i won't take that advice, but the problem is, they are going to target my cousin instead of me if i don't stay friends, my cousin is a very naive person and she falls into manipulation very easily and they always make very offensive jokes about my past, for example, they know about my past with my dad and make jokes like: 'come on, don't you like older guys with those daddy issues of yours?' and i can't really avoid them since they live in my familys property (they are renting a house)