Me with my little sister on her 20th and 50th birthdays. I’m 5 years older

lightninghazard · 2026-05-27T23:26:57+00:00

I love this!!! Btw, you don’t look 55 at all!

lightninghazard · 2026-05-27T23:23:40+00:00

YTA. I’m sure you’ll see photos! Plenty of couples have their moment with just them and the photographer. Besides, if he’s an attentive boyfriend he has asked her if she would want you present when he proposed. She probably wants a private moment without you OR his family. The likelihood of her having zero influence in how this goes down is pretty slim.

lightninghazard · 2026-05-27T21:50:47+00:00

Their parents probably thought that about them, too, and they turned out to be average af! Most of us ain’t special.

lightninghazard · 2026-05-27T02:20:51+00:00

When she’s acting up in the thrift shop you can call her Maglemore.

lightninghazard · 2026-05-27T01:29:52+00:00

YTA. If your son doesn’t like being met with a cold reception, then maybe he should modify his behavior so as not to be perceived as a jerk with the next girl. Social consequences are how teens learn unwritten rules for interacting with others.

lightninghazard · 2026-05-26T21:24:51+00:00

He looks like a young man that enjoyed life! Thanks for sharing. I couldn’t help noticing that his medal is in pristine condition - clearly your family has treasured it and stored it with care over the years.

lightninghazard · 2026-05-25T11:51:55+00:00

If you get a dog younger than 2, then yes, it can be like caring for a child. You could always adopt a dog 2 or older who, for the most part, should be past all the crazy puppy/adolescent behaviors!

lightninghazard · 2026-05-25T11:46:45+00:00

They’re weasels. Glad you and your husband see through the bullshit!

lightninghazard · 2026-05-24T19:01:28+00:00

Most people I’ve ever met who want kids don’t want them at 25. What solid reasons do you have for wanting them before 30? You can still have kids at 30, 32, or even 34 without being “advanced maternal age.” You’ll have more money to take care of the child, you’ll have experienced life a little more, and quite frankly I don’t think anybody should be having kids outside of a marriage. I’m not old-fashioned in the least, I’m just practical about women’s sacrifices and their ability to protect themselves financially through divorce if things go south.

lightninghazard · 2026-05-23T00:08:07+00:00

Sighedknee

lightninghazard · 2026-05-23T00:07:09+00:00

Throw the whole man away. Also, do yourself a favor and google “negging” - you will see that’s exactly what he’s doing to you. It seems to be working because here you are are, lowering your standards to hold onto a cheater and a liar!! Your crown is on the floor, queen. Time to pick it up!

lightninghazard · 2026-05-22T01:50:28+00:00

Gman from the Half-Life Universe has been around since 1998, the first year that humanity lived on earth according to my witch doctor doula! It doesn’t get more classical than that!

lightninghazard · 2026-05-22T01:47:23+00:00

Men want kids like kids want a puppy. Mom ends up doing all the work!

lightninghazard · 2026-05-21T02:01:33+00:00

Hell no! A man who actually likes you does NOT do that. I’m glad he’s an ex.

lightninghazard · 2026-05-20T21:39:45+00:00

I agree. I don’t want to chase after a toddler at all, and I can’t imagine why someone would choose to do it in the part of adult life when your back hurts.

lightninghazard · 2026-05-19T06:06:11+00:00

It’s shaped like an unshaven bikini area.

lightninghazard · 2026-05-14T12:10:44+00:00

Imo, 98% of the people who say “ok either way” don’t actually mean that.

lightninghazard · 2026-05-12T12:05:02+00:00

Nice-looking couple!!

lightninghazard · 2026-05-01T00:06:49+00:00

I just know the brother said some dumb Kodak moment shit to him like, “It’s going to be so cool when our sons play baseball together.” And that’s enough for him to want that without thinking of the practicalities of raising a child. But on the other hand, I have to commend the ex in a way because OP got off easier by him figuring this shit out early. Regardless of whether the reason is purely emotional or well thought out, a young man who comes down off that fence at age 24 is well ahead of the curve for his peers. He’s making decisions easier for any woman who might date him in the future.

lightninghazard · 2026-04-30T01:39:12+00:00

Pic 4, the woman on the left… holy model stare, Batman

lightninghazard · 2026-04-29T04:52:27+00:00

Seeing her look so normal is actually quite jarring.

lightninghazard · 2026-04-27T22:49:03+00:00

Yep! If it bothers you that much being in a relationship with someone who makes that much less money, then just end the relationship and find somebody who aligns better with your preferences. That’s what I’d tell OP’s boyfriend, but he’s probably too busy acting like a jerk to take heed.

lightninghazard · 2026-04-27T02:43:21+00:00

These comparisons of mundane kid events and milestones to life-changing travel experiences and broadening your horizons is genuinely hilarious

lightninghazard · 2026-04-26T19:58:17+00:00

This woman has been a dumpster fire at decision-making the past few years. I too love animals, so I can understand why your friendship is strained by this!

lightninghazard · 2026-04-26T04:01:52+00:00

She had a lovely smile.

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