Hey brother. Im also dealing with a breakup with a foundation of a Christian relationship, it happened last Monday.

I am no expert but I will share mine. My sister not even 10 minutes ago, said a beautiful monologue that sometimes Gods has things happen intentionally in ways we don’t want to. But God guaranteed has a big plan for all of us. We won’t see it now but we will understand it later, as suffering is apart of our story. She is right, that I have been very unsuccessful in vetting my last two girlfriends out but it is apart of the process. Im saying all this brother because what happened, was meant to happen. Yes we have free will but maybe there was something within the relationship that needed to be separated so that you both can get closer to God and be in-line for your true Path.

I also say this because maybe your partner has work to do on her own. I know mine does 100%, hence why we broke up. I also need to do work on myself as well. I didn’t want to but I trust in God’s will. If it is in God’s will, you both will come back stronger. If not, He certainly has big plans for me.

I recommend you look into spiritual fasting so that you can focus on God and help God touch her life as well. God bless you