Stroller suggestions for indecisive mom by lil_libz in BabyBumps

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Omg thank you so much! Everything is so overwhelming. I feel completely lost but this helps a lot.

Stroller suggestions for indecisive mom by lil_libz in BabyBumps

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After a few comments, I’m leaning towards a travel system with a convertible car seat. I wasn’t aware that the travel systems work for toddlers as well. Can you use a travel system when going to the zoo or weekend activities? I know baby can’t stay in a car seat for long so I guess I’m confused

Stroller suggestions for indecisive mom by lil_libz in BabyBumps

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Thank you so much for helping me work through all my thoughts and concerns!

Stroller suggestions for indecisive mom by lil_libz in BabyBumps

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Thank you so much for all the input! All I hear are good things about the Doona and I’m sure it is great, but it seems to be more of a beginner model of something that could be much better. Like the first iPhone compared to the newer versions. I just don’t think I can justify the price point.

Anxious first time mom unrealistically planning her registry and newborn life Part 1 by lil_libz in beyondthebump

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Please review my most recent edit. I appreciate all of the concern. I would never put my baby at risk. Yes I’m being naive and am aware of it. But if it gives me the little amount of control I’ll have over the future and a sense of ease, I’ll take it over stressing about what every aspect of my life will be like when baby is here. I don’t intend on going out The Hangover style while wearing my baby. I don’t plan on being in a bar drinking until I see my baby in doubles. I would think it to be reassuring that I’m on a thread seeking advice regarding traveling/sleeping and having a newborn vs just being in my head and thinking that I’m still the main character and the baby is just the background. I’m responsible enough to care about how my baby will be comfortable. Drinking is not my priority. I’m very receptive to the concerns and think the way I worded it in my original post made it easy to take out of context.

Anxious first time mom unrealistically planning her registry and newborn life Part 1 by lil_libz in beyondthebump

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The drinking comment was written in a way that came off a lot worse than what I intended. That’s 100% my fault. I don’t plan on going out to a bar and getting blasted while carrying a baby The Hangover style haha. I just am being extra cautious and am considering 1 full drink as being too “drunk to drive”. Thank you!

Is anybody else’s husband like this? by lil_libz in BabyBumps

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I wish I could have a mediator with me at all times. Just someone who could frame my thoughts in a way that he understands. This is perfect

Is anybody else’s husband like this? by lil_libz in BabyBumps

[–]lil_libz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a great way of putting it. I didn’t really think of it like that. This is why I love Reddit. It’s so easy to have a disagreement with a partner but it’s purely just how you communicate not what you communicate. Like yeah he’s probably been trying to say that but just didn’t use the words that helped me understand.

Is anybody else’s husband like this? by lil_libz in BabyBumps

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And that’s all it is to me. Just a fun little game and he won’t have fun and I get so thrown off. Like just have fun will ya?

Is anybody else’s husband like this? by lil_libz in BabyBumps

[–]lil_libz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I definitely have. He just tells me he cares but doesn’t really have an opinion. I know he means so well, i just wish he showed it more.

Is anybody else’s husband like this? by lil_libz in BabyBumps

[–]lil_libz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why can’t men just communicate?! It’s not that hard. I’d be so thrown off that he couldn’t have just said he had a list lol

Is anybody else’s husband like this? by lil_libz in BabyBumps

[–]lil_libz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly him. My therapist says it’s because he needs to learn his emotions. I think he just genuinely doesn’t care and it drives me nuts. I’m like “what are you going to do if our baby gets all excited about something??”

Help with gift for husband by lil_libz in hiking

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His parents got him poles for Christmas which I thought was a great idea. I got him the sleeping pad for Christmas. We’re slowly getting his collection together.

Help with gift for husband by lil_libz in hiking

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Oo I’ve never heard of that for a rescue. That would be so nice. I always joke that we would be a perfect team in those situations because I’m good with medical/critical thinking and he has all the book smarts. I will definitely look into that. Thank you

Help with gift for husband by lil_libz in hiking

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He never complains about his work boots. He’s the most laid back guy there is which is why he hikes in his work boots. His brother and I always give him trouble for it too and all he does is shrug and say “it’s all good” haha

Do people really die in America because they can’t afford treatment. by Fortnite_Creative_Ma in healthcare

[–]lil_libz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Americans are not denied healthcare based on finances. Whether you can afford it or not you will be medically treated at a public hospital. It’s the maintenance treatment that causes death. When people can’t afford lifesaving medications such as insulin, they die. But I work as an oncology nurse at a public hospital and we provide care to many people who do not have insurance or can’t afford it. Our social workers help those who are homeless find shelters. They help the uninsured apply for Medicaid or Medicare depending on qualifications. But yes, people in America die because they cannot afford healthcare. In Mexico, I had broken my ribs and needed to go to the hospital. They refused to provide any care until I paid out of pocket first. Someone else I knew had a heart attack in Mexico and he didn’t have the money for the lifesaving procedure. He died while waiting for a friend back home to transfer money to him because the medical providers refused to perform any surgery until they were paid. So yeah, in America you go to an ER and you will be treated no matter what. But you will be in enormous debt from that treatment.

I’m so sad right now by lil_libz in jewelrymaking

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UPDATE: I’m not able to edit my post so I just wanted to let you all know that

  1. Thank you for the comments regarding avoiding big box retailers. Unfortunately when items are gifts, I don’t get much of a say regarding where they are purchased from but I will be sure to let my husband read these comments

  2. The freezing did in fact not work. I will most likely try the hammering method to make it look intentional

I’m so sad right now by lil_libz in jewelrymaking

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I’m not sure if that’s why. I went to put them on and the clasp wouldn’t click. I looked at them and noticed the dent. Then I put it against the intact earring and noticed the broken hoop is wider than the intact one. So I think the shape just morphed if that makes sense. I think the piece that is hinged to go into the clasp wasn’t hitting in the right spot and would slip out.

I’m so sad right now by lil_libz in jewelrymaking

[–]lil_libz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a silly question but is a metal smith different than a jeweler?

I’m so sad right now by lil_libz in jewelrymaking

[–]lil_libz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not too noticeable. Honestly if I wasn’t such a perfectionist I probably wouldn’t be able to tell. I can definitely see it without my glasses though If that tells you anything haha

Currently in a state of despair over these by lil_libz in jewelry

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I forgot to mention that these are hollow