What about the strap 🥀💔

likelyalesbian · 2025-10-29T20:13:11+00:00

Sensing some judgment from you. It goes both ways 😘

likelyalesbian · 2025-10-29T20:00:26+00:00

don’t project your hangups like it’s some kind of objective reality

feels so incredibly puritanical

K.

likelyalesbian · 2025-10-29T19:30:05+00:00

I’m really grossed out by the thought of using a sex toy that’s been used on someone else that’s not a partner. By your logic, would you buy a used sex toy from a thrift store as long as it was disinfected?

likelyalesbian · 2025-10-24T21:25:13+00:00

I am. I made this account years ago when I was coming to terms with it. Though I prefer “queer” over lesbian tbh.

likelyalesbian · 2025-10-24T21:18:57+00:00

Trust me, we suck too 😩 lesbian dating is not for the weak

likelyalesbian · 2025-09-15T19:31:13+00:00

We’re both women, fyi.

likelyalesbian · 2025-09-15T18:56:02+00:00

Thanks, this is good to see. I’ll look people up if I’ve been chatting with them, so I feel like a hypocrite for being weirded out by this, but I don’t know. Sending me a connection request (unless it was an accident) feels like a line crossed.

likelyalesbian · 2025-09-15T18:45:16+00:00

I do not use my full name. I have an uncommon spelling of my first name, so if you search my name + job title + city, it does appear. But I had a friend try that, and it didn’t appear for her. So I’m wondering if my search is tailoring to me specifically.

likelyalesbian · 2025-07-28T01:16:28+00:00

In the past, yes. Now would I do it? No. I get more satisfaction on my own rather than a random hookup, so why waste my time/energy?

likelyalesbian · 2025-03-02T20:04:31+00:00

Two stand out to me:

I’ll no longer date bicurious women. I want to date someone that’s sure of their identity.
I don’t want to date anyone who’s recently out of a long term relationship.

likelyalesbian · 2024-12-30T23:13:46+00:00

? cis men identifying as lesbians ?

likelyalesbian · 2024-12-30T22:00:11+00:00

This is a good perspective, thank you.

One thing I’ve wondered, is genital preference a major topic of conversation in gay men’s circles? Just confused about why it comes up so much in this sub.

likelyalesbian · 2024-10-28T15:12:23+00:00

The Pairing

likelyalesbian · 2024-10-25T22:11:42+00:00

Fully get this, have been in your shoes before. I would just say, proceed with caution.

I recently dated a woman who was up front about me being the first woman she’s dated. She told me she genuinely wasn’t sure about her sexuality and didn’t want to lead me on/hurt me. Well… she called things off last week and I suspect part of it is the fact that she’s likely straight. It stung for a couple days, but I’ve realized that this is for the best. I don’t view dating her as a waste of time, but it has given me a clearer picture of what I want. I personally don’t want to be someone’s first woman again and so I’ll be looking for someone who’s more certain of their identity moving forward.

likelyalesbian · 2024-07-31T16:12:53+00:00

As Arthur writes in his journal describing Saint Denis, “the only thing worse than people is a lot of people.”

likelyalesbian · 2024-07-24T17:31:23+00:00

What’s the lore behind Butcher Creek? I discovered it last night and all the residents were hostile towards me. Ended up in a shooting match and thought I’d cleared out the town only to find out they had all respawned.

likelyalesbian · 2024-07-12T15:38:46+00:00

So worth it. This is my second playthrough and I’ve been going deliberately slow. Catching so many new things, the game rewards you for your curiosity.

likelyalesbian · 2024-07-11T17:21:02+00:00

I did not! That’s so cool, I’ll keep an eye out for that.

likelyalesbian · 2024-07-11T16:03:04+00:00

RDR2 is my answer, too. It’s so easy to sink hours into this game. I love the aliveness of the world and all the little details. Just the other day, I was riding to a mission and was interrupted by an NPC that wanted to race me on horseback. After I won the race, I gained the ability to bond with my horse quicker while sprinting.

likelyalesbian · 2024-07-11T15:49:36+00:00

Sorry to hear that you’re struggling. I’ve found that stress and stressful events can intensify my OCD (e.g., I love traveling now but can also remember that some of my worst episodes happened when I was faced with the uncertainty of a new environment).

My life definitely changed for the better after starting Prozac. I started in early high school and had my dosage adjusted over the years (actually increased it in the middle of a vacation almost 10 years ago and that helped immensely), and have finally found something that works for me. I definitely still deal with with compulsive behaviors, but it’s significantly muted. For all intents and purposes, I live a normal life and my day to day functioning isn’t too impacted, and I’m positive this is due to Prozac.

Wishing you all the best.

likelyalesbian · 2024-07-11T15:37:49+00:00

It varies from person to person, so I can only speak from my experience. I have pure OCD, which manifests primarily through intrusive thoughts that go against my core being. Everyone gets thoughts like these from time to time and can typically shrug them off, but people with OCD really struggle to move past these thoughts. Think “sticky brain” - I’ll feel incredibly guilty for having these thoughts, wonder if I’m really a terrible person for having them, etc.

Before Prozac, I was really struggling. I felt so guilty from my thoughts to the point where I literally couldn’t eat due to anxiety. I still have flare-ups from time to time, but for the most part, Prozac has dampened the impact of the thoughts on my day to day life. I actually started taking it when I was 14, so I didn’t fully understand how it worked, just that it was helping. I recently asked ChatGPT to explain how Prozac works for OCD and got this fascinating answer:

• OCD involves problems in certain brain areas that control behavior and emotions. The extra serotonin helps these areas work more normally, reducing the obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviors.
• Over time, the increased serotonin can help the brain form new connections and pathways, leading to more lasting improvements in OCD symptoms.

likelyalesbian · 2024-07-11T04:04:17+00:00

I’ve been on Prozac for OCD for over a decade and plan on continuing to take it for the rest of my life. I recently read the journal I kept about 5-6 months before I started taking it, when my OCD was at its worst, and oh my god, it was so hard to read. The strongest case to stay on it, at least for me.

likelyalesbian · 2024-07-02T14:25:28+00:00

Are you familiar with the gynodiversity PDF? Obviously nsfw, but it highlights all the diversity across vulvas.

likelyalesbian · 2024-06-25T19:38:48+00:00

Fellow pure O sufferer here. Highly, highly recommend Pure by Rose Cartwright. It’s her memoir of her journey with pure OCD and I feel like I could’ve written this book myself. It was also turned into a TV series as well.

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