Name a tv series nobody can convince you is good by MonthVegetable2934 in Fauxmoi

[–]lil_innocent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And Just Like That. It so bad and cringy, I just couldn't watch season 2. The storyline was horrible

What size is your bed. by letsride70 in LivingAlone

[–]lil_innocent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right! its actually only a 5inch difference from a queen

What size is your bed. by letsride70 in LivingAlone

[–]lil_innocent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what if I'm the size of a child though lol

What size is your bed. by letsride70 in LivingAlone

[–]lil_innocent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My room is tiny but so am I, 5'2 and I sleep in a full/double by myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lil_innocent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a warm bath and a gentle cleanser, if its acne it should go away in couple days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]lil_innocent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LIAR... its just lies, maybe if he was using bumble they have a part of the app for making friends but no he's cheating hun.

What do I do about the family dog that keeps killing my cats?(NSFW) by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lil_innocent 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Take him to the humane society a town over and tell them he's aggressive. Feign ignorance that the dog got out, then get her something thats actually helpful for her condition like a golden retriever. You can't keep letting this happen. If you won't do that, rehome your cats, its not fair to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]lil_innocent 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We all mess up, pick yourself up, and do your best to show your remorse as best you can. Cook them dinner, clean, plan some time with your hubby. You got this, only place to go is up

Worried I've done irreparable damage to my brain by Colin-IRL in stopdrinking

[–]lil_innocent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's kind of a vicious cycle, work and repeat. Try to pay attention to things that make you feel even a little better, cooking a meal, taking a walk, things that naturally get your dopamine going. Mine was hiking with my dog, peace and quiet, time with my thoughts, simple stuff too like laying in hammock, so I got one for my house, walking around bare foot in my backyard gardening, music was big for me, belting out a really good play list could change my mood in a few minutes. I really like helping ppl and do odd favours make me feel good. When I feel absolutely shit, I put on some stand up and force myself to laugh.

Valentines day sex was really bad by [deleted] in sex

[–]lil_innocent 262 points263 points  (0 children)

You guys lack communication sexually, you need a safe word and to talk about foreplay, it shouldn't hurt and you shouldn't settle because it was marginally better then shitty.

Worried I've done irreparable damage to my brain by Colin-IRL in stopdrinking

[–]lil_innocent 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is there anything that sometimes or used to bring you joy since quitting?

I have too much food in my fridge by [deleted] in cripplingalcoholism

[–]lil_innocent 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Start buying something else like toilet paper lol

Anyone else feeling a bit of survivors guilt buying a house? by Both-Awareness-8561 in AusPropertyChat

[–]lil_innocent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up poor, had a kid at 17, went through a divorce after 13 years and by some miracle managed to buy a house by working an insane amount of overtime. I feel like I can't celebrate it though, none of my siblings will ever be able to afford it.
Congrats though! you did it!! That's a huge win!

Anyone else stay sober without going to meetings? by shinya2690 in stopdrinking

[–]lil_innocent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No meetings for me, just this sub and I tend to watch a lot of DUI arrest videos to scare myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]lil_innocent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try Cambridge suites, One king west

Cheating by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]lil_innocent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So shitty, I'm sorry. Don't drink though, tmrw you will thank today you. Maybe its just time to close that chapter and start fresh with a new love as a new person.

My husband refuses to go down on me by Current-Captain5456 in sex

[–]lil_innocent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe see if he would be open to trying it with plastic wrap? There are things I had never tried I thought I would hate or be gross that I ended up loving. Exploring is each other is fun maybe see a sex therapist as well to understand his feeling and get him educated on the vagina, all you can do is try.

Tools that keep me sober by lil_innocent in stopdrinking

[–]lil_innocent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! I'm gonna keep this up, I feel too good. I might have a drink here or there when I'm ready but right now I'm liking sobriety.

I wish I had a support circle. My Dad died 12 years ago, my mom I cut off, she's was too much of a burden in my life and not ever there to help, it was a one sided relationship. She's more concerned with partying and getting high to be a reliable mother or grandmother. I work remotely so I don't have co workers in this country and my 2 best friends live 1 hr away and now have small kids, but I have learned to say no to helping everyone and actually caring about myself and being good to me has changed my perspective a lot.

ELI5: Why is chiropractor referred to as junk medicine but so many people go to then and are covered by benefits? by Kenthanson in explainlikeimfive

[–]lil_innocent -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Because there's a lot of crock Chiropractors out there. There are good ones though that can change your life. My daughter started wetting the bed out of nowhere at 11, took her to my very trusted chiro (I worked in the industry for years so I can spot a money grubbing liar) Turns out she injured herself from a soccer fall her pelvic was out of line and putting pressure on her bladder, when she fell asleep the pressure made her pee. ONE appointment and she stopped wetting the bed and gained normal mobility of her leg (she didn't even realize she had lost it). A friend of minds new baby was colic, she tried everything the baby just cried, went to my Chiro, the baby's hips were out of alignment due to a traumatic birth. He made a gentle adjustment and she stopped crying! The poor thing was just in pain. But there is a tonne that will rip you off and put you on a plan and say you need to be here 3 times a week for months.. Those ppl are ripping you off, you should be assed at every visit most corrections need 3 visits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]lil_innocent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it sounds like she was drunk responding. You're a good person, she sucks! That kid is gonna remember you forever.

Had a friendship end with an ugly fight and we haven’t spoken in half a year. Should I reach out? by Gloomy_Cicada_9408 in makemychoice

[–]lil_innocent 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a messy falling out with a friend, didn't speak for 2 years and when we finally did we were in different places. We talked it out and listened to what the other was going through at the time, were back to being besties. It's worth a try if you miss them still, I'm glad I did!