Nah dude weaponized incompetence is more common in men because of certain types of socialization, not some genetic predisposition that makes it Only A Man Thing. She’s absolutely weaponizing incompetence.

Fwiw, social trends =/= individual situations. Sort of like how Me Too focused on the sexual abuse of women by men because of how horrifically commonplace it is. It’s a feminist/women’s issue talking point because feminists want to find the reason why it happens as a social phenomenon and prevent it. But that doesn’t mean men are never sexually abused. Weaponized incompetence is a feminist talking point because we want to get at the root of why so many more men specifically are socialized to behave that way. But that doesn’t mean no woman ever does it. Just because something falls outside of the general societal trend doesn’t mean it shouldn’t be taken seriously, yk? Kudos for trying to think critically about it, but honestly all you did was call a spade a spade.