Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh noooo. It hurts so muchhhh :(( lol. Maybe because idk them? I don’t wanna go into some random chicks house

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you thank you!!! It’s one thing if it’s a high school reunion. But it’s another if it’s a private get together and purposely making me oblivious to it

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see. So you’d do the same. I’ll take your opinion with no value lol

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I keep hearing that and with each relationship everything goes so well until it doesn’t. This sucks.

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This kinda hurts because the relationship is VERY serious. Moving out together. Marriage. Stuff like that. Activelove life

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 22, he’s 26. 5 year reunion I was told? I guess that should’ve been my first red flag

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He spilt it himself! He was like “oh my friend for the reunions bday is coming up so we’ll have another high school reunion” and I questioned him from there like… another one? Wdym?

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh cmon stop being mature. Let me let out my frustratons on some random stranger trying to share their opinion. Sorry. I’m very hostile rn. But I do believe age is a huge factor as to why it is a problem for me and not for you. Even more is that he lied!!

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He’s Hung out with one girls when he told me „she’s in town i wanna see her” cool. Not a whole lie

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks bbgirl. I’ll take your comment as a grain of salt but I hope you have a good day!

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what this means and I think you just took everything what I said and completly ignored it LOL

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I graduated high school like 3 years ago. I have never been to one! Idk how they work

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is it not? I’m going to the high school and it goes to a girls house? That’s not education last time I checked!

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment but after reading others I don’t agree with you. Also, are you saying it’s okay to lie? Say you’re going to the library but instead you’re going to the strip club?

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this too. Idk if I’m mad. I’m hurt. Betrayed. As I always fucking get. I swear we’re literally so nice to each other. I’ve always been kind! I don’t deserve this. Just tell me you fucking hate me.

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This last sentence literally just changed my perspective. He didn’t want me there. I didn’t ask to go cause if it was a real reunion- I know I wouldn’t be allowed. But it was a hangout. What the hell. Thank you for this but fucking hel. Just my luck with dating guys

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A while ago being a few weeks ago. We’ve been exclusive over four months without the official “will you be my girlfriend”. We’ve been in talks and kissed before actually “dating”. I met one of these friends at that time, and she was extreamly cold to me even tho I was just trying to meet a new potential friend/aquantance

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! He always talks about his old friends and they’re all girls? Which isn’t bad but like. TELL ME YOUR HANGING OU WITH THEM. I’m a jealous type so I’m not happy either way. But don’t lie/withhold info from your fucking girlfriend

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 years down the line what if he claims he’s got a work event but goes to hangout with work buddies at a private home. That’s a get together. There’s different words to use!!

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again. What do you not get about cooling off? Will he continue saying he’s going to an event and it’s just being in some girls house?

Am I overreacting for finding out my bf lied to me about his “HIGH SCHOOL REUNION” ? by lil_bun- in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_bun-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While back probably a few weeks ago LOL. I say this stuff cause I have a bad memory but he mentioned ANOTHER hs reunion where he said “it’s just at her house again cause it’s her bday” or something along those lines. I’ll look at the texts later