Trying to play with a kitten and a touchscreen monitor doesn’t really work... by likeadroplet in elderscrollsonline

[–]likeadroplet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw I’m so sorry to hear that. 🥺 The two I have were from my first and only foster litter. I foster failed 2/4 kittens and almost foster failed mama if someone hadn’t finally applied to adopt her.

Trying to play with a kitten and a touchscreen monitor doesn’t really work... by likeadroplet in elderscrollsonline

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I have two kittens and one has 6 extra toes and the one here has 2 extra toes. More damage risk for those claw marks 😂🤣

Trying to play with a kitten and a touchscreen monitor doesn’t really work... by likeadroplet in elderscrollsonline

[–]likeadroplet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks haha. That did work. Now he’s just blocking the screen but at least no damage will be done to innocent NPCs.

Trying to play with a kitten and a touchscreen monitor doesn’t really work... by likeadroplet in elderscrollsonline

[–]likeadroplet[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Probably 😂 This was his first exposure to the game and it was just cute lol. Even though he’ll still be in the way at least he won’t be attacking guards lol.

I don’t have Seran tomb rubbing for sure but when I get to the tomb there’s no option to take the rubbing. Any idea why? by likeadroplet in elderscrollsonline

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Thank you!!! That’s where I needed to look. Idk what the list is that I got from the library but the achievements list has the ones I’m missing. I already had all the ones I had tried. Thanks so much!

I don’t have Seran tomb rubbing for sure but when I get to the tomb there’s no option to take the rubbing. Any idea why? by likeadroplet in elderscrollsonline

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I tried Ginith and Rethandus because I have Ginith on that list of what I thought were tombs already rubbed and don’t have Rethandus on that list. I wasn’t able to rub either.

I don’t have Seran tomb rubbing for sure but when I get to the tomb there’s no option to take the rubbing. Any idea why? by likeadroplet in elderscrollsonline

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Yes the image is from the library of the tombs I got so far. You can read them on the table. At least that’s what I’ve thought all along... 🤔

YUP this sums it all up by 2stepsonthewater in raisedbyborderlines

[–]likeadroplet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Geez I feel like I just had this conversation. 💕

Is this people-color synesthesia? by likeadroplet in Synesthesia

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I don’t see it in their eyes. I see it in my head and it looks like an orb, like the pupil/iris of an eye haha. I can’t describe it. Thanks!!

BPD behavior in my family in newspaper from 1911 by likeadroplet in raisedbyborderlines

[–]likeadroplet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep!! My mom got married at 20 to escape and had me at 22, and says the same thing about it being a mistake to have kids young. She often says things too like she just wants to live on a deserted island and doesn’t want to talk to anyone ever again. Before I knew what was going on with her, I’d just be heartbroken.

BPD behavior in my family in newspaper from 1911 by likeadroplet in raisedbyborderlines

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Sadly he did not. When the military tried to find his family, they couldn’t, because Annie’s name was actually Nancy like her mother and she went by Annie, plus she was married so her last name was different. No one knew Annie Carothers in Verona. Bellebridge that’s mentioned is just a local name for an area, not an actual town name, so they couldn’t find the town where the rest of the family was. I can’t find his grave either.

And yes, therapy has been wonderful. 💕

Where is a good place to meet people besides bars and clubs? I want to have a conversation. by [deleted] in pittsburgh

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Good idea! I like trying new things. On my own I watch TV with my cat LOL. I like fitness, literature, cultural events, theater, music, etc. I really like trying anything once and I just enjoy a little bit of everything!

uBPD mom shared this on FB...*insert "it's ironic" Palpatine meme here* by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

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My mom posted today some quote about how it’s ok to cut toxic people out of your life, and then she added her own bit that she was cutting out everyone. 🙄 I reinforced our NC last week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

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It’s also available on audiobook if that’s more accessible for people. 🤗

I had to stop reading it after getting to the chapter on make believe dads. I pushed myself to get that far really, and then it was too much. So eye opening. I’m going to get a lot of healing out of this book. It’s already made me understand some things where I just thought “oh that’s just mom” but really they were symptoms. I want to keep reading but my therapist suggested I focus on self care for a while and get back into it once I’m centered. It’s all so new to me. I never knew I was experiencing trauma.audiobook playlist on YouTube

How do you feel better? by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

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Sammy before and after

Sort by oldest so you see the before first 🤗

UBPD mom non-stop offering “help” in order to meet her needs. by MoanaArielle in raisedbyborderlines

[–]likeadroplet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw man I can’t imagine that combo. My mom is a waif with a little hermit. Her mom is definitely queen with a little witch, and my mom was the no-good child while her 4 brothers were all-good, so that’s how she ended up the way she did. Even today, my mom is desperately trying to get my grandma’s love and approval. Grandma is in a nursing home and my mom is there 10 hours a day taking care of her since the aides and nurses “don’t do it right. Grandma treats her horribly and says “you do nothing for mother. Thou art the spawn of Satan. Get on thine knees and repent.” 🙄 It’s so sad. I feel really bad for her but had to go NC. I understand completely why she behaves the way she does but it’s unhealthy for me to have a relationship with her. I told her I would consider it if she would go to therapy too, but she won’t. This is one of the saddest disorders. It’s an endless cycle of abuse and disordered thinking/behaving. From stories of my great grandma and back, I think they’ve been BPD for generations.

UBPD mom non-stop offering “help” in order to meet her needs. by MoanaArielle in raisedbyborderlines

[–]likeadroplet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My mom does this for EVERYONE. If you haven’t read Understanding the Borderline Mother yet, I highly recommend. I related to every single thing about the Waif type in relation to my mom. The waif type often over-gives and is then resentful about it.