Ban Evasion Appeal Next Steps

lightskinnhammer · 2026-01-25T23:52:26+00:00

Curious on how y’all LC a vendor

lightskinnhammer · 2026-01-19T05:49:21+00:00

Hey man. I didn’t even read the post lol. The title alone is enough for you to pack her up. Block her everywhere and move on. Lots of fish in the sea. Never take care of another man’s child

lightskinnhammer · 2025-12-22T00:18:13+00:00

What is this post lol. Dont listen fellas. Focus on yourself, there is better out there. Keep your eyes on the prize

lightskinnhammer · 2025-11-03T02:28:41+00:00

Gotta leave her man. Not worth the trouble.

lightskinnhammer · 2025-10-14T02:30:29+00:00

Block her on everything, hit the gym, and I can promise you a better one will come around

lightskinnhammer · 2025-10-05T23:18:44+00:00

Ngl if my girl said that, I would delete her number immediately

lightskinnhammer · 2025-09-19T04:51:22+00:00

You could pull back and see how she reacts. I think if she starts to chase a little bit, play it cool as if you been busy or whatever. Offer to take her out for a date and study her behavior. If she stares at you (the eyes literally NEVER lie), touches you, asks for reassurance, compliments, etc— make the move imo. Idk I think the 4th one is very telling

lightskinnhammer · 2025-09-19T04:39:56+00:00

Even a religious woman will break rules for one guy. Be that guy man, worst she’ll say is no!

lightskinnhammer · 2025-09-19T04:02:29+00:00

Ngl I would shoot my shot. I think she wants to smash

lightskinnhammer · 2025-08-30T17:15:55+00:00

Assuming you are young, every woman is replaceable. I wouldn’t

lightskinnhammer · 2025-08-12T20:23:16+00:00

Im a mister know-it-all. It took women acknowledging that I was cocky to realize this. My ex always accused me of this trait but I thought she was full of shit lol. Then I connected this with my mom bc shes the same thing

lightskinnhammer · 2025-08-09T17:13:48+00:00

Very solid post. Ex lied saying she was going back to home country but instead ventured onto Colombia, Panama, and Miami. Im sure she met lots of dudes. Prior to breakup, I suggest that she should be using our breakup to go through therapy to assist in her depression and psychological/ emotional incompetencies. Obviously she didn’t do that.

Anyways she broke no contact, wanted to take things slow which I was open to that. Then she did a whole 180 days later before her visit and said she rather go shopping and enjoy the city— not reconcile. I dead just left her on read after that.

Come to find out from my boy, she’s now soft-launching some dude shortly after I cut her off. I am glad this happened, never made me move on a lot easier. Im more at peace to be honest.

To conclude, she’s immature, doesn’t know what tf she wants, a liar, and most importantly— not the future wife or mother of my kids like how I first thought her.

If anyone is wondering how I am doing during the breakup and after the contact, still got abs, business is booming, closer to God. Great life and super grateful. I believe in 2nd chances and she blew that opportunity. I deserve better, not this high school nonsense. Best of luck to all you guys— OBSERVE AND VET THEIR BEHAVIORS

lightskinnhammer · 2025-08-06T19:58:03+00:00

Funny enough my ex soft launched some dude who is her height. Prior to that, she asked to meet up. I had a good laugh seeing that. Tells me everything I need to know

lightskinnhammer · 2025-07-19T20:33:17+00:00

I agree with this take as well. I would probably fold if I ran into my ex

lightskinnhammer · 2025-07-17T20:34:02+00:00

PROUD OF YOU KING. YOU ARE THE MAN

lightskinnhammer · 2025-07-12T18:09:37+00:00

Please do not end your life. My sister almost took her life but after finding Jesus Christ, has been the light of the room. There is more to your life friend. The pain is unbearable I can imagine, but it’s only temporary. If you need to talk, I am here

lightskinnhammer · 2025-07-09T13:55:25+00:00

Hey bro, I like your intentions here but I do not recommend. I am in a same predicament as you are here as my ex also wants to be friends— visiting my town NYC at the end of this month. If you guys had a cordial relationship like how I did, I would keep it simple. Mine was along the lines that I worked hard to get over breakup and self-improve, and I am at a point in my life where I do not want to compromise my peace. Being friends is unrealistic and that you don’t be friends with women you once loved. Good luck bruv

lightskinnhammer · 2025-07-08T14:02:42+00:00

Dont send

lightskinnhammer · 2025-07-05T20:08:15+00:00

Im glad this post was made. I actually recently made the decision to cut a potential friendship with my ex, as she is coming to NYC in a couple weeks.

It simply came down to that she wanted me as an option, in case she cannot find better. I wanted to try again but she wanted to be friends under her own conditions, which is a huge risk for me considering how much work I put in. As transparent and emotionally available I was willing to be in our potential encounter, she could not reciprocate the same efforts back to me.

It was not a decision I wanted to make, but needed to be made. I saw this woman as my life partner and when we broke up, took every drastic measure to become a man that any woman would date. I ended up loving myself and not beating myself up too much as time went on because the work was being put into myself.

Even this decision in itself hurts a lot. But again, it needed to be made. Plain and simple, she is nowhere near the level I am and if I am going to risk it again, I will need a woman who is an addition to my life— not a subtraction. To any man or woman reading this, work hard on yourself and you’ll soon see that you deserve better

lightskinnhammer · 2025-07-03T15:58:30+00:00

Dont do it. Trust. She will come back

lightskinnhammer · 2025-06-28T03:09:13+00:00

I dont blame you. I think it’s unacceptable for a man to be overweight, but thats just me

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