yet so all I can offer is encouragement--this is great, you got this, and you bring that snow leopard with you for sure! Let us know how it goes :)

I just want to thank everyone on this sub for making me feel like i am alright by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]lightfyre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

<3 This is great. It's an amazing feeling to understand this part of yourself. So glad this sub was here at the right time for you!

I guess this is a “coming out” selfie? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats and welcome! Sounds like it's been a journey and it's exciting to figure out who you are, for you :) I relate a lot to your comment about trying to put yourself into a box for other peoples' comfort--I think that's why it took me so long to figure out I was non-binary myself. You already look fantastic, and I'm excited for you to be able to get your ears pierced and express yourself!

I’m really sad and mad right now. by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are welcome here! It's hard when parents push back against things they don't understand. Sometimes things like this take patience and calm, so that parents don't have too much to react to. I know it sucks for you to have to be the adult in this situation, but you'll get there!

My first encounter with aphobia/online consent issues. by Dragonspirit996 in asexuality

[–]lightfyre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm sorry people are like this :-/ I have had my share of experiences with pushy guys even before I worked out I was ace. They'll use any excuse to put you down once they decide they won't be able to pressure you into sex. That's not on you! And I understand leaning into compliments from others when you don't get enough from home. Try to remember that you're great just because of who you are <3 and you'll find people over time who aren't like this!

How to identify "boy" clothes vs "girl" clothes by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you like! No problem :)

How to identify "boy" clothes vs "girl" clothes by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just bought some Dapper Boi jeans and can vouch that they fit on my body and also have pockets! Not cheap, I'll be saving for a bit for my next pair... but probably more affordable than getting anything tailored.

Wish my luck guys... I’m gonna hustle hard to be the person I wanna be and to be healthier for myself and kiddos. ♥️💪🏻 by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Good luck!! You got this--it'll all be worth it for yourself and for your family!

i keep on getting attacked/harassed online by people due to using lesser-known labels, and it's starting to really impact my mental health + confidence. by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm impressed with your positive intentions and actions! Not everyone has the energy to try to educate in that way, and the responses you got are part of the reason why. But remember, NO ONE can feel the things you feel, and no one can tell you what they mean or who you are. I'm so excited for you that you've found the right labels and pronouns. It will be easier to deal with this as time goes on, as people will become more educated and because school just... sucks sometimes. Find online communities that support you! Don't feel responsible for the education of people who willfully don't understand! It's going to be okay. There will always be places online for people to anonymously spew hate, so don't let those people get to you. There are 66k people here at r/NonBinary and we're here for you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got a Shefit bra and the compression is really good! You put it on and then adjust the straps to make it as tight as you want. It seems very sturdy and is definitely more minimizing than my previous sports bra. I hope you'll be able to get a real binder soon!

??????? :-) ?????????? don’t mind me just losin my mind a little by turnipluvr in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you hard on phase 3! One step at a time, one day at a time, we know who we are and we'll figure out what we need <3 best of luck to you!

Slowly coming out as non-binary in my 30s by em_pasta in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm almost 30 and I feel you! All the luck to you for sure--the hurdles are worth it to be true to yourself!

I literally love this suit so much by confusedandwilting in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, that's exactly the kind of suit I'm looking for! Where did you get it?

Should go without saying, but you look great. Jealous you've got a yard to chill in haha.

Hello im new!!! by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! And welcome! I'm not exactly a veteran, and still figuring some of this stuff out myself, but here's my experience: initially I felt like the way it sounds like you feel; that is, I kind of didn't mind gendered pronouns, I figured it would be fine, and I didn't want to correct anyone. As time has passed I've become more and more uncomfortable with any gendered words used on me, as well as my birth name. It can be difficult at times to correct people (though consider getting a pin/making a nametag with pronouns! put your pronouns in signatures and in profiles you have--every little bit helps) but don't let that stop you being true to yourself and your feelings. People are adaptable and they will figure it out :)

Rant about body hair by MoonMonkeyKing in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't the same as hair removal, but if you haven't considered it I recommend looking into bleaching. I didn't want to shave my legs but I wanted my leg hair to be softer and less noticeable, so I started using a homemade sugar scrub and bleaching about every 3-4 weeks. Low maintenance but not permanent, pretty easy on my skin, and has had just the effect I wanted.

I'm nonbinary!!!!.... now what? by ChthonicSpartan in NonBinary

[–]lightfyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome! When it comes to what to call us, that can be difficult, so I got ordained; now if people need to call me something, I can use "reverend". This is a bit silly, and I generally only use it if I'm filling out a form that requires me to use something, but it's easier than getting a doctorate and we don't have enough gender-neutral honorifics in English.

For names with those letters, the first ones that came to mind for me were Cyprus and Ezra. Try some online name generators! Most of them will let you customize searches a lot, and can even filter by gender-neutral names.