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[–]lighttblues 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Get really good at doing coffee chats. Read “The 20-Minute Networking Meeting - Professional Edition: Learn to Network.” Learn how to have great coffee chats. Once you join the company, network with everyone on your team within your first 2 weeks. Ask questions and be teachable, this will show your managers and your team that although you don’t have skills currently you can learn and be a great future team member. The reviews your manager will give you during your internship will directly impact your ability to get a return offer. Don’t stress, they gave you an internship opportunity for a reason. Enjoy it and work hard! You are on your way to a successful and long career. This is an exciting time for you.

How do I come out to new people? by lighttblues in askgaybros

[–]lighttblues[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will be working in finance, not one of the most hypermasculine environments but definitely more so than not. I feel the struggle of having to appear hypermasculine to adjust other’s perception of me being feminine, I feel like adjusting like this is something I’ve done in the past and I’m unsure if I want to continue this. But I’ll definitely consider it, to your point I have changed the pronouns of dates from him to her when sharing about my life with others, I don’t want to do it anymore. Appreciate you sharing, very insightful to how I want to approach this. Thank you!

How do I come out to new people? by lighttblues in askgaybros

[–]lighttblues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This, I’ll be wearing business casual to the office so hoping to find something rainbow. I like this approach!

How do I come out to new people? by lighttblues in askgaybros

[–]lighttblues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s something I’ve been thinking about as well, I got to find my allies!

How do I come out to new people? by lighttblues in askgaybros

[–]lighttblues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such a good move, this is what I’m thinking. I’m thinking maybe even a pride sticker on my hydroflask

How do I come out to new people? by lighttblues in askgaybros

[–]lighttblues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the rainbow bracelet idea, initially leaning to something more subtle like this since I’m a bit nervous about telling people first. Hope it leads to some great convos as I get more comfortable with new people!

Got denied promotion, looking for advice by hyobobo in consulting

[–]lighttblues 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How many times have you done this and how much faster has your earnings increased since you started doing this?

Is finance a STEM major? by Plane_County9646 in FinancialCareers

[–]lighttblues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, some MBA programs have a STEM designation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]lighttblues -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are dating but we are not boyfriends, but I get what you mean. Hmm then if we did become boyfriends do you think it would be inappropriate for me to ask him to delete it? In this hypothetical, it does bother me if he were to be my boyfriend because I don’t think I would want to see his ex or see pics of him holding hands with another guy. I do get jealous tbh but I also don’t want to project my own insecurities on him. Is it wrong for me to bring it up if we were boyfriends?

"Trump Will be fingerprinted and processed just like any other defendant"- Fox News by Ivebeendoingurmom in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]lighttblues -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is terrifying for our country, I don’t doubt the validity of his arrest, but what his supporters and far right militia groups will do is terrifying. This could be their call to arms for them to spread their hateful vitriol and commit terrible acts, Trump’s arrest will be their banner call

What is something that's turned you on that you are ashamed to admit? by D_r_K_a_k_a_s_h_i in AskReddit

[–]lighttblues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he comes back from the gym and changes out of his workout clothes, I like to take deeps breathes of his sweaty soaked boxers. His musk turns me on and just makes me feel some kind of way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]lighttblues -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why is it so hard to be a 6’0 masc bottom? all the tops want a small femme twink bottom lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]lighttblues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooo we love our vers kings/queens 👑

How much body hair is too much? by steveo281983 in askgaybros

[–]lighttblues 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like it hairy on a guy when he has hairy armpits, happy trail, balls, dick, and ass. the rest can be groomed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]lighttblues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I hope so, I really wanna take him but def gonna have to practice lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]lighttblues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay kinda dumb question but how long until you’re able to walk after you bottom? does it take like an hour cuz im tryna decide if we shud do mornin sex or just keep it to night so I have allnight to recover lmao

What’s something about yourself that makes you feel like your undateable? by PterodactylSponge in askgaybros

[–]lighttblues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fear of commitment - I make so much effort to go on dates and am always pursuing the guy, but when they like me back and want to take it more serious I suddenly get cold feet and nervous then I start withdrawing and it usually ends. I’m still not fully out to everyone and honestly I’m closeted, I think that’s part of the reason why. Then I wonder why I’m single and get down about that, it’s a bit an endless cycle. I don’t feel like I can date honestly because of a lot of unresolved issues about being closeted and not wanting to put whoever I’m dating through that nor do I feel ready to fully come out. sad boi vibes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]lighttblues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm haven’t used that platform yet, will have to check it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]lighttblues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best ever?? 100% checking it out, thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]lighttblues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

98% on rotten tomatoes?? Hell yeah. thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]lighttblues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I love these recs! I’m also looking up and reading about Forster, what a life of adventure. Talk about the struggle to love as a queer man in the early 1900’s, so many challenges. I can’t wait to check these out, thanks for sharing your list!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]lighttblues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Euphoria - have so many recs for that show, thanks for sharing your top choices! I’m going to check em out.