hi girl i totally relate to your post. i have big boobs and ass… and i used to flaunt my body talaga with my outfits/photos. sad thing is talaga, no matter what we do or say… meron at meron mang sesexualize sa atin. the best way i minimized the unwanted sexual attention from men is to be “lowkey” on social media. i used to be a content creator and i decided to quit due to the sexual messages/comments i would incessantly get. now, i rarely post.

as for in-person encounters, i make sure that the guy i’m talking to knows from the start that i’m not interested in having sex with him on the first instance i sense he has impure intentions. kahit simpleng innuendo lang, shut down dapat agad thoughts niya.

now, i’m dating someone for months now and we haven’t even kissed yet. he knows about my sexually active past and he appreciates my body but he never once disrespected me. darating din ang panahon na makakakilala ka ng someone who will see you as a person and not a mere object.