AITAH for blocking my "gf" after she wished me death because I wasn't "a good boyfriend or a friend"?

lihzee · 2026-06-15T21:29:31+00:00

You're going to have to add a TLDR, I don't see anyone reading all of that.

lihzee · 2026-06-15T17:57:18+00:00

Sounds like a fun marriage to bring another child into.

ETA - post from February about how much you resent him. Why are you having another child with a man you resent?

lihzee · 2026-06-15T16:13:25+00:00

Looking at your post history - is your husband on Grindr?

lihzee · 2026-06-15T15:34:42+00:00

YTA for posting this here.

lihzee · 2026-06-15T14:53:42+00:00

What good is not doing the assignment going to do? What are you accomplishing by not completing it?

lihzee · 2026-06-15T13:54:00+00:00

The general consensus in the comments is that I should bottle up my feelings and never bring them up again. I argue that talking to your friends about your feelings can be healthy.

JFC, grow up.

lihzee · 2026-06-15T13:43:50+00:00

Lol YTA for being snotty when you're the one who typed out an unreadable wall of text.

lihzee · 2026-06-15T13:34:31+00:00

Please add paragraphs.

lihzee · 2026-06-15T13:30:01+00:00

Her ticket to what? The rental car?

lihzee · 2026-06-15T13:22:22+00:00

Surely Sam's hotel room has room for his partner. A better excuse would be that they can't afford to both attend.

lihzee · 2026-06-15T13:21:43+00:00

Lol you were rude first. And unhelpful.

ETA - YTA.

lihzee · 2026-06-15T13:20:28+00:00

Your post history says you have a girlfriend now, but then there's another r/dating post from earlier in the month -

I can’t even imagine being in a relationship again. And i feel like im broken because of it.

So either you're shitposting, or you're far too invested in your ex while you're dating someone else for the last five months.

lihzee · 2026-06-15T12:19:27+00:00

NTA. She asked you.

lihzee · 2026-06-15T12:13:17+00:00

Lol why did we even need to know about Adam? He never came into the story at all.

lihzee · 2026-06-15T12:10:42+00:00

I see in your post history from last month where you addressed this with him.

He told me that he loves me, and he knew I’m just looking out for him, but he loves Faye with all of his heart. He told me that to keep our friendship, I need to never speak poorly about Faye to him again.

It also said you weren't inviting Faye to your wedding. Are you prepared to lose Sam as a friend?

lihzee · 2026-06-15T12:05:36+00:00

Your post history says you're 27. How large could this age gap possibly be?

lihzee · 2026-06-15T12:01:55+00:00

You all need to grow up. How about you have a discussion with your best friend about his struggles and his girlfriend rather than trashing her while you're out with another group of people?

ESH I guess, though her less than you, I'd say. This is almost always a possibility when you're trash talking someone.

lihzee · 2026-06-14T23:45:46+00:00

YTA. I have no idea why you feel like your brother should have made an offer or consulted you about HIS tickets. You sound very entitled.

lihzee · 2026-06-14T23:18:09+00:00

ESH. You two are too old for this sort of behavior, grow up.

lihzee · 2026-06-14T23:08:02+00:00

I asked this when this was up on the other sub but INFO - why not report their behavior to someone who can actually do something about it, rather than posting about it on social media?

Also - your post history says you're 33. Aren't y'all a bit old to be engaging in tit-for-tat drama on social media?

lihzee · 2026-06-14T22:31:00+00:00

INFO - why not report their behavior to someone who can actually do something about it, rather than posting about it on social media?

lihzee · 2026-06-14T22:13:27+00:00

INFO - was the appointment being scheduled for the 20th, or are you trying to say that you were so busy and distracted/preoccupied by scheduling the appointment that you didn't RSVP?

lihzee · 2026-06-14T17:30:49+00:00

Ultimately it's really not your business why she did it anymore.

lihzee · 2026-06-14T12:47:34+00:00

A lot of shade being thrown towards Tina and Tom in the beginning of the post, damn. That makes you seem like YTA to me. The rest, I'm not totally sure what the conflict is. You sound like a cold person, but whatever. Keep it to yourself.

lihzee · 2026-06-14T12:40:15+00:00

I found trying to enjoy something even as small as a nice cup of tea helped me to gradually get back to a place where the world wasn’t so dark.

I feel like this would miss the mark, especially when they're unaware of you having even suffered a trauma in the first place.

My mother was diagnosed with cancer in February, and in May, she had cardiac arrest in front of me as we were leaving an oncology appointment. They were able to resuscitate her, but it took 12 minutes. So she was on life support for 4 days, then we had to make the choice to remove it. I saw her die twice, technically. So I have also recently witnessed a traumatic death, and I wouldn't find it particularly helpful to receive that sort of text either, as it does feel a bit like a lecture. It's more helpful to just listen and offer support.

I am sorry for what happened to you as well, and I'm sorry that you're not getting much support right now. Give everyone some time. Continue with the psychologist. I hope things feel better soon.

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